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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 10:48:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crumpets

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Yeah, that zip code thing is usually what people have trouble with when they do move and want to change the location on the profile. It's funny the stuff you can learn from the boards sometimes.

I agree. The zip code thing is only mentioned explicitly when you first create a US profile.
Then you never see it again unless you click on the "My Account" button.
Actually, I once used this happenstance to my gain.

There was a woman I was interested in, whom I wanted to contact me, but I couldn't figure out, even after reading her profile, what to say (I'm amazingly too shy sometimes, surprisingly perhaps to some, when it comes to APPROACHING women).

Sure, I read the entire profile. Every last word (as I always do). I read the journal. I looked for forum posts. I reverse searched the picture to find the Google+ profile and did a Spokeo search on that to find other profiles. All the normal stuff I did. But, I still didn't have anything to say to her that didn't sound stupid. (Bear in mind, her profiles were often in a language which I google translated to be most likely of an Indonesian origin, so, I was a bit out of my league, having only been to Indonesia once before).

Knowing the first shot is often the only one, what I then did was change my zip code to be closer to her. It only took a few iterations before I was 1 mile away from her section of town, which is close enough for government work. So now I knew the specific subsection of the town, the eateries, and, most importantly, the upcoming events in that specific locale, which allowed me to make a move that (a) didn't sound stupid, and (b) that worked for me (rest of long story omitted).

Of course, that zip-code-location trick only works if she puts her real zip code in that profile field.

EDIT: BTW, to the guys out there reading this for hints, almost always the ladies you look up on Spokeo have Pandora profiles. Make sure you PUT ALL THEIR SONGS on your iPod (or whatever you play in your car when you pick them up!). It's hard to explain, but it works wonders if she believes whatever you have to tell her as to why you seem to know all her favorite songs before you've even met! :)


You sound like a psychotic fucking stalker. And so proud of yourself. God help any woman who interests you. Fortunately you can't delete posts like this.


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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 10:58:15 AM   
crumpets


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Don't you think there are questions that are worth asking and some are just not so worth asking?


I believe that a fish can't climb trees, but, a fish might ask what it's like to be able to climb a tree.
(Actually, experiments have never yet shown animals ASKING questions when they're taught to communicate - but - I suspect they do judging from the way a dog looks quizzically at me sometimes.)

But, assuming an animal did have the capacity to ask a question of a human, it would be so obvious to me what it's like to climb a tree but I could understand that a fish might not have the perspective.
Likewise, I, as a male, asking a question of you, as a female, might seem like the answer is obvious to you.

But, the fact that I am male precludes my brain from knowing, inherently anyway, what you experience simply being female.

It doesn't matter what "I" think; it matters what you think.
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
I also don't obsess why one of my dogs circles 3 times counter clockwise before having a poop, he just does.

I would ask questions about that.
In fact, I often wonder why animals don't get sick when they eat their own poop.

I'd certainly be sick in a second; but, some animals (rabbits, for example) relish the juicy portions of the stuff.
It turns out there is a very good reason for that behavior.
But, you'd have to ask the question first, before you'd look up why.

My point is that you can't understand ANYTHING if you don't ask obvious questions about it.
In fact, if/when we STOP asking questions, our brain is already dead (or we are too dumb for the answer to matter).

Sometimes you ask questions where you THINK you know the answer, but, it turns out, you don't (happens all the time with me, witness the femdomme deviant art thread, for example).
The answer from women is almost always different than the answer from men.
And, if this isn't already abundantly obvious to everyone already, I'm enamored by women; I'm fascintated by women. I think of women all the time (I think of "pleasing them" actually, but, let's not quibble here).

I constantly want to know HOW women think. WHAT women think. WHY women think that way.
I don't think "I" am normal. I'm sure I'm not unique. But, I don't think most men care enough or want to know enough about women.

While I do have other interests, on this forum, my ENTIRE FOCUS is on how women work inside.
Hence, the questions.

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:02:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ReMakeYou
Re: the ads:

Of course the images are of real people, instead of drawings or incredibly detailed computer renderings. Presumably they're images of popular members. Last I checked they directed you to alt.com, which would explain why you'd see some pictures of people you know to be real and active members of the community.

