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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:18:07 PM   
Clickofheels


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Status: offline 		That's all I needed to know, tj44! I thank you MOST SINCERELY for your simple and courteous response! (Smiles)

Warm regards,
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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:25:39 PM   
laborboleta


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Status: offline 		Am I the only one here who actually LIKES having admirers?

I have no picture of myself on my profile, so they either like what I've written, or they like the pics I have posted. Either way, it's a tiny little ego boost that makes me smile. I usually check out the profile of anyone who bookmarks me, just out of curiosity. I can either return the compliment or ignore it, no big deal.

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:28:43 PM   
SailingBum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

(LMAO) How comical it is to "see" how differently one comment can be interpreted on here!
I merely asked for a definition, and all of a sudden I am deemed too deep (I never knew), fussed over what people think of my profile and me (sorry, but no), and here for the purposes of popularity and entertainment (that's news to me! LOL).

I have a logical mind. I don't care for presumptuousness. And I have a right to my own feelings.

Perhaps the "chill pills" should have gone to some of you?







quote:

I find this incredibly presumptuous and RUDE!!



Your lameness,

lol it's AMAZING to me how fast you backpeddled once you were called out on just how lame you are. NO I didn't cap RUDE in my post. Grow up already. Oh and get over yourself no one but you thinks your important.

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:29:12 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I don't know....... I guess if I like them admiring me then yeah. But if it's some jerk off guy, then it doesn't even matter to me. I just click on it to make it not red. The red just sits there and glares. Now THAT JUST TOTALLY CHAPS MY ASS!!!!!!!!

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:32:17 PM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I don't know....... I guess if I like them admiring me then yeah. But if it's some jerk off guy, then it doesn't even matter to me. I just click on it to make it not red. The red just sits there and glares. Now THAT JUST TOTALLY CHAPS MY ASS!!!!!!!!


What a bunch of bullshit, LT...there is no way you can see if he has splooged on his screen from your end.....there aint no software like that yet.-

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:37:18 PM   
laborboleta


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I just click on it to make it not red. The red just sits there and glares. Now THAT JUST TOTALLY CHAPS MY ASS!!!!!!!!


You too?!?! I'm so glad I'm not the only one!

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 12:59:26 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

What a bunch of bullshit, LT...there is no way you can see if he has splooged on his screen from your end.....there aint no software like that yet.-


Pfffffttttt!!!!!!!! That shows what you know! Chu du not noooo arrr powerrrrrrrrsss!!!!!!!!

P.S......As an FYI, that was a VERY bad typed impersonation of that Jamaican psychic that used to be on television years ago.


< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 12/29/2011 1:05:01 PM >

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 1:17:54 PM   
dovie


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

I am going to clarify ONE LAST TIME!!!

I believe people are being presumptuous when they add me to their favorites list BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOT ASKED ME IF I WOULD MIND IF THEY DID!
I think it makes NO LOGICAL SENSE to add some one to your "favorites list" when you have never spoken with them before and you are ear-marking them to watch.
Littlewonder said it perfectly... "why someone wants to bookmark me is beyond me."

I NEVER SAID profiles are presumptuous and rude. I said SOME PEOPLE ARE, in my opinion. I am NOT being deep nor psychotic. I am merely stating MY FEELING on the actions and why it bugs me.

To those who didn't think I worded the beginning of my thread "correctly," all you had to do was explain the how/why reason behind a "favorites list" and tell me not to let it bother me. Comments like "seriously????" and "chill" were hardly what I expected...especially given their origin.

And Stella? My day will improve when I stop returning to this post of mine, and realize I needed to dissect and analyze everything before posting.






Two things, I might put you on a favorites list, cuz I like the way your tits hang, and look at the pictures with morning coffee.

Secondly, you walk down the street, and even if you are an ugly girl, walking by a man, he is going to turn around and look at your ass with a rather velleitistic thought of would I stuff my dick off in there?

You're a woman, I am a man...I am going to stare you dead in the tits and have thoughts while you are blabbering on whatever the fuck you women blabber on about.

You want people to ask your permission for that and other various and sundry things?

I think not.   There are some things you just don't want to know.

There be monsters there.




Swoons!  I so love this man!

NannyMcPhee

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 1:47:23 PM   
Clickofheels


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You just don't have a clue, do you dear? LMAO

Whomever would have thought that one simple question with a reason behind it would cause not only such a tizzy, but all these judgements about whom a complete stranger could be!

I left the chat rooms in search of more entertainment in the forums. And I see I should have brought popcorn! GOTTCHA! (winks)

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 1:57:09 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Wow. I've just gotta assume Click of Heels is having a bad day. This thread began badly and has progressed to an even worse state.

