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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:41:05 PM   
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The OP from RS is seriously hot, and nicely said NBMG, it's good to see the mods pulling the transphobic nastiness

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:44:59 PM   
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quote:

It seems that you have a little more delusions in your head than just gender identification.


FWIW I'm female not a transgender.

So I guess that goes to prove beyond all argument which one of us is suffering delusions.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:46:06 PM   
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Lets calm it down, please.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:46:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

@ MrBukani should a person, divulge to their partner that they had;
orthodontics as a child?
their tonsils removed?
extra teeth removed?
a hernia?
hemorrhoid surgery?
laser eye surgery?
a wart removed?
were born with sets of genitalia?, (hermaphrodite)
had a birth defect corrected?
peck implants?
calf implants?
breast implants?
breast reduction?
facial surgery?
nasal reshaping?

A Great many people make changes to their bodies, for a great many reasons.

How about accepting people for who they are.

If you believe people like me are hiding something you are fucking wrong. I lived 35 years of my life being called gay, a fag, a princess, a fairy. I lost more jobs than because of gender identity issues, than most people have in a life time.

We are simply expression ourselves the we we feel most comfortable. Get a life.

Yes you should tell your partner. You live a lie when you don't. And think of it, you might marry a hater and your relationship turn into a trauma.
Honesty is the best policy.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:46:27 PM   
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I wonder if the mods go into panic mode when topics like this start up?
Are there key word flags that alert them?
Just curious.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:49:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

I wonder if the mods go into panic mode when topics like this start up?
Are there key words flags that alert them?
Just curious.


yes.  begins with "n" and "s"

what?  what?  I was thinking "non-op" and "spanking"....  what were you thinking?


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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:53:13 PM   
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Or maybe, just maybe in time acceptance can become common.

Years ago racism was common, now less so.
Homosexuality was very much underground, now it's much more widely accepted.

Times and people can change.

You can say YOU will never accept transexuals but can't answer for the world.


How naive.

Do you honestly believe people are not racist to a degree? Everybody is. Nobody wants to admit it since we are being conditioned to think it wrong, but oh, how wrong it would be to say that we do not hold racism or stereotypes about particular groups still. It does not help that people of these groups fulfill their own prophecies and thus, strengthen racial discrimination.

The natural reaction an average person will have upon hearing someone changing their body to the opposite sex is going to be a mixture of shock and repulsion. Conditioning can be made, but I see this as less likely to go over as easy as racism and homosexuality. Why? Racism/homosexuality is often viewed as something unable to be helped, that it was as you were born. To many people, transsexuals go through such bizarre changes and trouble that it is nearly insane to consider them as anything more than very deranged individuals.

Much like how ResidentSadist's story of his friend that learned of a transsexual visiting him, I am sure he would not be a bad person in his day-to-day life but like everybody else on this planet he has his own beliefs and preferences. His happened to mirror many, many others.

And that is that.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:54:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hausboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

I wonder if the mods go into panic mode when topics like this start up?
Are there key words flags that alert them?
Just curious.


yes.  begins with "n" and "s"

what?  what?  I was thinking "non-op" and "spanking"....  what were you thinking?



I was thinking 'nymphomaniac sluts' - I have a one track mind sometimes!


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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:54:44 PM   
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For the record, partially agree with you.

I have told some people. And they have been told for very specific reasons.

As for telling my next partner, I guess i will have to face that hurdle when and if it comes. My current partner has been with me through my whole process.


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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 7:56:32 PM   
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Yes you should tell your partner. You live a lie when you don't. And think of it, you might marry a hater and your relationship turn into a trauma.
Honesty is the best policy.



Hi MrBukani

In the case of RS and the original post, obviously he knew she was transgendered when they played.  I believe you should tell your partner but when the time is right and appropriate.  (I do believe the time before one has sex is an appropriate time)  I would imagine however that a person is clever enough to figure out if someone is a complete bigot before playing/having sex with them, unless it's a totally casual sex thing. 

But I'm sure as hell not telling a date until I'm absolutely sure she is someone that I want to have sex with...and vice versa. 



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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 8:15:14 PM   
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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 8:31:01 PM   
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Oh shit... they are pulling all the posts that quote this reply...

Self edit.  Will repost w/o the nasty quotes..........

Damn, I spent 10 minutes typing all that up and getting links etc. 


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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 8:39:43 PM   
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Thanks RS...  I loved your post above.
Sad but timely--a transgender woman was murdered today at a bus stop in DC.   I enjoy my stealth life--and with the right woman, and when the time is right, I'll explain to her why we can't have children together.



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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 8:41:58 PM   
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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 8:45:58 PM   
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It is naive to think all people are racist and that we are conditioned to think its wrong.
I would state the opposite.
Just look at the vatican and you will see you are wrong.
I can give multiple examples like it.
I read your profile and I bet you love a threesome with girls.
Bisexual girls that is.
Maybe not, but that is the most obvious double standard there is.
And you probably wont admit it if you do like it.
If you do, it wont take long to reason it out to an acceptable standard.
I've had this argument many times and I always won.
But it takes months for haters to see the truth.
Dont have the time.
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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 9:01:41 PM   
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Whats the question here .. or are you just sharing your wank fantasies?

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 9:07:33 PM   
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So Lauren, born as David, is now post op.  Lauren got married and the hubby doesn't know she was ever a he (Yes, she is that good.  Even pre op, straights couldn't tell.) 

Is the new hubby fucking a man when he buries his cock in her pussy?

His reply will go unquoted but… suffice it to say, the valid question of honesty with your partner and personal safety if caught in a gender lie was raised. 
I do not disagree, it is dishonest by my standards.  But when I matured to puberty, I looked down as saw that the parts I was born with suited me well.  I was fortunate to be born with a cock and I wanted to use it.  When I hit puberty, I labeled myself a boy that was growing into a man.  I believe in self awareness and a right proper label to match. 

