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Arturas -> RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? (2/22/2013 8:00:29 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
Yes, I am rational. I live in the real world, not the fantasy that you an Tammy live in (until the next public airing of all your problems).
You proclaim to be a dominant, yet you also recognize you have absolutely no control over your submissive and to top it off, you have this bizarre need to feed your OCD by planning elaborate scenes.
Newsflash sugar tits, YOUR definition of BDSM is not everyone's definition. No one cares what fantasy world you live in, or your lack of understanding of reality or psychology, sociology or basic human interaction.
You seem to be replying under the delusion that the OP only wanted the point of view of dominants. Well, I'm a switch, so that makes me qualified to answer, even though I still believe you are deluded.
This is a young girl who is being led down the rosy path by someone who is clueless (do you feel a kinship with him?). What most of us have done is to attempt to keep her from doing something she will regret when the frenzy is over, or when she finds herself posted on every amateur porn site there is, which ever comes first.
So please, feel free, in all your domly dominess to tell her what a wonderful idea it is for her to continue doing what she is doing. I doubt you care if she is later hurt by doing what she is doing.
As an aside, your misunderstanding of the terms "simulation" and "virtual" is disturbing.
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Yes, I am rational. I live in the real world, not the fantasy that you an Tammy live in (until the next public airing of all your problems).
I live in a real world of 24/7 and that is not all Roses and there are some Thorns indeed but we enjoy it together, thank you very much for asking.
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You proclaim to be a dominant, yet you also recognize you have absolutely no control over your submissive and to top it off, you have this bizarre need to feed your OCD by planning elaborate scenes.
You suggest we do away with the safe word and one is not a Dom if he allows safewords. You also suggest Doms who put together scenes have a bizarre need.
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This is a young girl who is being led down the rosy path by someone who is clueless (do you feel a kinship with him?). What most of us have done is to attempt to keep her from doing something she will regret when the frenzy is over, or when she finds herself posted on every amateur porn site there is, which ever comes first.
You are such a nice person for looking out for this "young girl". I don't remember her asking you and she is not a young girl, she is an adult.
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You seem to be replying under the delusion that the OP only wanted the point of view of dominants. Well, I'm a switch, so that makes me qualified to answer, even though I still believe you are deluded.
Actually, she did not want anyone's opinion. She instead asked male Doms if they were interested in swapping. Are you in the right thread?
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