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Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 1:44:31 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 1:53:37 AM   
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And then for some.......well - we just enjoy it!!!  heehee! 

The reasons are as varied as the stars in the sky! 

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 2:33:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think it does. No more than today's society in general.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 2:50:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Agreed there, its just anywhere you go you will find BBW's its not just BDSM or some form of, i prefer a BBW over a thinny, but thats just my personal preferences, I usually find that more of the larger sub/slaves of both genders tend to put pics with their profiles, maybe its just me who knows. But you can't just generalise and say that more than anything else say that more doms and subs are overwight

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 2:56:05 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 3:09:22 AM   
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more than its' fair share of overweight women?

more than it's fair share ?



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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 3:22:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sixstrokes

Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of overweight women?


Ohhh God, not another person having a go at my saggy ass

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 3:29:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sixstrokes

Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of overweight women?


This question begs another...

Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of idiots?

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:03:35 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:09:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		To the OP:  Why does CM attract more than its fair share of the morons that still have that leggy blonde wearing leather in their little minds? 

People are people, we all come in different shapes, sizes, colors, beliefs, likes, dislikes...etc.  Have you not delt with someone who is overweight in your real life?  If you aren't attracted to someone that is BBW, such as myself, then don't bother taking the time to send them an email.  I am proud of who I am, what I am & personally don't care what others see as my fat ass is bent over in their face.  Dont like it?  Don't look. 

I was chatting with a subbie that lives in Chicago last night on yahoo... I asked him a question & I LOVED his reply, it is as follows::
mswilladore (6/26/2006 6:56:32 PM): sure you want to pay all of this attention to someone that is BBW?  I know physical attraction is a part of being human, so please do NOT be afraid to answer me & be honest.
Paul (6/26/2006 6:56:49 PM): May I asnwer that
mswilladore (6/26/2006 6:56:55 PM): of course you may
Paul (6/26/2006 6:57:40 PM): Seamed like in 70's and 80's the older guys that were out of shape got "gals" that were in good shape. Not sure why. What's wrong with a "voluptuous gal" getting what she wants. I know it's reversed. But what's wrong with it?  Beauty is only skin deep & I, personally, want a woman - Domme - who is comfortable, confident & real.

I THINK I AM GOING TO MARRY THIS GUY!!!! LOL!

Anywhooooooo... Why even post such a stupid stupid question?  That question runs along the same line as "What is the meaning of life?"

Just my two cents...cuz that's all I can afford.  "Fat people clothes" aren't cheap... lol.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:10:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think that's a internet issue Feastie. Not bdsm.

I often wonder why the WalMart seems to attract more than it's "fair share" of short people?

Something symbolic I suppose. Something really deep.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:11:04 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:13:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LiliesDoGrow

I think that's a internet issue Feastie. Not bdsm.

I often wonder why the WalMart seems to attract more than it's "fair share" of short people?

Something symbolic I suppose. Something really deep.


Obviously, you haven't attend my local munch group nor shopped my Walmart.

It ain't an internet thang.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:18:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		idiots, short people, overweight people and so forth tend to gather in those places that their respective shortcomings are least a hindrance. as long as you can reach the keyboard, you can still post no matter how short you are. as long as you can bash your head on a keyboard, you can still post, no matter how dumb you are. and as long as you can find your fingers, you can still post, no matter how fat you are.

real life things, even simple ones like walking down the street, put a higher entry barrier in front of idiots, fatties and so forth than the most demanding internet forum.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:19:00 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:20:00 AM   
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I was being funny Feastie 'cause the OP's query is ignorant and mean spirited.

And my WalMart is full of short people. Nothing against short people. Being a tall woman who would have prefered to be shorter myself.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:20:46 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:30:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		a mean spirited question - why do so many of you assume that being overweight is a criticism?

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:35:07 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 6/27/2006 4:37:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		feastie - good point by you about the idiots - there are links going on here that would not be out of place in a magazine for 13 year olds -

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