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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:00:39 PM

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I just found the whole "I've dated celebrities" thing to be funny. I don't define myself by who I've dated.

I've dated a guy that has written three books and a lucrative computer program, a guy who is the VP of a radio network and the owner of a who's who restaurant. I've dated a sportscaster, a model, two guys whose families show up in the Social Register and one in Burke's.

Big whoop....all that and $3 will get me a latte at Starbucks.

None of that raises your value. If you're putz, you're a putz no matter who you've dated.

I never said I dated a celebrity. I said my vanilla dating profiles GARNER CELEBRITY ATTENTION.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:05:01 PM

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I'd wager to say that most people have dated someone that is either, rich, famous, or infamous, at some point. I have my own lists of conquests, one so oddly specific that I can't really give a general description because I value his privacy. Funny thing is....no one knows if you left them or they left you. You could have had the looks, brains, or personality to snag someone special, but then did they want you after they got to know you? Were you a putz, and they dropped you like day old bread? Who knows!

Sometimes it doesn't take much to reel people in, keeping them is another whole story. I'd be more impressed if he'd said he'd had 2 relationships of long length with women that he treasured and was exceedingly happy with. That would make me take notice. Fleeting innumerable conquests of whatever model or estate heiress seems tawdry instead of attractive. The OP keeps forgetting he's trying to attract women, not men. His stories might buy him some prestige in the male world. Just another example of how much he doesn't get it- that what he's doing here is guaranteed to keep him lonely because it's not what women want.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:06:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave

GARNER CELEBRITY ATTENTION.

Ironically, celebrities garnish my attention

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:10:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission

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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave

GARNER CELEBRITY ATTENTION.

Ironically, celebrities garnish my attention

With parsley? Or Radish roses?

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:12:03 PM

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Yes, I say whilst teeming with uncontrollable jealousy!

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:13:24 PM

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Im a sub guy, and even i think you're missing the whole point here. I might be new here but even i understand that an attitude like that wont make you come across as a believable sub. These women know more about how women want to be approached because *shock, horror* they are them. You may just have put off the girl you're looking for and you dont realise it which is why you're having a hard time of convincing any girl you are worth the effort.

This lot have no more reason to hate you than to like you so take in what they're saying as good advice rather than them having a dig at you and you might get somewhere with your search. After all, if you're a sub, show some respect!

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:16:27 PM

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I know many of you are being very reserved in your post, and I appreciate that. This is the introduction section though and if a new member cannot take constructive suggestions then please do not apply the hammer.

Thanks for being a part of CollarMe,
Gamma

Please do not reply to this post, and if you have any questions you can mail me.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:17:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
I was also suggested to ask doms to review my profile, so go do that.

I'm not a Dom, but I do know what to put forth in my attempts to attract the type of Dominant I would
be most compatible with, so I'll give it a shot.

In reviewing your profile, I find it to be incredibly focused on your very specific needs/wants. The good news is,
black is a very popular color choice for fetish wear and every day nylons anyways, so it isn't going to be impossible
to find someone who dresses accordingly. Of course, you would be willing to help her expand her wardrobe by gifting
her some of these items too, yes?

As it stands now, you make it seem as though you will be compatible with any dominant female as long as she
is dressed to your specifications, and lets you smell her feet after a long day at the office. Perhaps if you balanced that
out by also being very specific in why you feel you are everything a Mistress wants in a man, it would make you
appear more balanced.

Otherwise, as I said in your initial introduction, it sounds like you are more interested in a relationship with the
socks/nylons than the woman. If all else fails, there are profiles on the other side that advertise dirty nylons for sale.
Maybe you can develop a loving and fulfilling relationship with one of the sellers, and live happily ever after.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 3:40:48 PM

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Good post cbx16v.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 4:11:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
I was also suggested to ask doms to review my profile, so go do that.

I'm not a Dom, but I do know what to put forth in my attempts to attract the type of Dominant I would
be most compatible with, so I'll give it a shot.

In reviewing your profile, I find it to be incredibly focused on your very specific needs/wants. The good news is,
black is a very popular color choice for fetish wear and every day nylons anyways, so it isn't going to be impossible
to find someone who dresses accordingly. Of course, you would be willing to help her expand her wardrobe by gifting
her some of these items too, yes?