Well, I'm just turning out to be sixteen shades of idiot today. I should have thought it was Alt to begin with. I was on there years ago but I don't think I've logged in since 2008 at best. Where I was in AK, the community was kind of small but a decent enough sample size to be about right. (Rough percentage of folks who go to events and those who do all of their stuff privately.) Made perfect sense once you mentioned it.

However, after all of this time, I did click one, got taken to Alt, and found a surprise. The main page IS people in my location. Again, because I know some of them.


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Re: scammers:

Interestingly enough, one of the fastest growing target demographics (possibly already having passed twentysomething men) is older women. Which shouldn't be that surprising. Older people tend to have more money, less tech savvy, and older women in particular tend not to draw as much attention. Still, it shows that a simple gender narrative based only on young people fails to give the whole story.

Guilty and not surprised. I don't want to put women in my age category at my low level of computer skills but I am on the less tech savvy end of the scale. When it comes to attention, I'm on the different end. I have some things in my favor on that angle, so I know those things provide more opportunities.

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Re: the new user deluge:

I'm actually more curious what a twentysomething female inbox would look like when the user is not fresh meat. Obviously the first round of messages will be people looking to pounce. The second round will be a not unexpected surge in local activity; most people have already seen most of the locals and have either ruled them out or been rejected by them. Somebody new is a new chance. What I wonder is what happens to that same user after those two waves pass.

I can't speak for the age group. I can tell you how it works in mine. Forum participation actually makes it go up. Relocating makes it go up, even though I'm not new. Attendance at a club, it goes up. If I present? That's the biggest spike, especially if it's a public club or a con. Traveling out of my area to non local places comes in a close second.


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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:06:01 AM   
crumpets


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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
You sound like a psychotic fucking stalker.


Again, your contribution to the overall knowledge level of this thread is impressive.

What I love is that you probably are one who COMPLAINS that men just try to send you form letters, or don't read the profile, or don't listen to your requests in the profile.
Yet, when someone reads your profile, reads your journal, complies with the request of the profile, asks you out on a date where the venue is a local community event, and plays songs that you enjoy, you abhor him.

Do you realize that would make no sense?

EDIT: I made the response much nicer, and in keeping with the overall flow of the thread.

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:19:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crumpets

But, what on earth would possess a guy to want to coat your shoes with that when (a) it does nothing for you apparently, and (b) even worse, you don't want it, and, most importantly, (c), it's not something YOU directed him to do in the first place?

Makes no sense.


My guess would be it's their fetish, you know people do tend to have rather unusual preferences, and yes, people do all kinds of weird shit

http://firsttoknow.com/making-love-to-stuffed-horse/

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:23:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wine juice – could I have that in a bucket please – several, Drools? Ah, the infamous net experiment of women v men. I could have told you the results and I bet your fellow got not one mail and not one browse or offer of a plate of nice scones.
The same results would be achieved with the same meme, btw...but you should only use your own pictures tuts for any experiment.

Did they really delete both that somewhat surprises me. Profile b and c which were not you (ask a friend is acceptable) use the same meme or shoulder blade etc
Now, imagine other people’s profiles b and c or d (made up cheater lies) are wandering all sites and viewing and mailing – I call that a state of malarkey and I always as what is being done bout reality v malarkey, no matter the site. You will not rid the internet of it but it can be managed at reasonable levels – so I always say. And I always favour a verification system. (does not make everyone who cannot verify themselves as fake or up to no good)

The more sex based a site is, or fetish based then the greater the disparity...Ashley Madison’s figures are widely available and can be used as a benchmark.

If i had to search, right now, every wench from Scotland online in the last month 9with any olde rot as picture) I would turn up
40% pro domes (not all real)
40% hot Lesbo chicks looking for a feisty hot wench
20% is all that remains and of them hmm what’s not to say they are b,c,d.

Anyhoos, less women – a fact everywhere. Signed not a rocket scientist – but note the disparity statement – oh alright i will verify myself her now gallery give me 10 mins as i could have easily stolen the mad old loon with three cats, pictures- i know people do :( (bstards) and i need to try rememeber what user name I am currently using. :D

10 minutes :P

I feel sorry for the genuine men. before women pounce on me a genuine man life online is a lonely existance. A simple fact is women go where the get most mail and men follow - a simple forumla for any sites success..yes women i know you get some horrifc mails. But if all women here got the same number of mail as men do they would have long left pastures new.

