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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/30/2015 9:49:16 PM

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Are you really interested in that book?

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/30/2015 10:18:02 PM

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It sounds to me like women don't really get to play the game in your book...

It looks to me like you have a way of taking any general comment someone makes and turning it into a personal criticism which you subsequently cannot let go.

If you're not going to engage honestly, then don't bother engaging at all. You're wasting your time with this petty crap.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/31/2015 12:11:29 AM

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Yeah and if you go for the outliers you get the ones like me....

daddy based his obsession on me off of a picture of me holding a plunger menacingly over a toilet with a crazed look on my face(in latex and knee high combat boots) and a profile about how I was the master of the universe. He said right there I was his I just didn't know it yet and stayed on it like a pit bull.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/31/2015 12:39:51 AM

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Yeah and if you go for the outliers you get the ones like me....

daddy based his obsession on me off of a picture of me holding a plunger menacingly over a toilet with a crazed look on my face(in latex and knee high combat boots) and a profile about how I was the master of the universe. He said right there I was his I just didn't know it yet and stayed on it like a pit bull.

Crazy people need love too.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/31/2015 12:44:19 AM

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"Everyone else is crazy, I'm the only sane one"

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/2/2015 10:32:24 PM

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I go to a BDSM club and have several friends there. I was talking to a woman who was complaining about all the spam, fakes and perverts on dating sites. She showed me her account on match.com and her mailbox was flooded with men wanting to meet her. I looked at their profiles and they seemed like normal men. I asked her, "What about him?" "What about this guy?" She would say, "Eckk!! No!" "He looks creepy." With one swoop with her hand, she called them all creepy, pervs, etc. Including this site.

The reason women complain is because they don't give anyone a chance. I realize that a lot of men just want sex, but not all do. Many want an authentic relationship.

Don't you think that women have more OPPORTUNITY then men on dating sites?

I think making a connection with someone you really like is difficult for most men and women. The experience of men and women is different on dating sites, and the challenges/issues they face are different, but I think most people find the process a tiresome experience.

I've connected with a number of women on dating sites, and have dated a lot of women I met on sites. So in my experience there is plenty of opportunity online for men.

I don't waste time getting wrapped up in the negative aspects. People will be rude, flakes and disappear without warning. Such is life. If a woman wants to delete 100 messages unread because she's in a bad mood, that's her business. If she wants to judge someone based on something trivial, that's her business. If she doesn't want to give anyone a chance, again, that's her business.

If a woman wants to complain unreasonably, that's her business. If you spend your time listening to her unreasonable complaints, that's on you.

My feeling is take care of your own stuff, and the rest of the world will take of itself OK without your sage advice/suggestions on how other should act -- trust me, no one wants to hear it.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/11/2015 6:42:13 PM

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Being the kinda guy I am I don't often reply to forums but I feel the need to because I find this funny.

Not sure if any of this has been covered correctly as I stopped reading after page ten due to arguing.

First off, Take a few pictures of your girl friend, Create a fake profile and see what kind of crap these ladies go through of a daily. It ranges from the dumbest shit you will ever read to seeing a dick, Yes, You read that correctly. A floppy, flaccid knob as a greeting. I don't know about anyone else but I'd rather play it safe and delete all my mail too. That being said, these ladies put up with a ton of shit just for being open about what they like from men who "THINK" they are the "Dominant males" of the earth.

secondly, I'm not sure how a choice turned into being told to fuck off. Do men just have soft skin these days? It honestly feels like mean do more bitching then the ladies. More men then females = men doing most of the work. If they like you they like you. So, Yes. They can be as picky as they want.

Not to come off as an asshole but the morale of the story is be a man, If you fail get back up and do it again Hopefully not the same way.

