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EligibleOwner -> RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? (2/18/2013 9:07:20 AM)
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If it's true that this isn't about cybersex, then I can't see what benefit there'd be in this swap.
I've never done online, but I can imagine I might one day - say, if I made contact with someone amazing in New Zealand (I'm in the UK) and we were planning visits, or our next visit, and thinking about relocation.
If this happened then, apart from Skype calls where we'd talk, dominating her online would I guess consist of e-mails in which I'd explain and set rules for her, and give her instructions; and perhaps e-mails from her explaining what she's done to comply. I guess we'd share photographs showing me what she'd eaten, the state of her nails, how she'd complied with her dress code and so on. I guess we might share a task-management system or something like that. We might communicate through a private blog that could be a souvenir when we were together in real life.
Imagining all this, I can't see for the life of me how swapping her would help either me, or her. It'd either mean (a) letting someone else try to hold her to my standards, or (b) letting her off her responsibilities to me for a while, and accept a totally different structure that might contradict mine.
If (a), how could the other guy possibly do this, not being me? However great he might be (and the chances of that would be low) he'd need at least as much instruction in my ways as she did! And he'd bore me to death telling me how his girlfriend has to do X, Y and Z.
If it was (b), it'd just interfere with my ideas and plans for her. If I wanted her to be vegetarian, I would not want someone else having her eat meat. Why would I? I'd want meeting my expectations to become an ingrained, everyday habit with her - not to be interrupted.
Either way, as Athena said, why would I want my most valuable possession in someone else's hands? I'd be possessive about her, in the best sense (okay, and perhaps the worst).
Equally, I can't see why I'd want to try being "with" someone else online for a few days. I'd need to begin all over again explaining what was expected. Or else I'd need to try to enforce some other man's expectations on this woman I didn't know, having taken time to learn his rules. But some of those things might be things I don't understand or believe in - or even think were good for her.
For all those reasons, it's hard to believe this man is serious. I'm sorry to say this to the OP, but I suspect he wants to find a new woman to interact with. Anyway, it'd put her at risk, and is overall a very bad idea.
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