SpanishMatMaster
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Here are my current search and answer strategies, for other male masters (and maybe more?) to compare, comment, etc.
Profile strategy:
- Wide but not too wide. Detailed profile, respectful.
- Likes and dislikes carefully listed in all items (too much information?).
- All temporal journal entries deleted, only the one which make sense much later are kept.
- Two no-goes listed in the profile: They must have a webcam at home; and they should not be in strong economic need.
- Many photos, none naked, in different attitudes and styles.
Search stragegy:
1. Configurate the search engine:- Submissives. Apparently slaves are then automatically included.
- All States, all countries (but see below). Age range, weight (but not height), seeking dominant men.
- I do not set "relocatable" as I think some girls won't be sure about it or just have not answered and still are able to.
- "Photos only" just to avoid absurdly sparse profiles.
- Photo list (thinking about that one, is not really necessary). Sort by Last on (first they get a wave of messages, later maybe less). No interest search (I do not demand SO MUCH work on her profile).
2. I open the profiles (still in preview modus, in a new tab), as many as I want to analyse, with the exception of Americans, Canadians and Australians in a first search (they may be opened later, in a second one). Then I hide immediately all those profiles, so that I never analyse them again.
3. I check the profile and close immediately the following:
- Phillipines and Africans: too many scammers and black girls are anyway often not my taste ~ remark in "often". As they are only hidden and not blocked, they can contact me if they want (and then, see below about scammers).
- No journal and no profile text. They just don't have so much interest anyway.
- They demand one single thing I cannot provide. Well done, girl, one message less in your inbox.
- The profiles are ONLY agressive comments about the jerks they find. I understand their frustration but if they are not able to say something positive about themselves, I better remain far away from that girl.
- The dislike or hate something I very much like (watersports, for example, is the most common kill criteria here).
4. Interesting profiles get a message.
- I send a general message. Not one-line, not a repetition of my profile. Something like a resume of it.
- I have two styles, respectful / disrespectful, depending on the profile of the girl. Usually I send the respectful one, but some girls have profiles like "treat me like shit, I am a cumwhore, worthless, I want to be degraded". Starting with "Dear Ms. Shitwhore, I have the privilege to send you this humble message..."
 does not sound like the right thing to do.
- I always add a personal note signaling that I did read her profile / journal.
- I change her alias if it makes sense, for the same reason, "cumbucket" becomes "cum bucket", for example. Just to avoid the impression that a program is writing the message.
5. On contact, the first thing I ask is for a webcam contact, face to face, at home.
- I make a reference to her profile. This is to be sure that the profile is related with the person with this ID, and also to help me search the person I am communicating with in collarme.com later.
- If they do not have and do not seem to be having, I say bye. If they also indicate money problems for it and/or come from Africa or Phillipines, they are reported as scammers. Sorry if I denounce some innocent girl, she should have read my profile.
- "I am going to have" or "I am going to be at home later" means that I respectfully indicate that she should contact only when she is at home and has got the cam.
- Once seeing her, I make her made a sign with her hands or hair. This is to check if the image is a stream taken from somebody.
- Extra security: A photo holding my name in a paper on her hands. Photoshopping that is really, really hard.
6. Further communication implies, in a short period, a check for the sexual abilities, and some personal information like fixed phone numbers, e-mail, physical direction... I provide mine, I have no problems on this, I am completely out of the closet in my job, familiy and friends.
I got screwed once. That was about one year ago. The trick was new for me... the girl communicated with me, she was real, she was gorgeous, we spoke by normal telephone, she remembered the conversations and spoke a lot about herself... and she liked a specific hotel in her city very much. The hotel had a website which looked pretty serious, but (stupid me) the booking engine did not "work at the moment", so I sent the money for a short reservation. Money gone, girl gone. Well, at least it costed them some days of fixed costs (the website) and some hours of variable costs (photos, conversations in chat and telephone) for a profit of about 300 USD. I got screwed by a luxus scammer, 99% of them failed, and I have visited about 20 interesting girls in the last ten years (a pause on a stable relation there), who were good or bad, but were serious and not scammers.
I am still searching, but that's me. Very picky for a fat old man.
If anybody can help me to improve the algorithm, welcome. If anyone can use some of this for herself, I am glad.
Best regards.
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