AnnaOfAramis
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I didn't need love to become owned and mastered by my Master. In fact, at the time I was in love with someone else- and also believed I needed to love someone before I could be mastered by them, lol. But this proved to me I was wrong. I just needed someone who could master me and chose to do so- and no I'm not saying that anyone could master me either, it takes the right person. But I do not believe I could stay long term in an M/s relationship without love. I have been mastered 24/7 now for nine years by the same man, and while I did not love him when he first took possession of me, I did fall in love with him in the year that followed. The thing is, I think that we all have needs as humans and I would not want to live out my life without love. I believe that to remain mastered, I need my needs met, or I would become unhappy and eventually unmastered. So to answer your question, for me, I don't believe it is necessary to start a D/s or M/s relationship, but if it is going to be a long term relationship, then I believe the love has to come eventually if love is something important to either party to have.
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in obsequium hominis
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