Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady Gutless? Perhaps for you. However, I would say the exact same things if I were standing right next to any person I comment to on this thread. It's called standing by your convictions. I abhor people who cheat on their spouses, and no, I've never had it happen to me. I abhor people who think that because it is BDSM, we are devoid of morals and ethics and would condone such behavior. For the record, on some other day in some other thread, you're not gonna be one of those just as indignantly declaring how you don't judge others? quote:
She opened herself up to criticism by putting on both this thread and her profile that she and her "dom" are both married and their spouses don't know. Regardless of that, many people would have told her that she was just a piece to him and to move on anyway, which is equally painful to hear. So how many does it take to say the same thing? I don't mean a simple "nods", or "I agree with...", I mean the creepy way you each feed off the other to escalate the rage. And actually, I think I said as much in my first post ("a piece to him"), but without all the judgemental rhetoric. That or one of the other threads I'm currently cross-posting with... lol I'll check another time. quote:
You want to coddle her and tell her it's ok, the big bad cliquey mob of regulars on Collarme are just being mean and it's ok to cheat on your spouse, have at it. But all I see you doing here is complaining about what others say. I don't think I've "coddled" anyone. I've not condoned what she's doing, I merely gave an opinion to that *which she asked*. Sick of seeing newbies getting pack attacked on these boards? Guilty! And yeah, of course you see me as complaining blah blah. People do that and much worse when someone dares to put a mirror to their actions. Focus.
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Never underestimate the persuasive power of stupid people in large groups. <unknown> Your food is for eating, not torturing. <my mum> (Errm, when I was a kid)
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