MistressDemeter9
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ORIGINAL: PrincessJessieJ Okay. To put it bluntly- it's power exchange. The whole damn thing. I've said it before, I'll say it again- look at society. Look at it. Everything you want or need can be bought with money- with the exception of love, of course. yes, im filing friends under love as well. But food? roof over your head? clothes on your back? Money pays for those, money keeps you having those. And look at politics. The more money you've got, the more influence. and influence=power. To put it in simpler terms.. money=influence=power. When a woman takes a mans money FROM him, re: Financial domination (not rinsers here, not talking about rinsers.) and uses it on herself, she's using her power to take his and add to hers. It's all an exchange. he gives up power to her, she takes it from him. And most of the GOOD findommes I've come into contact with don't 'just' take their money- they keep contact with them, communications, cam, right up to even sending them letters, christmas cards, etc. and sometimes even presents. That just about covers it! :-) But yes, all true. And that is what most BDSM play is about, the use and affect of power between partners (Not always sexual) that know and trust each other. And if money is a part of that, who's business is it, other than the two engaged in the play?
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