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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Doing something for her, like cooking a special meal and having a romantic evening does not shake my security in my manhood or my right to be Master. I will even do the dishes now and then or cleaned up after us. Having a servant/slave structure in your relationship doesn't mean you have to mistreat your partner or treat them with disrespect. If treating your partner with respect shakes your concept of dominance, you are not fit to have a healthy and rewarding M/s lifestyle.

My slave wife serves me. We have daily rituals that remind her of her place. She brings me breakfast in bed and presents herself naked to me in the mornings. On the other hand, I have her kneel at my feet and tell her how much owning her enriches my life, what a good person she is, how sexy and beautiful she is to me and how proud I am to own her. I give her respect and I make no hesitation to doing things for her. It is a relationship, both ends of the leash are binding and come with responsibilities.

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To answer your questions in the OP.

Our "Master/Slave" relationships is not an online fantasy. She is my slave in real life. After a year, she became my slave wife.

It is not a 'weekend warrior' thing. We live together 24/7 and our M/s protocols are 24/7. We high protocol and low protocol but we don't have no protocol. For example, in our years together, she never ever once spoken my name. She calls me Sir or Master even when talking with others. She may resort to referring to me as "he" or "him" when calling me Sir would be glaringly inappropriate. For example, "he like his steaks very rare".

My slave wife is not equal in the control aspect of our relationship... but she is equally important. Her life goals, emotional needs and relationship satisfaction is equally important. I treasure owning her so she of high value to me. She is my prized possession and I respect her.

For my use of the term slave, I go with the definition in the dictionary "a person entirely under the domination of some influence or person" and "a person who is the property of and wholly subject to another; a bond servant".