So it's fear and not understanding, plain and simple.
I don't think it's fear if you don't want a woman touching you. If a woman touches you and your skin crawls, it means, you don't feel sexually attracted to her, it's the same if a man unattractive to you touches you, my skin will crawl too. It doesn't give me nice feelings. It's called an orientation. And everybody is born with their own personal orientation.
"How can someone be dominant and yet submissive at the same time? I don't get it. They must not be *truly* dominant. So they're not compatible."
Which is all in your head.
I don't think it's fair to expect for example a straight or gay person to accept a bisexual as a sexual partner. While some may choose to do so, or be capable of feeling that attraction, that is fine, but if they do not, it's not prejudice, it's not hate, it's simply orientation, on how you can't feel sexual attraction to a certain person's make up.
I've always been very specific on my tastes in sexual partners. In one of the threads, something about is it racist not to want to have sex with people of a certain colour. And I have a certain thing as well, one shade coloured dick is important to me. I don't like multi-coloured dicks. Certain race has that issue. White inside, dark outside, that looks weird to me, and honestly, I don't know why, but it revolts me, I like dicks to be one colour. So if it's suppose to be dark caramel brown, then it should be dark caramel brown inside and out. There are people of the same race, but different colour shades, depending on their origins, that some can be single coloured and some can be multi-coloured, it's weird that there is this variation.
I never understood complains about people sexual preferences, whether for sub, dom, switches, gay, lesbians, bisexual, a specific colour or race. Physical attraction is important to many when it comes to feeling turn on for a physical relationship. If no sex was involved, none of those factors matters when it comes to choosing friends.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 5/13/2014 10:48:34 PM >