Ms. Click, if I may...you really did seem quite...emphatic about your feelings on people favoriting and friending you. And then you progressed to being somewhat...aggressive with the others who gave their opinions. (whether their opinions were given bluntly or not) Personally, I don't even look to see who is "admiring" me, and I very seldom look to see who is viewing me because I don't know any of those people (unless I've made a controversial post, in which case, it's everyone and their brother.) and if I think about it too much it kind of freaks me out. (yeah, I know, no one has to say it...trust me)

But honestly, in the scheme of things, what difference does it make? You do know you can hide your profile, right?

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 1:58:29 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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Yay!





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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 1:59:25 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		What a cool looking bird!

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 1:59:55 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Lawd have MERCY!! That is one ugly bird!

What on earth is it??


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 2:14:38 PM   
barelynangel


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Status: offline 		SO, OP, are you seriously insinuating you know each and every reason someone has for put you on their favorites?  

I know you chopped a good portion of the sentence that "you don't have a clue" was in and again got all offended because you pretty much took that as my saying you have NO CLUE about anything.  Just a suggestion to help your indignation of my using that phrase --it may do you good to go read the WHOLE SENTENCE, within which that phrase is contained in my post. 

I am not sure what you are laughing about -- grins, but i guess if i started this thread all i could do is laugh too.  GOOD FOR YOU,

angel

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 2:30:51 PM   
Duskypearls


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quote:

ORIGINAL: laborboleta

Am I the only one here who actually LIKES having admirers?

I have no picture of myself on my profile, so they either like what I've written, or they like the pics I have posted. Either way, it's a tiny little ego boost that makes me smile. I usually check out the profile of anyone who bookmarks me, just out of curiosity. I can either return the compliment or ignore it, no big deal.


No my dear, you are not. I don't care what the reason, it always feels good to me to see an admirer, and like you, check out their profile.

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 2:32:04 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

Barely, barely, barely....




she is called Angel, as it plainly states in her signature.

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 2:47:07 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop


quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

Barely, barely, barely....




she is called Angel, as it plainly states in her signature.


Yeah but Greedy......the OP got all butt hurt and now she's running hither and thither, snarking at people. Saying Angel, Angel, Angel..........just wouldn't have the same panache.


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 3:23:25 PM   
tj444


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels
That's all I needed to know, tj44! I thank you MOST SINCERELY for your simple and courteous response! (Smiles)

Warm regards,
Ms Clickofheels

You are welcome.

I have learned to pick my words carefully online,.. but sometimes someone will pick something out and take it the wrong way or whatever... unfortuntely that is the nature of the beast.. even tho you can use those cute lil smileys.. this is just a one-dimensional medium so things can happen.. On the topics that interest me tho, I have seen some great, interesting and informative discussions..

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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 3:26:02 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: laborboleta

Am I the only one here who actually LIKES having admirers?



Actually I like creepy stalkers more. I only ever use admirers to tease my pets.."Oh, look theres another one.You better be good or I'll replace you with some other retarded monkey"

I would quote what mnottertail says but I would end up quoting A LOT. So I decided it was just easier to steal some things and pass them on to some people I know. Go me, your wisdom has been stolen.

I have to ask....are we not allowed to call you barely, Barelynangel, because I think I have done that in the past*confused face* Sorry if you thought it was rude of me(thats not snark I mean it)

Getting back to what seems to be Clicks orginal question 'Is it rude to try to add someone as a friend when you have never spoken to them' Maybe I was to polite when I answered the first time. I have had people do this and I normally point out to them how rude it infact is. I don't think the fact that I have a profile on a website means anyone can assume I want to be their friend anymore than a stranger walking up to me in public and saying we should be friends means I want to know them either.

Click if I can give a little advice...point out to them that you think they are being a little rude and that perhaps they should speak to you before they decide they want to be your friend. When I do it they either just say they are sorry for assuming something and end up sending me a real msg or they never speak to me again. Both work out as win if you ask me.

Failing that ask them if you can lop their head off and stick it on a pike in your front yard as a warning to every other idiot that wants to be your friend < that one I would almost be willing to guarantee will work to make them go away.


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RE: "Favorites" and "Friends" Lists - 12/29/2011 3:41:38 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		The friends that I have accepted are people I converse with. I do not accept friend request from strangers and I don't bother to write them. I simply reject and go on.

I too like admirers. It makes me feel nice that someone thought enough of me to add me to their favorites.

I like to check the who's viewing me so that I can see who is in my area. I write them wishing them well in their search. I thank people for stopping by.

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