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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 7:37:49 PM

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I may be a fat woman in her 50s, but I still have no problems there.

Sing it sister. Never have, never will.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 7:51:14 PM

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This is the most retarded thing I've seen lately. It's like asking if water is attracted to ducks. The ducks just fucking swim in it, like the fishes, the frogs, a hundred other bacteria and your neighbors kids.

Only reason you have a perception issues, OP, is because you've allowed popular media formats to make you think fabricated actresses are a representation of real life. They aren't. It's why people watch porn, because it's rare you find it IRL. If thin busty models grew on trees the porn rental industry would be penniless and you would have better things to do then bitch about well-padded women on a forum. A big percentage of north america is 'obese', we live in a culture that 'lives to eat' and that means obese people exist in every sexual preference catagory in large numbers, not just BDSM.

You want skinny chicks, good for you, that's your choice to limit your own range of acceptable relationship material, no one to blame but yourself for your perceptions.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:02:01 PM

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Wow, not sure which offensive comment to hit first. But I'll try.

66% of the population of the United States is fat or obese. Obese being 50 pounds or more over your ideal weight range. So, odds are 2 to 1 you will find women who are fat.

Some women, not me, have force/rape fantasies. Some men also have them. It just is.

In every day life, women who are fat, thin, old, young, crippled and not, are raped. Rape is violence, it is tied to using sex to hurt someone. Rape fantasies are not true rape, consent or consensual non-consent are in play. In fact, one of the responses to getting raped is to get fat. The thinking is that the VICTIM believes it will prevent future abuse. Not true, but then someone who has been traumatized in that way is grabbing anything to try to feel safe.

Sorry dude, you are closed minded, uninformed and prejudiced. Yes, I do perceive what you said as an attack. If you don't like fat women, or intelligent women, or...., don't contact them. Displaying your flaws is not the best way to get laid.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:32:22 PM

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:39:17 PM

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No offense to anyone or those who like those type of women just notice from profile to profile that there seems to be a large percentage of bbws. Very seldom is there a woman considered slender, thin, average or whatever. No I dont think I'm gods gift to women or whatever. Just kinda wonder if there's something psychological there. A lot of women here have those force/rape fantasies. In everyday life in general a woman around 200 pounds isn't going to draw much attention from anyone who would actually force someone. is that part of it? Is it more of a fantasy to submit because its unlikely it would ever happen in real life. Look at streakers in sports across the world. If its fairly attractive woman there's cheers and such. If they were overweight I'm sure many would say oh my cover them up. Again not attacking but just rather curious why this and other sites seem to be widely populated by those types of women

Its widely populated by numerous overweight subs because the OVER NUMEROUS OVERWEIGHT MASTER/DOMS need some lovin' too.

What the fuck are you thinking .... like all the guys on here are fit and fucking trim?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:45:06 PM

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The reason why you don't see many single "thin" women on BDSM sites is because they found someone who would happily tie them up and buttfuck them silly without needing the internet. BBW generally are more picky. Thin women will take whatever they can get, and usually do.

Seriously? I really hope you're joking. I'm not thin but I'm not fat either and I have been thin. No matter what my weight has been I've always been extremely picky and I have never not once, just settled. Give me a break.

Yes, I was joking. Perhaps my sarcasm was off today. W/e.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:48:32 PM

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I would like to congratulate the op on making sure that no one on this site will ever respond favorably to him or find him to be a possible partner. With this one thread, which he cannot erase, he has guaranteed that anyone who ever reads his forum posts will turn him down for being a closed minded, nasty, catty and overall objectionable person.

Most people get turned down one at a time. He's speeded up the process immeasurably.

Well he has been here since 2008, maybe he figures bad attention is better than nothing.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:53:03 PM

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Well he has been here since 2008, maybe he figures bad attention is better than nothing.

Well there's the answer then, someone fat turned him down.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 8:55:26 PM

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I think most people drawn to BDSM have some sort of internal angst.

