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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:13:28 AM

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Well his journal complains about "fat chicks" while he himself is very overweight.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:22:30 AM

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Methinks OP is pulling a fast one in the hope of fooling some poor poly woman into giving him a sympathy shag.

I dislike lies, but the above interpretation is slightly more palatable than the idea of him forgetting the ´ín sickness and in health´ part of marriage ...

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:29:37 AM

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lol he speaks about wanting a partner who wants more than just sex with him... if he wants sex at all.

Isnt that what he is complaining about with the wife? Not getting enough?

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:30:42 AM

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Well his journal complains about "fat chicks" while he himself is very overweight.

Notice that was written in 2009?

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:32:08 AM

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It's not a weight issue, she has lupus, fibro, and cancer. She may not feel well enough to go to the gym or do much of anything.

She weighs 300 #; he weights 485 #.

Season after season I see Biggest Loser contestants arrive with a host of medical problems and as the weight drops, so do the prescriptions.

I know it sucks that the prednisone used for lupus makes you weight.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:33:28 AM

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I get that her weight is high, but that could be a product of her illnesses and decreased activity. Prednisone is hard on your body. If she's going to work out, starting slowly with a video or something might be better than going straight to a gym and being intimidated by gym rats and hard bodies.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:43:07 AM

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I get that her weight is high, but that could be a product of her illnesses and decreased activity. Prednisone is hard on your body.

I agree.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 6:43:44 AM

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If you would like to know more about her... shes a Southern Belle that at one time was everything
I wanted and needed. 6 months after marring her she came down with Lupus then she got Fibro then ya cancer and
ya been with her for 8 years and haven't had sex in 7 years.
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This is so sad. It reads as though you no longer want or need her. You haven't posted a single positive thing about her,
and seem to only be focussed on the fact that you have nobody to stick your dick into. I'm not saying you wont find her,
but you aren't painting your household in a very positive light.

From your profile: You know I would like to find someone that wants more then some sex partner IF i will even think
about sex..
Puhhhleaseeeeeee, who do you think you're kidding? If you really only wanted someone to help your wife
around the house, you would hire a maid.

Another blurb from your profile; I dont style is all about sex thats just the end result of what some are looking for.
I want someone that enjoys being chased and the hunt of being chased.
Unfortunately, your contradictions have just cut your legs off....all three of them.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:12:44 AM

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I get that her weight is high, but that could be a product of her illnesses and decreased activity. Prednisone is hard on your body. If she's going to work out, starting slowly with a video or something might be better than going straight to a gym and being intimidated by gym rats and hard bodies.

Well, "Find a gym rather than find a second wife" has more of a ring to it :)

I think D types should lead by example - at 485# he is in need of a gym too, as I said initially.

Planet Fitness touts their "no judgment zone" and limits the high free weights to discourage gym rats.

In every community I have lived in, there have been women-only gyms, whether it be Curves, Lady of America, or independent gyms.

The Y has scholarships for low income people and the one I used to go to had far more average Americans than hard bodies.

Yes, I hated getting into the pool in a bathing suit when I weighed 40# more, but dealt with it.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:31:05 AM

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I find it interesting how so many 'solutions' that people come up to various things aren't very well thought out and kind of the easy way out. If a bunch of strangers point out that a solution to a situation may be something other than how you are approaching it, that doesn't say much about your personal fortitude or problem solving skills. Unless of course these people are pointing out things that you already considered and discounted for specific reasons (that aren't related to laziness). This isn't directly aimed at the OP, just kind of a general observation.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:33:59 AM

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If I were you OP ... I wouldnt just go for a second wife, I would go for a third and fourth and if your massively cum-filled balls can handle it, a FIFTH WIFE as well. That you can just sit there on your morbidly obese ass all fucking day and have a train of your herem wives suck & fuck you off. Shit - while your at it... make sure that they get full time jobs too, so you dont have to work. (That way you can just concentrate every minute of your day on your cumming cock.)

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:45:32 AM

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That's a little harsh for Introductions.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:54:47 AM

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c'mon now ...
being harsh would of been to tell the guy to kick his first wife to the curb and then go for more wives.

Have you read what anyone else wrote on this thread btw???
OBVIOUSLY, I was being encouraging ...

I really believe if people are wanting to go for the gold, they really need to GO FOR IT. DREAM BIG!!!

I was even nice enough to give him a little visual.. to keep his dream alive and flowing ~~~~~

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:56:56 AM

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Op, you can see how many questions your situation raises in a group of people that don't know you. What you're looking for is a woman to share your life, be with your wife as well, and have your children. If we have questions you can bet that anyone considering this will too. It strikes the outsider as an odd and tricky situation.

