lizi
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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave I don't need any help getting a beautiful woman. Let me elaborate. My vanilla dating profiles garner celebrity attention and my inboxes are always full. (I have a screenshot for proof.) I'm something of an online dating legend and the funniest guy, says women everywhere. The ONLY PROBLEM is once I share my fetish, she loses all interest. That's why I'm on a kink site: to target that fetish to women who want that in their lives. Except that kinky women on a kink site have mailboxes jammed full too. You and your fetishes are not an attraction or a draw. We keep trying to tell you that women don't want to be approached like a menu item, they aren't men. They are offered kink and sex innumerable times a day. It's not something we have to search for, it's boring because every guy on here leads with his dick needs and expects that will capture our attention. It doesn't. I can see how frustrating it would be to get close to someone and find out your secret desires are unwanted, but there is no way to circumvent the process of getting to know someone. Women want to be treated as people, not as fetishes. You leading with the fetish means you get kicked to the curb twice as fast. Let me turn this around. You see the lovely woman of your dreams at a party. She seems to be everything you want. Do you walk up to her, whip out your penis, and ask to smell her feet? Or do you say hello, how are you, along with all of the other boring stuff...? You are at that party here Dude, no one cares about what your dick needs. I can say I have never once read a description in a profile and said oh wow, I physically fit that stranger's description of what gets him off, I think I'll write him. Women find sex all day long. It's not hard for us and it's not novel or rare. You can look at all the posts so far as food for thought or keep rejecting what a whole bunch of KINKY WOMEN here are telling you. I asked you a question earlier, perhaps you could answer it please? Edited to add: Ah well, as I was writing the OP flounced. Wasted effort.
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