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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/12/2012 3:34:24 PM

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/13/2012 6:50:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: DADDY4LIFE

this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

Actually, having looked around at peoples profiles quite a bit, I've found that some people on CM actually DO like to have sticks up their @sses...or at least things that RESEMBLE sticks. Just an observation. :P

Uhhhhh most of those people call that a butt plug!!

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/14/2012 4:11:06 AM

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worst Dom i ever met was one that i had no submissive feelings for... total lack of chemistry and connection.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/15/2012 6:56:05 AM

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Wow... some of these stories. Terrifying.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/20/2012 5:13:08 PM

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When I was younger and dumber I ran into a few "prosti-dommes" who were only in this for the wrong reasons. Sometimes I think we distinguish BDSM too much from the vanilla world. You have to be passionate about your job to be successful. Same thing applies with regards to the fetish world.

Also I have talked with many Dommes who feel there needs to be some sort of regulatory or governing body in BDSM. For example before You call yourself a Mistress you have to be trained in x amount of activities for x amount of time.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/20/2012 5:40:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: southernfemmeboy
Also I have talked with many Dommes who feel there needs to be some sort of regulatory or governing body in BDSM. For example before You call yourself a Mistress you have to be trained in x amount of activities for x amount of time.

*chuckles* And all the actually dominant personalities would simply abandon the term "mistress" rather than submit to some arbitrary body. heck, I'm already "the guy who bosses Carol around" for reasons much like that. Nobody can tell me what "the guy who bosses Carol around" should or should not do other than Carol.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/20/2012 7:53:23 PM

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There are wankers who call themselves Doms. A lot of the comments here are from these morons, guys who are not well balanced, are probably social misfits or teenage boys trying to get a response. But then there are the emotionally sadistic doms, the ones that probably know - before the sub does, if she is a newbie - that they are not right for one another, and proceeds anyhow. When I was new, I became friends with a poly dom. I was very clear with him from day one that I was not poly and would never be. We developed an on line and on phone friendship, and I truly enjoyed him. And believe he enjoyed me as well. Then he told me he wanted to change; he wanted to stop being poly, felt he was too old to continue to live as he had. I believed him. My bad. We were together several times, and talked almost every day. He sent me tickets to fly to see him, and we seemed to have fun together, and care about one another. Long story short - guess what? He said he could not change, that he had tried. It really effected me for a while. I was new and dumb, and should never have believed him in the first place, should have realized we had different values. But he was supposedly the dom, and had been in the lifestyle 20+ years to my one. I will never know if he just wanted fresh meat, or if he tried to change and failed. Or something in between.

So "worst" for me is not the jerks - we can dismiss them. It is the doms who play with our lives and our emotions.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/20/2012 8:00:34 PM

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The worst Dom I met was the one I spent 7+ years with.........the one who swore on his kids he was divorced, told me which county to look up his divorce in, etc etc. (he was in actuality separated) Not only was he the worst dom, but the best liar I've ever met. *sigh*

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/20/2012 9:04:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: indigonight

An email I just got and reported- never heard from this person before now:

8/4/12 12:56 PM
It may never close a door to a restroom. It may be asked not to piss for an unreasonably long time, but only on a day when people will be over so if it is unable to obey and pisses on the carpet, there will be witnesses. It may not speak unless spoken to and must always look at my dick or any other dick in the room. No options. It in fact has no options. I do not need to enforce this, this is a fact. it has no rights whatsoever. It will never be free until the day it dies. Limits are those imposed by the physicality of a situation. I can't cut its dick off, I can cut its clit off. I want to share it with the world. As soon as it realizes it is mine, it must start trying to make every dick it meets hard and making hard dicks cum. Dogs have dicks of an appropriate size. So do horses and pigs. Roman slaves fucked lions in the Forum, sometimes the lions ate them after they came up their asses. I will brand my name on it over its pussy. I will mark it with a cigarette within 10 minutes of us meeting. I want to tatto cum slave on its forehead. When a dick cums in it, it must clean the dick off with its mouth and tongue. There must be no cum on the dick, nothing but saliva. It can make a dick hard a second time I will experiment on it. I have a degree in biochemistry and studied neurophysiology. I will look for unique ways to give it pain. Its skin is only attached at a few points, for example, over the sternum, but with proper sterile technique, it is possible to cut a slit through the skin, but not the muscle, and fucking it like a liposuction vaccume stick. There should be bruising and an incredible amount of pain. Its life will be the life of a holey person.

I would meet it JUST to call the cops when he tries to burn me.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/21/2012 5:54:50 AM

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I've had Doms message me both on this account and the one I log into when I'm feeling submissive, and wanting to talk to friends and such.
Several message me on here, demanding I move to their location haha
But I've had one who wanted to be friends with my Daddy and I
I explained I was not interested in playing with him, and he knew I don't send dirty pics/ask for them,
He texted and demanded I send him a pic of me with my shirt off
and called me immature when I said no
He's definitely old enough to know better.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/21/2012 2:26:46 PM

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No woman that has never met me can honestly answer the question about the worst dom ever.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/26/2012 4:43:00 PM

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osf:

Nevermind...completely read the post wrong...damn double negatives...

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/26/2012 8:21:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: ServosCor

The worst Dom I met was the one I spent 7+ years with.........the one who swore on his kids he was divorced, told me which county to look up his divorce in, etc etc. (he was in actuality separated) Not only was he the worst dom, but the best liar I've ever met. *sigh*

Met one of those ...still hold out hope of one day seeing him in handcuffs on americas most wanted

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/28/2012 10:37:30 AM

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I had a "mistress" who pretended to be one to get free work from me in an online game, lol. xD I was a bit naive back then...

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/28/2012 3:43:07 PM

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One of my X's who claimed he was a dom let his mom and his grandma completely run and negatively meddle in his life at 30.

LmAO this sounds like one of my ex subs. Seriously would discuss my orders with mom before choosing to follow or ignore.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/30/2012 1:45:30 AM

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Im super new here, with new I mean NEWER than new, something like an idea lol

Anyway, I got one today saying "I don't know what is wrong with subs in Mexico, they think their vagina is made of gold".......

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/30/2012 7:10:49 AM

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Im super new here, with new I mean NEWER than new, something like an idea lol

Anyway, I got one today saying "I don't know what is wrong with subs in Mexico, they think their vagina is made of gold".......

My vagina IS made of gold & I'm no where near mexico!

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 12/27/2012 9:09:12 AM

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Financial slavery is fucking hilarious. Who the hell would fall for that? You'd have to be a total idiot!

Oh - hang on - thats 'marriage'...

omg that is so damm true

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 12/27/2012 9:19:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

So "worst" for me is not the jerks - we can dismiss them. It is the doms who play with our lives and our emotions.

So very true. I come to beleive there are many Doms that, that is truely the only thing that they are looking for to do, is screw with what they don't say they want.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 12/27/2012 11:00:21 PM

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Luckily, I've been in relationships with two very wonderful, but extremely different, Doms.

Online and a few dates have been another story-- had one who started messaging me a dozen times a day, even after I very clearly requested that he stop, twice. Then I got the classic turn around message that I was the "psycho sub." Block. The one who wanted me to put on a short skirt he'd brought to our first meeting and then get on the back of his motorcycle and ride around without a helmet. Then there's the ones who want you to tell them your "darkest" fantasies via messaging just so they can get off...for them I respond with "Bored now." And block them.

Then again, it is not so different from the vanilla world of dating. I've run across lots of shouty liars there, too. I've learned how to suss them out in a message or two.

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