Good profile in conjuction with a good picture (one need not be handsome a good picture is a good picture and it adds gravitas the two combined.


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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:27:48 AM   
crumpets


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I don't know if it's the most popular number that folks put in there but 99999 tends to be a go to for some folks. Yet, they won't look it up to know the proper abbreviation for the state.


As a quick experiment, I put my profile at zip code 99999 and then ran a variety of searches for people within 25 miles.
Surprisingly, not a single search found anything, so, while the CS profile allows a zip code of 99999, the CS search engine is disallowing 99999 as a searchable place.
I presume that I won't show up in someone else's location search now that I'm of zip code 99999, which can be a useful technique to take advantage of in the future.


BTW, as noted, ALL the banner ads go to alt.com. I can see this visually since I have alt.com in my hosts file when I use my normal browser.
However, when using Tor, it bypasses my machine altogether, so, it uses the hosts file of the exit node, which allows connections to alt.com to proceed, hence I can only see the banner ad when using Tor.

The photograph itself comes from "Pop6.com, e.g., http://graphics.pop6.com/ffadult/featured/external/photos/EU/(name of photo).jpg
Clicking on the actual faked photo, for the first time, I seem to go to a location-specific Adult Friend Finder site, which, first went to a page showing scores of ladies in Amsterdam, then ladies in Renne, then ladies in Zurich, etc.

Not one hit was of the profile depicted in the Alt.com banner ad.
The Javascript that seems to rotate these faked ads is, appropriately enough, called "photoChange", as in http://cdn.collarspace.com/js/photoChangeNS.js

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:29:29 AM   
crumpets


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Status: offline 		By the way, do you see that checkbox for "remember my user id and password for login"?

If we learned anything from the Ashley Madison hack, it's to NEVER CHECK THAT CHECKBOX!

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:36:45 AM   
crumpets


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
people do all kinds of weird shit

Can you imagine what they did to their slaves in the days of ancient civilizations.

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http://firsttoknow.com/making-love-to-stuffed-horse/

Yikes.
It's not even his own species of stuffed animal.

You know, I must ask.

Is it always males that get caught doing this weird stuff to inanimate (albeit plush) objects in a Walmart?
Do women, in general, do these kinds of things? (I think not.)

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:45:53 AM   
crumpets


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
The main page IS people in my location. Again, because I know some of them.


What happens if you click on that banner ad, and then click again and again (three or four times)?

Since I'm on a proxy, I guess, and from Europe at the moment, I guess, here's what I get a list of people from (none of which are the person depicted in the Pop6.com ad, where "pop6.com" is the same domain as "friendfinder.com".
1. First click = alt.com " Search Results – Women looking to get laid near Luxembourg "
2. Second click = adultfriendfinder.com "Search results in Sweden"
3. Third click = adultfriendfinder.com "Search results in Chapel Hill, North Carolina"
etc.

Note: Sometimes clicking on the fake ad sometimes takes us to alt.com and sometimes takes us to friendfinder.com and sometimes to http://adultfriendfinder.com, all of which are really the same thing.

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:47:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
The answer from women is almost always different than the answer from men.

That's because PEOPLE are different.
It's not always a gender thing.
In fact, very few things are actually gender specific.

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ORIGINAL: crumpets
I constantly want to know HOW women think. WHAT women think. WHY women think that way.

Why?
Women are an enigma to men for most people and vice-versa.

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ORIGINAL: crumpets
While I do have other interests, on this forum, my ENTIRE FOCUS is on how women work inside.
Hence, the questions.

And the fact that you ALWAYS want to put a gender spin on everything is also why you can't fathom it out.
Blue is blue is blue. What people think of it is not a gender thing, it's a PEOPLE thing; but you insist it's something you want to know what women think of it.
Shit is shit. It stinks. It doesn't matter if it came from a male or female - it's still shit and it still stinks.

This is why you are so full full of stupid questions.... you can't grasp that not everything has a gender base or bias.
80% of the world's conundrums are NOT gender related or gender specific.
To think along a gender divide for the world is an oxymoron.


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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 11:48:58 AM   
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https://muttonbone.com/specs/

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RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:01:23 PM   
crumpets


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That's because PEOPLE are different.

You and I have been there before.
All you ever say is that people are too different to understand anything about them.
That's simple. Sure. Too simple perhaps?