I even give an example of proper labels and how I know of transsexuals that were injured or killed because they “lived the lie and died”.  I believe in brutal honesty and correct labels.  See my gazelle parable in this thread:
Sub/Slave, Guppy/Shark, Role Mislabeling Fatal, Shame on You

I also know that when Lauren hit puberty, she grew boobs (w/o hormone therapy). Her mindset naturally produced high levels of female hormones.  Lauren never grew man parts.  She had been a girl since the age of 7.  In her teens, her little grapes and baby carrot boy parts started shrink and her ass filled out (it was truly an amazing ass).  When she looked down, she wanted to take an axe to it.  She would have except she knew she needed the skin to make a pussy when she qualified for surgery.    I can see why she lied about her original gender from her point of view.  Although it was her choice to get a pussy, she had always lived as woman.  It wasn't her choice to be born with boy parts.  And most relationship do not thrive on the level of brutal honesty I demand nor are most people able to accept the truths I can.  Apparently she felt her new guy couldn’t or shouldn’t have to handle it.   Not everyone has to be like me or believe what I believe in order for me to accept their choices in life.  I offer you this counter-perspective. 

If you had seduced Playboy Magazine model Caroline Cossey, you stripped her naked and she is bent over with her pussy ready to receive, do you really want her to stop you and say... by the way, I was born a boy and you are about to fuck my cock skin that surgery turned inside out to create my pussy?  Seriously, stop right now an go look at her pics (Her pics here) and tell me you wouldn't rather bang her in blissful ignorance than be graphically reminded you are rubbing foreskins?

So lets define that honesty.  Where does it begin or end?  When your slaves tell you that you have biggest and best cock they ever had the pleasure of... just maybe you are really the second or third largest?  They are just being nice because whipping out a statistical graph to plot your your size on the chart would break the intent of the moment. 

For Lauren, telling him violates the intent of the relationship. He is straight man that wants a woman.  She is a woman and that's what he got.  I bet she even lies about how big she thinks his dick is.  I don't agree with it.  But I do not judge her for it... I don't have the right.  I can't even begin to walk in her shoes to try and get a worthy enough perspective so I could judge.

Lauren always played it on the edge.  She wasn't gay as I know the definition.  She didn't like gays.  She didn't like her cock and wanted nothing to do with it.  She was a woman with the wrong parts.  She asked me to train her how to fuck a straight man using her greased and tightly clenched thighs as a surrogate pussy or how to slip his cock in her ass without him knowing.  I taught her to keep her shit tucked and how to pose sexy with her legs together so it hid her shit.  She learned how to saunter up to you naked, blow you until you were quaking on the edge of orgasm, then quickly take your cock in her hands, turn around and slip it between her legs or into her ass to receive your orgasm.  You never saw her cock once and thought you came in her snatch.  ... imagine her talents as a lover when she was finally armed with a pussy!

So why should this gorgeous, dedicated, well trained, submissive fem fatale who now owns a pussy tell her man that her pussy was an enhancement to the core of her being, not a gender lie?  Girls get all kinds of corrective and cosmetic surgery.  Should a woman with corrective surgery tell you her cunt lips were trimmed because they used to hang down to her knees?  Or a guy with enlargement surgery, or circumcised, should he mention he had genitile modifications or enhancements before taking a lover or life partner?  Should any transsexual interrupt their life as woman to tell you, or anyone she meets, she was born a boy?  Hell, I was a sub for couple of months in my teens when I was discovering myself.  Should I tell my slaves that my current dominance is a deception?

All of your reading this have different sets of morals, some probably differ between what you would tell casual lovers and what you tell a life partner.  But that's your morals, not hers.  I disagree with her choice to keep it a secret, but I understand, accept it and do not think she reflects badly on transsexuals.  If what you see is what you get, that isn't deception.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 9:33:15 PM   
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Simple answer RS, what if Laurens hubby wants children of his own? To me the lies become a dead ringer in that perspective.
She will deny him his right to procreate. Sounds selfish to me.
Anyway if they are happy, good for them.
But just like my removed post said, I think it's a bad example for acceptance in general.
You hear these examples too often. I remember an episode of two and a half men where charlie kissed a 'man'(trans).
I dont mind people who see it like that.
A lot of straight people see it that way.
And that will probably never change.
But those people can learn to respect and accept it.


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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 9:46:41 PM   
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MrBukani

I learned recently that there are things about my father that even my mother doesn't know--things that he will take to his grave one day.  My Mom told me that she would actually prefer it that way--she loves her husband very much, anything he would tell her would not ever diminish that but she knows that if it would cause HIM anguish to talk about things (related to his service in WWII and things he saw) she would rather it just stay the way it is.

I had a date tell me how important it was for her to have a family one day.  I told her, "I can't give you kids--I'm not medically able to bear children."  Did I deceive her? No.  Did she need to know at that moment, one of the most intimate details of my life?  hell no.  Did I tell her eventually once we became friends?  Yes--once I decided I trusted her and felt she could handle it.  It's a personal decision.

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RE: Beating a transsexual's ass - 2/3/2012 9:59:21 PM   
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Thats cool with me hausboy.
Still if you seduce somebody and they fall deeply in love they will sacrifice a lot.
But really is it fair?
We all take things to the grave.
But if you truly love someone you should give them an honest chance to decide for themselves.
I had a girl who was unable to get pregnant.
But my olympian swimmers broke through her cystes.
She aborted it due to circumstance without telling me.
Is that fair?
You can bend fair any way you like.
That doesnt mean it is fair to someone else.

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