tazzygirl
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Heather Its been my experience that what a man may own up too in public isnt always how its gonna be in private. But, thats just they are.. some of them anyways. Maybe its just me but I have this ability to find that little boy inside and end up with a man who enjoys that boy as well. Sex, for me, is playful and exciting... its also passionate and rewarding... its also all consuming (in that moment) and respectful. quote:
male dominance is physically based and female dominance is mentally based. Now I’m sure this isn’t the case always or for all people, but there is enough evidence on these boards to make this a valid starting point for a discussion. Yes, I have read the whole thread so I realize you didnt express this as you wished. On the surface, I can see your point. Dominant men love to physically control, at least the one's I know. But they love to feel... they love to know... they love to react... they love to be challenged. In that effort, the one's I know take time to get into a submissive's head, wanting... almost hungry... to know what makes them tick. A man can order a submissive into a certain position and have at it. Takes no effort. Getting to know a submissive so well that a simple look, phrase or a gesture can reduce her to a begging puddle of slut flesh before his eyes... takes more than just brute strength. These are the men I know. quote:
Take for example rimjobs. I'm pretty sure most would consider this a very submissive act, and few would consider it dominant in any way (if they'd even consider doing it), and I agree, when I do it, I am put into a very submissive headspace. To her it is a very dominant thing to do, to have me do it to her. But it works the other way around too, when I am flipped over and tongued just because she wants to, well I feel very submissive, and quite dirty for "allowing" it. So, from this, its clear that the same act can be both dominant and submissive, it depends on the reason for the act and how it is done. To me, no act is purely submissive or Dominant... and every act is submissive AND Dominant. If it makes him feel good, why shouldnt I flip over and let him do as he wishes? If it makes him feel good, why shouldnt I flip him over and do as he wishes?
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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt. RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11 Duchess of Dissent 1 Dont judge me because I sin differently than you. If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.
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