Do take care, Ladies and gentlemen.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/12/2015 1:12:24 AM

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First off, Take a few pictures of your girl friend, Create a fake profile and see what kind of crap these ladies go through of a daily. It ranges from the dumbest shit you will ever read to seeing a dick, Yes, You read that correctly. A floppy, flaccid knob as a greeting. I don't know about anyone else but I'd rather play it safe and delete all my mail too. That being said, these ladies put up with a ton of shit just for being open about what they like from men who "THINK" they are the "Dominant males" of the earth.

secondly, I'm not sure how a choice turned into being told to fuck off. Do men just have soft skin these days? It honestly feels like mean do more bitching then the ladies. More men then females = men doing most of the work. If they like you they like you. So, Yes. They can be as picky as they want.

Not to come off as an asshole but the morale of the story is be a man, If you fail get back up and do it again Hopefully not the same way.

It's refreshing when a sensible man stands out from among the herd, one who has a better attitude and approach toward understanding women than men (almost) old enough to be your father.

It may be a while before OP can take you up on your suggestion. He doesn't have or can't get a girlfriend, and the ladies he knows have apparently all friend-zoned him.

Btw, it isn't just the Doms or switches who can be annoying, unsurly or just plain flaky. I can't tell you how many "obedient slaves" think their bare ass shot or puny pecker inside a cockcage somehow makes them appear the slightest bit attractive to a woman.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/12/2015 5:04:59 AM

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It's refreshing when a sensible man stands out from among the herd, one who has a better attitude and approach toward understanding women than men (almost) old enough to be your father.

It may be a while before OP can take you up on your suggestion. He doesn't have or can't get a girlfriend, and the ladies he knows have apparently all friend-zoned him.

(Many men don't care who they message either, of whatever orientations, age or location, or even whether a woman is available or off the market. . . they are so desperate for any kind of attention or acknowledgment of their existence, it would seem.)

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This is true, I should have included most men on that first off. Sadly my head thinks faster than my fingers are able to type at times.

Looking at the time stamps I can't help but think I necroed a dead topic. For that I am sorry.

On the off topic, I wasn't aware treating a human as a human was sensible. Isn't it common sense to earn trust and gather a rapport before making demands of someone? Respect isn't given freely, Trust isn't given freely. You earn it.

I've babbled on enough though.

Do take care.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/14/2015 10:47:44 PM

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What you have to understand is that if women could find one man on earth that was
"perfect" then they wouldn't mind in the slightest if EVERY single other man (we're talking billions) were wiped off the face of the planet.

It all comes down to finding "mr perfect" for a woman. Even if she is a huge tub of disgusting lard unfit to walk this earth. She still thinks she is Brook Shields.

It's just the way nature is set up. Women think they are necessary, quite simply because they are. That doesn't make them good people. In fact, it's quite likely to be just the opposite.

Anyhow. Why are you referring to Match.Com? This is Collarme, where 99.99% of chicks are FAT disgusting creatures who can't get laid anywhere else and who hate themselves so much that they come here to be whipped.

Do women have it good? Yes. But these women are such losers that they can't even get laid anywhere else but here. It's like being a poor homeless person in America. Dude, if you can't make it here, you haven't got a chance.

Anyhow, chin up, bro. You're a man. 100% times better than any woman, least of all some fat fugly flubber girl.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/14/2015 10:53:08 PM

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Oh you are lovely aintcha.....for a troll.
Not bright but i'll give you a point for effort.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/14/2015 10:55:21 PM

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You can call me a troll but you know I am right.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/14/2015 11:06:37 PM

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Such a convincing comeback.....

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/15/2015 12:22:45 AM

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You missed the new fat thread Loocy. It's been suuuuuch a long time since there's been one!

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/15/2015 12:29:10 AM

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oh ......im not feeding him anymore, but gave me a laugh for 15 seconds, im bored with him now

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 4/15/2015 12:41:44 AM

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Seeing as though some have used this thread from its first days, to play games, this thread has run its course. Please enjoy some of the other threads I am sure will offer continued entertainment.

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