As it stands now, you make it seem as though you will be compatible with any dominant female as long as she
is dressed to your specifications, and lets you smell her feet after a long day at the office. Perhaps if you balanced that
out by also being very specific in why you feel you are everything a Mistress wants in a man, it would make you
appear more balanced.

Otherwise, as I said in your initial introduction, it sounds like you are more interested in a relationship with the
socks/nylons than the woman. If all else fails, there are profiles on the other side that advertise dirty nylons for sale.
Maybe you can develop a loving and fulfilling relationship with one of the sellers, and live happily ever after.

Yup. Ask yourself, if I were a woman, what would be in this for me?

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 4:30:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
I was also suggested to ask doms to review my profile, so go do that.

I'm not a Dom, but I do know what to put forth in my attempts to attract the type of Dominant I would
be most compatible with, so I'll give it a shot.

In reviewing your profile, I find it to be incredibly focused on your very specific needs/wants. The good news is,
black is a very popular color choice for fetish wear and every day nylons anyways, so it isn't going to be impossible
to find someone who dresses accordingly. Of course, you would be willing to help her expand her wardrobe by gifting
her some of these items too, yes?

As it stands now, you make it seem as though you will be compatible with any dominant female as long as she
is dressed to your specifications, and lets you smell her feet after a long day at the office. Perhaps if you balanced that
out by also being very specific in why you feel you are everything a Mistress wants in a man, it would make you
appear more balanced.

Otherwise, as I said in your initial introduction, it sounds like you are more interested in a relationship with the
socks/nylons than the woman. If all else fails, there are profiles on the other side that advertise dirty nylons for sale.
Maybe you can develop a loving and fulfilling relationship with one of the sellers, and live happily ever after.

Yup. Ask yourself, if I were a woman, what would be in this for me?

What's in it for her, assuming she's what I need and passes screening, is a lifetime of happiness and joy. Of course, I'd send her my bio and resume to answer all her questions.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 4:32:02 PM

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Dead romantic, rapeymask dude!

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 4:36:57 PM

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Yeah, you still don't get it, so good luck.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 6:15:59 PM

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Im a sub guy, and even i think you're missing the whole point here. I might be new here but even i understand that an attitude like that wont make you come across as a believable sub. These women know more about how women want to be approached because *shock, horror* they are them. You may just have put off the girl you're looking for and you dont realise it which is why you're having a hard time of convincing any girl you are worth the effort.

This lot have no more reason to hate you than to like you so take in what they're saying as good advice rather than them having a dig at you and you might get somewhere with your search. After all, if you're a sub, show some respect!

Hey, I like this guy ^^^^ and think he's a keeper!

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 6:17:22 PM

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OP, the simple point most here are trying to get across is it would greatly benefit you to switch bait. What you're using now won't work well for what your trying to lure and catch.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 8:15:53 PM

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I'm not changing a thing. I highly doubt she's here after my short experience, anyway. I'll probably be packing up soon.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 9:36:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: cbx16v

Im a sub guy, and even i think you're missing the whole point here. I might be new here but even i understand that an attitude like that wont make you come across as a believable sub. These women know more about how women want to be approached because *shock, horror* they are them. You may just have put off the girl you're looking for and you dont realise it which is why you're having a hard time of convincing any girl you are worth the effort.

This lot have no more reason to hate you than to like you so take in what they're saying as good advice rather than them having a dig at you and you might get somewhere with your search. After all, if you're a sub, show some respect!

I love you. Will you be mine?

Seriously, cbx16v...great post!!

Welcome to the boards SockSlave. And better luck somewhere else if you make good on your flounce.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 9:40:34 PM

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I'm not changing a thing. I highly doubt she's here after my short experience, anyway. I'll probably be packing up soon.

As you wish, dear fellow. It is your choice and your life. Good luck to you.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 9:42:54 PM

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Am I the only one who feels like this entire thread was like a Bad Day at Blackrock, or should I say BlackSock?! Sorry, I couldn't resist. Such low impulse control!

Ah well, you can lead a horse to water, but....

I can't say you all didn't try.

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RE: What's an acceptable introduction? - 10/3/2012 9:50:53 PM

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And when you try getting to know a dom as a person, all they do is give you an ice queen attitude. It's a lose-lose situation.

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