So what is yours?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 9:04:07 PM

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I haven't read all the posts because 5 pages really is a lot and nope, I'm not going to the effort of reading all of it. But I'll toss in my 2 cents. First of all... why do this and other sites seem to be widely populated by larger women? Because the world is widely populated with them. And yes, there are plenty of us who are interested in this lifestyle in one fashion or another. But you know, not all of us are submissive. And many of us have no problem dating in the nilla world. Personally, I dated a hell of a lot more when I was nilla. At one time I had to keep a calendar to keep my dates straight and know who I was going out with and when. And I was married twice as a nilla. The lifestyle has allowed me to explore and experience pretty much everything I want and could never have with nilla men. I have even more offers from men in the lifestyle than I did before, but being in the lifestyle has increased my confidence and belief in myself so that I know I don't have to settle for less than what I really want. I can, in fact, have more than one man at a time. I can also have women in my life. And people don't consider me a hosebag for doing it!

So... why are there so many large ladies here? Because we can be ourselves. All of ourselves. Yes, there are people who don't care for the way we look, and quite frankly, there are people here who don't like the skinny girls either. That's fine. That's human. We all are attracted to different things. If you don't like us, fine. We really don't care. Because while there are indeed sometimes women who come here to have a Dom help them lose weight, most of us are happy with who we are just the way we are. And if we want to change it, we will.

In this lifestyle, on this site and others, there are lots of BBWs. And there are lots of skinny, thin, and average sized women. We come in all shapes and colors and styles, just like we do out in the world. So use your search functions to weed out those of us you don't like and find what you do like. And hey... have fun. :)

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 9:35:13 PM

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IWhat the fuck are you thinking .... like all the guys on here are fit and fucking trim?

This! ^^^^

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 9:37:44 PM

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What the fuck are you thinking .... like all the guys on here are fit and fucking trim?

I used to be.
Does that count?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 9:42:17 PM

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Works for me, Hillly!

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:16:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
IWhat the fuck are you thinking .... like all the guys on here are fit and fucking trim?

This! ^^^^

I have been thinking the same thing. A great many of the men who contact me are by no means fit and trim! And some of them, I look at their listed stats and wonder if they have any meat on them... ah well.

The other thing I was thinking was "he's trying to associate fat and submission" but y'know... what about us sizable DOMINANT women? Hm? That has absolutely nothing to do with rape fantasies and not getting it in the real world.

I use my weight to weed out the idiots... I don't wish to be friends with anyone who'd discriminate against me for my size. That's my choice and I'm happy enough with myself to not want to spend my focus dieting instead of improving other areas of my life.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/22/2011 12:18:47 AM

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"Im a bbw and proud of it"

Because the unhealthy medical condition of morbid obesity is not only sexy, but something to take pride in.

They need a master alright, A Stairmaster.

Ok, buy me one. Contact me on the other side and I will give you my paypal account number.

Oh, and btw, 56% of the NFL players would be considered morbidly obese.

Something to think about.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/22/2011 1:21:40 AM

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I'm overweight. I was kinky when slim, I'm kinky curvy.

I too have been raped - once when a size 2, once when a size 16. I remember when a frail 92 year old women was raped and beaten in my town. As previously stated, rape is about power and control. Rape is not about scoring with a hot chick. People have rape fantasies because fantasy is not real. Non consensual sex is completely different and your implication that fat chicks fantasise about rape because they aren't attractive enough to get laid is ignorant and disgraceful.

Intended or not, your post is offensive and your care factor is 0. Attitudes like yours encourage poor self esteem and self loathing. Grow up - you are responsible for your tastes and perceptions. Not the media. Go for gold only wanting slim women - there's nothing wrong with that. But projecting such negative bullshit without being open to the ideas of others is limiting your growth as a person.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/22/2011 1:40:20 AM

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Great first post, Aus Chick!

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/22/2011 2:57:18 AM

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Just got to adore body fascism.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/22/2011 6:25:42 AM

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Great first post, Aus Chick!

+1

Welcome!

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/22/2011 6:43:46 AM

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This thread shows just how ignorant some people are about the motivations for rape.

Larger women, smaller women, old women and little girls are all at risk; it has nothing. To do with size or age or any measure of attractiveness.

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