UllrsIshtar
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1 If you re-read the opening post, she explains that she is trying to make a change and is physically punished for attempting to do so. Add that to the harmful proceedure he puts her through every morning shrieks abuse. But she doesn't want to change the behavior you consider abusive (the holding the pee thing). In fact, she has literally said that that part of it doesn't bother her, and she still finds it kinda hot. It's the forced yoga-like position training ritual that she wants to change... she specifically does NOT want to change the 'potentially abusive' behavior. In fact, she has specifically stated she doesn't consider the relationship abusive. quote:
ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1 She also seems unwilling (or mentally unable due to her conditioning) to stand up for herself in that regard. She doesn't at all seem unwilling (let alone unable) to stand up for herself to me, as she has multiple times brought up the topic. What she seems unwilling to do is step outside the confounds of her consent and state: 'I no longer consent to being a slave who has no right to bring up grievances'. She has already, in the past, consented to a relationship in which she would be punished for complaining, or wanting her husband to change. That consent stand, as she's been thus far unwilling to revoke it. Instead of revoking consent, what she's been trying to do is have it both ways: she's trying to both be a chattel slave and be a wife allowed to bring up grievances, even though the two are contradictory. She's trying to have her cake and eat it to, because what she wants is not to get out of a situation she considers abusive (considering she doesn't consider it abusive), what she wants is for him to do more stuff to her that turns her on, and less stuff that seems like mundane drudgery to her. Sorry, if her wanting to spice up her sex life, and therefore her refusing to withdraw consent to something that makes her horny, is a sign she's being abuses, than 99% of housewives in America are abused. quote:
ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1 Sure, she originally consented to it; but now she is tired of it and wants a change. Masterhusband is refusing her that option. That is blatant abuse. If that's the case, she needs to actually withdraw consent, instead of merely nagging him for change within the confounds of her consent to not be allowed to nag for change. Sorry, but her husband ain't a mindreader. If she consents to not being allowed to complain, with added consent to being punished for complaining, then her starting to complain will not register to him as a desire for change, it will register as a desire for punishment. He is doing exactly what they agreed he would do, and what she consented to him doing: he's punishing her for complaining. If instead of complaining and provoking punishment she wants to no longer consent, that's of course her option, but if that's the case she needs to actually do that.
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