The fact that you and your wife are very heavy isn't working in your favor since that may be exacerbating her health issues, and causing you some as well. Hard for that second wife to knowingly tie herself to that don't you think? Plus you have a journal entry that more or less frowns upon the overweight females on this site while you yourself probably weigh more than anyone I've seen here of either sex. Can you not see the hypocrisy of that? Yes, the journal entry is over 2 years old, but in that you also say you are working on your weight, if you were doing that then have you lost anything? A female submissive/slave would be looking to you to set the tone of the house, if you are working on your weight that is one thing, but if you are morbidly obese and asking her to be average, well that's a case where your authority would be undermined by the fact that you don't follow through on what you say you want in others. Hard to look up to the hypocritical type of person as a leader. See what I mean about how there are questions all over your situation here?

It's sad that your wife is having these terrible issues. It'll be hard for an outsider to want to take that on. I personally would find the thought impossible. I think perhaps you might want to think this all over and see what exactly you have to offer someone to come into your family and put that part of it in your profile and/or thread. Offering yourself as open to questions isn't the same thing as letting people know more about you and your wife, and giving them a more complete picture to begin with.

I hate to harp on this but I'd also highly consider what Kalikshama is bringing up about having you both lose weight. Morbid obesity DOES produce or exacerbate many medical problems. I cannot tell you how often I see concrete medical issues from being overweight in my line of work, multiple times a day. The more overweight you are, the more issues you probably have. If you want someone to have your children she's going to want to know that you'll be around to help her raise them. There are healthy overweight people out there, they tend to be the exception to the rule.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 7:57:35 AM

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This is so sad. It reads as though you no longer want or need her. You haven't posted a single positive thing about her,

Well, them are very serious diseases. One of my friends, despite being dedicated to his Lupus wife, at last did divorce her.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 8:21:10 AM

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This is so sad. It reads as though you no longer want or need her. You haven't posted a single positive thing about her,

Well, them are very serious diseases. One of my friends, despite being dedicated to his Lupus wife, at last did divorce her.

Of course the diseases are sad. But I was referring to the part in his post where
he wrote at one time she was everything I wanted and needed.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 8:39:42 AM

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I was trying to figure out what it was that was bothering me about this.
It is the part below. It just seems really sad..it feels to me that you are saying that she is sort of "giving in" out of fear of losing you. That's sad. She is so scared to lose you, that she will accept you being with others?

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She has recently told me she doesn't want to lose me and is open to me have lovers or a open relationship with her.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 9:00:06 AM

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I was trying to figure out what it was that was bothering me about this.
It is the part below. It just seems really sad..it feels to me that you are saying that she is sort of "giving in" out of fear of losing you. That's sad. She is so scared to lose you, that she will accept you being with others?

That bothered me too, but then I thought she probably feels guilty over having this happen because she's the one who is sick. Sure she didn't cause it, but she is the reason why their life is turned completely around now. They probably wanted kids and she can't have them anymore, and feels pretty badly about having to deny him that too. It's got to be pretty bad to have to admit that you married someone under one set of circumstances, and now that they're different, it's due to you. Maybe this is her best scenario, still have her husband, but give him more of a semblance of the life they wanted.

Personally I couldn't do it, it seems too difficult. I can't imagine walking out of the bedroom from having sex with him knowing that she's there feeling miserable that it can't be her. That's if everything he's described is accurate, which we don't know. The whole her not being 'able' to have sex thing is a bit cloudy.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 9:11:25 AM

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Good day,

Please if you need more info don't be bothered to ask. I'am Looking for a 2nd wife to my first.

Polygamy is illegal, so you should probably word that differently.

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we are still in love but she has had some illness and cant have sex anymore due to her body not being able too. Looking for someone to fill my needs and hers. Looking for someone that is a submissive type personality that likes a strong man to take care of the household. Looking formone that likes to clean and help 1st wife cook. Looking for someone that can hang out and just be themselves and be willing to fill my needs when I want them when I want them ... yes sex.

So, you're looking for someone that will take care of your wife, cook, clean and blow you whenever you want. What do you offer? Because all I'm seeing is what you want....and it reads like a housekeeper with benefits rather than a relationship.

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I'am a Dominate type male that only into females.

Dominate is a verb, you cannot be a verb.

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Looking for someone that wants to have a LTR with a future of having kids with me.

A lot of women will balk at having children with a man that is legally married to someone else.

And I particularly like the journal entries saying how he's "tired of fat chicks telling him that they want him to be their master" coming from a guy that lists himself as 485lbs. He goes on to say how they should "want to look good" in his eyes. So, basically, you expect someone to overlook something in you, that you're not willing to overlook in someone else.

Finding a third is difficult enough. I think you need to go back and re-think things a bit.

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RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. - 11/21/2011 9:30:25 AM

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