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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Somehow you're striking me as the type that used to make me feel uncomfortable breastfeeding in public.
I'm Italian. Kids and moms are sacrosanct.
I happen to believe that a woman breastfeeding is about as sexual as your own mom or your own kids (or a nun).
That is. It's a totally non-sexual event.
The only time I've ever looked with any curiosity whatsoever at a woman breastfeeding is when they hide it so strangely that you think they're oddly hiding "something" (is it a bomb?) under a blanket - which (initially) looks so strange and out of place when you're just walking down the street that the unexpected event catches your eye that something is out of place. Then, after doing a doubletake, you figure out what she's doing. She's not fusing a bomb - she's just hiding under a blanket while feeding her baby.
Then you move on.
ANYTHING whatsoever having to do with moms and babies (or nuns) is decidedly not sexual in the least.
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
There I was, trying to feed my kids in peace, and there would always be some dude who felt the need to take that opportunity to stare at my tits in a sexualized manner.
See above.
There is absolutely nothing sexual whatsoever about breastfeeding.
Even the moms look bored, sitting there, doing nothing except having their reservoirs emptied.
It's like peeing. Or pooping.
It's merely a body event.
If I saw a woman peeing in the street, my biological instant would look, simply because we're programmed to look at the out-of-the-ordinary ... but hen, I'd be disgusted the moment I realized what was going on, and look away as quickly as I could.
Same thing with breastfeeding (sans the disgust).
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Women not bothering covering up with clothing when the climate and legalities allow is aren't the same as her sending you a sexual invitation to ogle like she's a life size sexdoll.
You miss what I am explaining.
I love women as naked as they want to get.
If a woman bends over in front of me on the liquor store, I'm gonna look, at least momentarily.
I can't help NOT look at least the biologically-programmed second.
[BTW, that's WHY women do what they do ... they're attention whores ... it's "fun" to them to get attention ... however that's not the point of this example; the point of this example is that we men are assaulted by women's underwear and private parts day in and day out by moments expertly scripted and directed by the women expressly so that we'd LOOK at them - yet - when we do - they decry that as "creepy"; it's the duplicity of those women who do that which I am trying to outline here.]
I just decry that women then complain when I look that biologically programmed second.
Women flash their underware and garter area constantly at us, when we're not even thinking about them.
And the biologically-programmed second always kicks in, because even the most "innocent" (and I must put that in quotes, because the women are NEVER innocent; only babies and kids do it innocently) moments, always garner at least the desired one-second biologically-programmed level of interest.
Women walk around giving flashes of their pussy area and ass and tits every day all day, in effect, assaulting us with their private parts.
[Women assault us constantly with their private parts on purpose, of course - they know exactly what they're wearing and why even though most "pretend" to be innocent - but their intent isn't the point of this explanation; the duplicity of their professed shock that "creepy" men are looking is the point here.]
I contrast that with men, who don't walk around with their balls hanging out of their shorts in public like women habitually do (with their breasts and ass) all day every day.
So, you need to get the point.
Women are openly flaunting their boobs and buns every single day all over the place from the day they reach high school until they decide that nobody wants to look anymore.
We men are assaulted by this, day in and day out.
We can't even go to a baseball game without women constantly showing us their panties.
I don't show THEM my panties. How come I can do that, and they can't?
I didn't ASK these women to show me their tits in the parking lot of the grocery store (I actually went there for groceries).
As I went up the steps outside the mall, I didn't request a potential commando peek of some random lady in front of me.
When I'm walking along the sidewalk, I didn't ask for a camel-toe visual from too-tight pants.
So, you must realize, we're absolutely ASSAULTED by tits and ass, every day.
Now, like a kitten following a laser light - we are biologically programmed to react.
We look.
We can't help the "initial" look that first catches our eye.
But after that biologically-programmed notice, we turn our brain on (within a second).
Culture teaches us not to stare, and to hide the look, and to look away, etc., but, just as you can't jump when someone suddenly smacks you on the shoulders from behind, you can't help your initial programmed biological reaction.
That you assume I stare again shows your immense fear of men.
You just assume I stare.
While I'd love for women to be naked all day, the fact is that women on the street only tease. They don't deliver. They never deliver.
We know this, so it's a waste of our valuable time to even look. Like the cat and the ball of string, we can't help but NOTICE (that's why they tease us day in and day out in the first place).
But, we all know that we're not gonna bed every girl on the street that shows us her tits and ass.
That means we're absolutely ASSAULTED BY TEASES every moment of the day while walking around in public.
And then, if we bother to react for more than the biologically-programmed moment - "we" (the innocent ones!) get called "creepy"!
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
There is a difference between seeing a woman and noticing that she happens to be naked in a setting where that is acceptable, and staring down at her tits while you're talking to her, as if she's nothing more than a sex toy there for your sexual gratification.
Duh.
We men don't assault you daily with our underwear, underthings, tits, and ass, so you have no idea what it's like.
Those women who assault us with their tits and ass in every waking moment they have in public by acting as "sluts on display", are merely saying that they are exactly what you decry.
We're the victims.
In summary:
Breastfeeding in public is not a sexual event (although the machinations women necessarily go through catch us momentarily as 'something's odd there')
Men somehow (against all odds?) manage to keep their underwear and private parts hidden from casual view, yet women seem absolutely incapable of keeping their private parts out of public view
Only babies and kids show their underwear in public innocently (nobody is that inept that they can't keep their underwear or cameltoes out of view)
Men are biologically programmed to notice women's private things, and, like a kitten seeing a laser, are not in control of that first biologically programmed second (only after that, does conscious culture & upbringing take hold)
Women (very well) know exactly what they're doing, and why they're doing it by assaulting us day in and day out with their private parts
Simply stated, they're attention whores; it's "fun" for them to be noticed (i.e., they make themselves more "interesting" by constantly flashing their private parts in public)
Yet, they don't even realize how duplicitous they are when they decry that "creepy" men take notice of their private parts day in and day out
< Message edited by crumpets -- 11/6/2015 7:06:27 AM >
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