It's like saying that cars are all too different to understand anything about them.
I don't know what you know about cars, but mine have (almost) never been to a mechanic, which means I fix them (and they're not at all new); so in order to fix them, I need to know a LOT about cars (especially German cars, which break, a lot - in the strangest places that Japanese cars don't). Go figure.

Anyway, that's your opinion that all people are different and that's the answer to all the questions.
You are quite welcome to that opinion. I don't own (nor subscribe) to your opinion.
It's yours. Your entire life experience has taught you what it has taught you.
God can teach you no more than what you already know.

As for me, I think differently than you (and, yes, the "ly" on the adverb means something).

  • I think that if you think all trees are the same, then you know nothing whatsoever about trees
    (and I know a LOT about trees - and they're not all the same).

  • I think that if you think all bacteria are the same, then you know nothing whatsoever about bacteria
    (and, yes, I know a LOT about bacteria - and they're all different - although I don't know every single bacterium, so, when you boil it down to a single bacterium, I can't say either way if they're the same or not).

  • I think that if you think all cats or all dogs or all rocks or all planets or all solar systems, (or whatever) are the same, then all it says is that you know nothing about that which we are talking about.
    Worse, you have no idea that you know nothing.

    You think you actually know SOMETHING (which is the most dangerous knowledge of all - since you clearly don't know anything if you make a statement like that).
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    ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
    It's not always a gender thing.
    In fact, very few things are actually gender specific.

    OK. You just proved you know nothing.
    Why do you think they force you to declare your gender when you create a profile?
    Why do you think they don't force you to declare gender when you create a profile on a botany forum?

    On this forum, gender (and gender preferences) are everything!

    If I wanted to learn more about Mazdas, I'd log into a Mazda forum.
    If I wanted to learn more about the exfat file system, I'd log into an Android forum.
    If I wanted to learn more about blazars, I'd log into an astronomy forum.

    And none of those forums would force a gender or gender preference upon me.

    I log into this CS forum to learn more about women, and specifically, what makes female dominants tick.
    If I had wanted to know what makes males tick, I would ask those questions - but - that's not where most of my questions lie (although, that jizzing on the shoes thing does confuse me).

    This particular thread was intended to figure out what makes the pouncers tick - but it has morphed - which is natural - once the original confusion was sated.
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    ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
    And the fact that you ALWAYS want to put a gender spin on everything is also why you can't fathom it out.

    Is this a site related to sexual preferences, or not?
    I don't put a "gender spin" on my questions in the automotive forum.
    I don't put a gender spin on my questions to the physics forum.

    This is a gender-related forum.
    If you haven't noticed, I'm male and heterosexual.
    If I was bisexual, then a gender spin might be unneeded.
    But, this site is useless (to me) without the opportunity to better understand the OTHER gender.

    As I have often said, men are as simple as dogs (MOST of the time).

    Some of the time, men aren't simple at all.
    For example, why they would want to jizz on womens' heels is beyond my current comprehension (unless the woman WANTED jizz on her heels).
    Or why they'd try to procreate with an innocent stuffed horse at Walmart does confuse me such that I'd have to question why to understand them.

    Some men take the craziest risks for sex!
    And, the definition of "sex" takes the craziest turns, with some men.

    All of it though, I believe, is fueled by nuclear torrents of hot reactive testosterone.
    Only the men who hold the reins tightly, keeping things under control, don't fall prey to these urges, I guess (I'm not sure though - as - while "I" have plenty of unnatural urges - those two which were discussed in this thread - are not in my basic repertoire).

    However, if the actions are to be done, I can easily understand that it would be most likely MEN who do them, and not, in general, women.
    If you insist these aren't gender specific ...
    Do you really think women do those things anywhere nearly as often as men do?

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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:14:12 PM   
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    You mean you havent found out yet?

    I would think it uses a similar mind set to people who need to use god knows how many profiles to experiment with.
    Why not try "sending" to which profiles you deem ...juicy?


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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:18:00 PM   
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    Status: offline     		Within moments of my first post on this profile on the boards, a guy who was here whining abput someone scamming him for money, messaged me asking me a stupid question, and offering to give me all his money! I hadnt posted to his thread, and my profile says nothing about this being an interest. His profile was deleted by time I read his email, btw.

