Missokyst
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Joined: 9/9/2006 Status: offline
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From your posting we know this. You want a younger sexual slave to live with you and your wife. You present that your wife is dominant YET she knows nothing about this stuff. You present that your wife is .01% bi. You present your wife cannot have sex for health reasons. What most of us here know: You are wanting what a lot of men want. A younger woman and that you want your wife on board with your desires. How the heck do you know she is any percentage of bi? How do you know she is dominant if she knows nothing about this stuff? Believe it or not, just because a person is vocal about what they want and expect things done it does not make them kink inclined. Finally upon the clarification below, we know that the first way you think of sex is orally, as in you being serviced but can't because she has asma. On yeah, it also prevents a lot of regular sex. quote:
ORIGINAL: trustandesire Again, thanks for the replies. Lots of good info. Been here reading and passing time. First seeing if it is what I seek, then contemplating the implications of revealing it. Have tried mild interjection on the topic and it was met with negative feelings. Just because I have been here for years doesn't mean I an here daily. It's a pass time. Web surfing. And no, not much porno or masturbating going on here. Fantasizing of different scenarios?, sure, but that's about it. I don't rush or jump into anything. Yes, I am dominant. I like being in control of all aspects of my life and of my female partner both in and out of the bedroom. I like things done my way, by my decisions. No, not into the pain side of it, rather fancy pleasing a woman instead. Yes, been married, yes still happily. no cheating. Yes looking to because lack of sex has made me a bit nuts. Shoot me. Would rather have wife on board hence my posting this way out of control post. Asthma prevents oral sex and some regular sex. meds make her spazz and no sleep. It's all connected and it all affects back to the sex life which suffers. Not rich, not looking to spend gobs of money on a hooker or any woman. Was looking for another who had the same empty place as me. RE-thinking my options.
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