ExiledTyrant
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ORIGINAL: hurtnotharm
guy, girl, whatever. the errant gender reference was inadvertant.
(Lie mode on) as much as I'd love to continue this pissing contest with you, (lie mode off) I'll wait until you get this sock puppet outed, and then I will eviscerate you through these boards. Like hundreds before you, and hundreds after you, you will crawl off into the dark corner of your Domly library, baffled as to what happened here, and you will lay idle for months, try and start fresh, new profile, new sentence structure... Perhaps doing enough due diligence to proxy your way back in here. But just like now, you'll fumble, be outed, and try again.
I get that you're chest thumping here, because you got your ass spanked. Now, there isn't any particular part of your original reply that I could or would disagree with, if it were elsewhere. Because your ego got rubbed and what ever inferiority issue welled up inside you, because the OP stated her position, excluding you, and got your panties in twist because either it's not your way, or you are simply a well educated Top that does not exude the energy she sought, you felt compelled to decry shenanigans. I don't much care for your reason... Again, your post was spot on, just not in this spot.
What the OP was stating was that she is car shopping, and the profile side is the way you look for the car you're interested in. That Cmail, email, text and talk is the dealer hype, and that is all fine and good, leads strait to the face to face with the dealer. But, she was in no way going to take the dealers word that the car, in fact, would start, run, and drive. She wanted to hear the motor purrrrrrrr herself.
The D being the dealer, and the energetic connection, his Dominant energy coalescing with her submissive energy, is and was the "car starting". The D that inspired the post didn't start the car, and came across too unsure for her to achieve that energetic connection.
I get that you may not exude such energy, not everyone does... Hence my campaign to add Top and bottom designations to avoid further panty twists on the site... And it isn't black and white either. I resonate with some submissive energy, not all submissive energy, and vice versa. My D just gets some women's "GIRL ON!" And some it does nothing at all for. I happily accept that, it is just the nature of the beast. More importantly, face to face, I am first and foremost looking for a friendly connection, if the energetic quickening happens, it's that much sweeter, if it doesn't, I find myself I the company that I share a great deal of common interest with. The opportunity to forge a lasting friendship is more important to me, because I suck at being a short term friend, but I'm really good on the long haul.
Now, what I've seen on this thread is a lot of butt hurt... Librarian D's that have read everything and think this education makes them uber Domly Dom and they can/could/should school the misguided subby into their "one true way", which any rational /s will nod in agreement or step in front of a bus just to shut them the hell up. I've also seen /s's, not just here, but in thread after thread, get butt hurt because the settled for what works within reason, and the audacity of someone else holding out for what works well, offends them.
All the bickering and brow beating isn't going to change the OP's stance, she is steadfast, rock solid, and determined to have the dynamic she is looking for. I get it, I understand it, it helps a little that I'm currently banging her out, and even still I wouldn't ever try to dissuade her from her goal. Is she Topping from the bottom? Nope. She is clear on her wants, needs, and limits. Very specific, and what everyone should be well aware of is the fact no matter what your wants, needs, and limits, there is someone searching for the same thing, you just have to have the courage to find them.
Now if we can deviate back to the original intent of this thread, I'd love to read some input from FD's and our /boys.
Jus sayin
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