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ORIGINAL: Awareness

You really have some weird fucken hobbies, you know that?

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

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ORIGINAL: Kittenluv954
i actually never defined what i find attractive, but nice try at painting me a hypocrite.

Actually you DID. I specifically said that 2-5% of women want the cute face and a set of abs. You responded by saying " im also one of the 2% that expect a man to be attractive TO ME." , specifically referencing my statement. (If you're going to try and say you weren't referencing what I said, then I call bullshit, because otherwise your entire sentiment is unrelated to the discussion at all - in which case you're just confused.)

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as for my security, i think you missed manko's post on that, as she knows me and you do not. again, nice try.

She may think she knows you, but in 5 seconds the bitterness in your response tells me more than she ever could.

One of the mistakes people make is to presume they're opaque. They're not. The people with the strongest emotional responses are generally the most transparent. Your response is not the response of a secure woman who disagrees. It's the response of a bitter, disappointed woman.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I was counting down the moments since you once again graced us with your presence, till you pulled that bullshit again.

You are nothing if not consistent for calling everyone who disagrees with you bitter or disappointed. I understand you like to be thought of as marching to the tune of your own bongo player, but really you just like to stir shit up.

You know nothing but your own narrow minded views, have a real issue with women who support each other, and while you made a slight attempt, you are back to insulting everyone who dares to disagree with you.

I expect your reply to me will be some variation of bitter, disappointed, emotional, confused, a cunt, a bitch, old, fat or delusional.

Here's a thesaurus, impress us with your command of language.

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I was counting down the moments since you once again graced us with your presence, till you pulled that bullshit again.

You are nothing if not consistent for calling everyone who disagrees with you bitter or disappointed. I understand you like to be thought of as marching to the tune of your own bongo player, but really you just like to stir shit up.

You know nothing but your own narrow minded views, have a real issue with women who support each other, and while you made a slight attempt, you are back to insulting everyone who dares to disagree with you.

I expect your reply to me will be some variation of bitter, disappointed, emotional, confused, a cunt, a bitch, old, fat or delusional.

Here's a thesaurus, impress us with your command of language.

SexyRed, I'm not going to engage in unpleasantness with a woman who is suffering as much as you are. There's nothing to be gained by responding to your venom. I'm well aware you have never had anything other than spite for me, but if anything, you require more joy in your life, not less. There is no honour in my heaping any kind of recrimination upon your head. Accordingly, while you're free to believe as you will, I will not be using this forum to pull you down. I wish you long life, joy and peace.

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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit
I do ;) but that's because that's the only way you humans make any sense to me.

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At the risk of proving your point awareness... I don't buy the "own group preference" stuff unless it's a group that already knows each other, or has other similarities... most women are naturally socially competitive. And will side with the group that seems beneficial. I.e. women will defend a potential partner to a group of friends, but they will throw a drink in their face if they see the group as "worth more"

Example 1: I met one of my owners friends for the first time last year, our conversation was joking but she was obviously testing me she told him she likes me but then the next day texted him saying she saw me somewhere talking to some guys. What she was doing was an obvious attempt to sow discordo there was no connection based on being female, it was competitive.

Example 2: hanging out with the members of a poly house 2 girls and one guy... one of the girls and the guy were present and he decided to try to gain ground 'look impressive' by putting me in a hold and telling me to beg to let go. The girl that was there had a history of abuse and she immediately went quiet and wrapped her hand around the lamp. If I needed it she would have defended me based on her history though not the common 'female' ground

Maybe I just feel left out that girls never side with me :'( ;)

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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

Mako: I wish I could deal with my natural color but I feel looking too normal isn't enough warning to people :P

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady. I don't have the desire or need for insincerity. And I'm still not going to attack you.

Your need for health and happiness is greater than my need to win an argument with a sick, unhappy woman on an internet forum.

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*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady.

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady. I don't have the desire or need for insincerity. And I'm still not going to attack you.

Your need for health and happiness is greater than my need to win an argument with a sick, unhappy woman on an internet forum.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That isn't a way to defuse sensitive feelings, Awareness. Jesus Christ, if you're going to do the 'I tell it like it is' thing - which you do well, when you put some effort into it - I would suggest you *go all the way* in eliminating the oneupmanship element. It's unnecessary and gets in the way.

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1. Women side with women they have a perceived both with when NOT in competition for resources.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady.

That isn't a way to defuse sensitive feelings, Awareness. Jesus Christ, if you're going to do the 'I tell it like it is' thing - which you do well, when you put some effort into it - I would suggest you *go all the way* in eliminating the oneupmanship element. It's unnecessary and gets in the way.