NiceButMeanGirl
Posts: 2756
Joined: 11/4/2011 From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A. Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Clickofheels My name seems to be showing up on various "Favorites" / "Friends" lists from time-to-time... usually without my being asked first. And 99.9% of the time, they are people I've never even spoken to. I find this incredibly presumptuous and RUDE!! "Friends" are self-explanatory, but what is the purpose behind "Favorites?" (Smiles) Thanks for taking the time to broaden my horizons about this feature. Ms Click quote:
ORIGINAL: Clickofheels I am going to clarify ONE LAST TIME!!! I believe people are being presumptuous when they add me to their favorites list BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOT ASKED ME IF I WOULD MIND IF THEY DID! I think it makes NO LOGICAL SENSE to add some one to your "favorites list" when you have never spoken with them before and you are ear-marking them to watch. Littlewonder said it perfectly... "why someone wants to bookmark me is beyond me." Someone shows up on your Admirers page when they add you to their Favorites, something you have NO control over. On the other hand, for someone to show up on your Friends list, you have to approve them first. If you don't want them as a friend, reject their offer. This you DO have control over. To think that someone has to ask you first before adding you to their favorites lists is, well, ridiculous. Just be glad that someone likes you that much. You need to stop being so serious. A person would think you have, ahem, control issues or something. Just because we are Dommes does NOT mean we can control EVERYONE. Your own profile says "each of us is responsible for our own happiness and well being," so why not start now? NBMG
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I'm now SweetlySadistic1 on CollarSpace. NBMG is an old profile, please see my new one.
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