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protection collar? - 5/13/2006 10:42:08 AM

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has anyone ever been hurt so by the "Collar Of Protection."

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 10:46:53 AM

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I'm not sure what you mean...?

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 10:54:14 AM

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Lady Morgynn,

I could not agree with You more.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 10:57:58 AM

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ok what does a Collar of Protection mean to you?

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:03:09 AM

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It's a giant collar, about 6 feet high, and goes all around my body. If anyone tries to cast spells at me, they get deflected at the nearest level 3 wizard.

But seriously, I have heard of protection collars, but am not 100% sure of what they are. From my understanding, it is a collar which may be given to someone new to the lifestyle so a more experienced person can protect from advances of others.

Now, what were you asking originally? How were you hurt?

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:05:34 AM

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That's what I was thinking it was too :)

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji
From my understanding, it is a collar which may be given to someone new to the lifestyle so a more experienced person can protect from advances of others.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:07:53 AM

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is a Collar of protection just that and there is nothing more than that between the Master and sub? He just protects her being new and helping her along?

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:13:33 AM

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As with anything in this lifestyle, it can mean anything the two of you want it to mean. So now out with it, or I'll get a real Dom to start giving orders around here!

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benji

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:24:11 AM

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benji,

Don't bite the new people, just pee on their leg a little.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:34:43 AM

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That's all I'm doing, Playful! Now, give this guy the order to explain his problem, otherwise he'll never get an answer!

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:38:15 AM

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As benji said, it can mean whatever you and the Dom can want it to mean. If it were myself, yes, that is the basis of the matter. There could be other things that could be agreed upon: training, protocols, etc., and the actual control that the Dom has over the contacts with potential Masters and how much say the Dom has in the choice of new Master for the sub.

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is a Collar of protection just that and there is nothing more than that between the Master and sub? He just protects her being new and helping her along?

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 11:40:27 AM

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Ok Benji.

Sunshine, its obvious you are having trouble with a collar of protection, if you need help you need tp opo up with the setails like now. wE lose attention pretty easy

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:08:49 PM

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A "collar of protection" is what you give someone when you don't have the balls to ask directly if the silly girl wants to learn how to give you head.

If you want someone to learn, you hand them a good S&M book, or send them off to a real world group.

This sort of crap is what goes on in chatrooms, not real life.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:21:54 PM

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When I first ventured out to lifestyle/bdsm social events and th elike I was fortunate enough to have someone take me under their wing, so I would not be going alone, where I knew no one really. Never ever did they offer me a protection collar, if they had I would have said no thanks, then sucked it up and went alone. I may be submissive, but ummm, last time I checked I am an adult (may not act like it sometimes, but that is beside the point), and I am capable, believe it or not, to say no to unwanted advances of others (and I know how to scream really loud). So really protection collars protect someone from what?

I would be inclined to agree with CrappyDom, protection collars must be a chatroom thing.
However if they are used in real life....real time....without any online BS, I would be very interested to hear about it and how and what it protects.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:29:15 PM

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A collar of protection...that takes on a whole new meaning for the condom manufacturers?
Tear label, unroll over entire face and pull the tab, leaving only a collar of protection, when you are playing where you shouldn't be.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:34:33 PM

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i have actually seen a collar of protection work in real life. Its almost a formal acknowledgement that the collared person is 'ok'. i think its useful because of how cliquey the D/s scene can be. Its a gateway to acceptance. Just letting people know that this sub is a friend and someone they trust, so everyone will be nice :P

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:52:30 PM

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Dear subshine2005, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In the 1990s, when thing were getting more "Internet" exposed and a few self titled Masters were floating around, and slaves were getting caught up into situations, as few "caught on" that there were clueless folks around, abusing the trust and titles of "Masters" and "Mistresses" the community in the support venue, started to think on how to offer a real big "bugger off" to the whanker, controller and unkind folks. So, the "Protection Collar" was created.

It was not to stiffle the freedom of the slave and their efforts in finding happiness and such but, a means to use it if you had a bloody fool trying to impose themselves on a slave all alone. But, I will add; that Protection Collars weren't offered like candy. There really had to be a big concern. You know the sort, ex-Masters that make a former slave's life miserable and thwart any effort of another to get the slave's neck.

Because, of the known and practiced protocols, another Master had to talk to the Master of the collared slave. This was enforced. Now days, good luck. It just made sure that the slave was comfortable, protected and had somebody to step in if things got out of hand.

It would be no different than to inform a DM or host/hostess that you would like special attention, should X or Z becomes a problem. In big crowds and dungeon dances, well -- sometimes a collar would be given for that time, no different than a play collar, just using the term protection collar as not to cause a misunderstanding of goofing around collar aka play collar, that had no meaning or association to a dominant. I'm sure slaves who got into a situation could use that collar as 'protection.' But, as was put in post already-- We're all adults and can take care of ourselves.

I have had occassions where I had been approached and asked to be around them, as they were scared of someone or had issues. I was "there" and I suppose I could be intimidating enough to some bloody rude chap, as to make 'em back off. In these incidents, I was asked to "protect" them. But, I did not collar them.

The ones who needed protection from some, I really would be agreeable to collaring them, because they are good slaves and need protection from those who can't understand the word "no."

I really would keep an open mind on this "use" of protection collar as, it is a case by case situation.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:53:32 PM

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quote:

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i have actually seen a collar of protection work in real life. Its almost a formal acknowledgement that the collared person is 'ok'. i think its useful because of how cliquey the D/s scene can be. Its a gateway to acceptance. Just letting people know that this sub is a friend and someone they trust, so everyone will be nice :P

I ask this very respectfully, and say respectfully so there is no confusion on how I may seem to come across to someone.....
If that is the case, wouldn't it be called a "hey this is my friend and he/she is cool collar"?
As I explained how someone took me under their wing, met me at said events/or in most cases went together (not as a couple), I was introduced to people by my friend, that was enough to say hey this is my friend 'insert name', blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda. Same end result, yet no 'protection collar'.
So again, the protection collar protects one from what?
May have to agree to disagree on this, because I see nothing formal about the aspect of a protection collar......if anything, in my opinion, I find it quite silly and immature, and in some cases could be very misleading.
My apologies to anyone in advance that is offended by anything I have said, it's just an opinion.

I think now it makes sense why one of my collars reads "bitch"

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 3:58:17 PM

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It's also a great way to reinforce the idea that a submissive really CAN'T be trusted to make adult decisions on their own and handle life as an adult.

Personally I think doms need collars of protection as much as anyone else.

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RE: protection collar? - 5/13/2006 4:00:17 PM

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LOL i love it! i want a hey this is my friend and she is cool collar!

Seriously though...i don't think its a big deal what its called. It may seem silly to some but others might like the formal aspect of it. Everyone has different ideals and things that appeal to some don't appeal to others.

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