camille65
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Joined: 7/11/2007 From: Austin Texas Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic just my 20 cents worth. There is "not understanding," there is "not knowing", then there is" knowing and not wanting to understand" and there is wilful ignorance. imagine everyone you have ever known say that despite what you believe, you are a man. You can only have male feelings, you can only stand up when you pee, you can only use mens rooms, you can only be seen AS a male by everyone you know or meet. you are expected to live your day by someone elses rules. How would you prove you are a female, especially when you have the physical appearance of a man, why wouldnt it upset you. Ive had three teenagers Ive been a teenager, and I remember the agony of teenagers. this poor kid and millions of others have REAL problems made worse by bullying, hate and wilful ignorance. Time to look and digest facts that go into the REAL issues, not brush it off with a personal opinion that is almost as bad as totally ignoring the issues that are faced by millions of teens, wether trans/gay/bi/ or hetero. As I said earlier I don't agree with the OP or that view, I just can understand why/how people refuse to see things that shake up their world. I empathize with that without engaging in it myself. I can empathize with pretty much anyone in any situation, some say it is a fault of mine while others say it is my greatest asset. Personally I find the story of this girl horrifying, being told her entire life that she is wrong for feeling wrong. Her last Tumblr post was taken down, her obituary mentioned that she was a boy not a girl. That lack of support makes my heart hurt for her. I also understand why she took her own life although I really really wish she could have waited this out, I wish she'd given herself time to grow up and move away from her parents. I've read too many stories about very young children trying to damage their genitals because they feel wrong. Too many stories of young people who feel they've nowhere to turn, no one to trust and no one who really understands. Part of that IMO is the nature of being a teenager, it is nearly impossible to believe an adult who says "Hey I've been there, I know how you feel." Part of it is society, while gay rights have made leaps and bounds there is still so much that is not widely accepted. Being transgender is one of those things. My hope is that I will see the day when gender identity doesn't matter.
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