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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:19:23 PM   
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    ORIGINAL: ServeMistrix

    Within moments of my first post on this profile on the boards, a guy who was here whining abput someone scamming him for money, messaged me asking me a studlpid question, and offering to give me all his money! I hadnt posted to his thread, and my profile says nothing about this being an interest


    As him to buy you anything, even if it is just $1 on Amazon - and you will never ever hear from him again

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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:21:32 PM   
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    ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: ServeMistrix

    Within moments of my first post on this profile on the boards, a guy who was here whining abput someone scamming him for money, messaged me asking me a studlpid question, and offering to give me all his money! I hadnt posted to his thread, and my profile says nothing about this being an interest


    As him to buy you anything, even if it is just $1 on Amazon - and you will never ever hear from him again


    Oh, I know... I just find it amusing the idiotic things people have to spend their time doing, OP included.
    Sock much? Lol

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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:24:42 PM   
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    ORIGINAL: crumpets


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    ORIGINAL: sexyred1
    I might ask the same of you, but I already know the answer. More questions about gender differences where patient posters answer you and you fail to understand anything.

    When you stop asking questions, even of what seems obvious, then you are either dead or dumb.
    I don't equate myself with Newton, but, don't you think he looked at the apocryphal apple differently than most?
    Didn't' Mendel look at peas differently? Didn't Mendeleev look at atomic weights differently?
    Einstein certainly looked at cats differently.


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    ORIGINAL: sexyred1
    I assume you are getting paid for all this "research and data mining".

    I wish. I envy guys like Derek Muller who made this video, for example, whose brain works just the polar opposite of yours, apparently:
    https://www.youtube.com/user/1veritasium
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    ORIGINAL: sexyred1
    Otherwise you and your fake profiles might have become the most annoying posters here.

    Nobody forced you to log in, go to the message boards, see who authored the thread, and then respond to the thread.
    In fact, since you added absolutely zero value, you are actually wasting our time responding to you.
    quote:

    ORIGINAL: sexyred1
    And that's saying a lot.

    I guess, for you, that's a lot.



    Unlike you, I can say a lot, and more importantly, get my point across, in fewer words.

    I am a prolific writer, when warranted and inspired. I believe on message boards, being inordinately wordy and obtuse is a bore.

    I don't have to add anything to your topic since you blather on quite enough, with yourself as the target audience.

    I am astonished that so many people haven't lost patience with you and your inane queries.

    As far as asking questions and being curious about gaining knowledge, that is always a good thing, if clarity is achieved.

    However, when one asks questions to simply gain attention, to be provocative, or to ostensibly prove themselves, then there is zero value
    to the readers of said questions.

    My young nephew asked why the sky is blue and once we answered him, he had no further need to badger anyone. I imagine you would have told him that the blue sky he sees is much different than what his sisters see, because in your world, everything is seen through a veil of gender differences.


    < Message edited by sexyred1 -- 10/30/2015 12:26:06 PM >

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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:31:02 PM   
    freedomdwarf1


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: crumpets
    If you insist these aren't gender specific ...
    Do you really think women do those things anywhere nearly as often as men do?

    Some do, yes.

    And no, it's not a gender specific thing.
    It's a kink thing. It's a sexual orientation thing.
    Not necessarily a gender thing.
    Only you are making it soo gender specific in the type of questions you are asking.

    Classic case in point: the femdom art thread.
    What trips people's switches is whatever they happen to like or dislike.
    That's a personal thing, completely UNrelated to gender.
    Men will like what women like and vice-versa (like my OH and I for most art but not music).
    Some will disagree most vehemently at the opposite end of the spectrum for both genders.
    I hate my OH's Trance, yet my son loves it. Does that make it an age thing? No, it doesn't because my daughter hates it too.
    To pigeon-hole so many things into a gender box is ridiculous yet you are trying to make the association when there is none to make.


    And CS ask for your gender for those pursuing something gender specific.
    That statement has no bearing on your typical gender-based questions here.


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    RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE ... - 10/30/2015 12:35:29 PM   
    crumpets


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
    What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles?
    You mean you havent found out yet?

    I think we found out long ago.
    I was naive when I had been pounced upon as a female.
    Remember,a couple of things.

    One is that the female had a half page of mails before the profile was even finished while I have a male profile which hasn't received a single mail since something like 2008 (although, for some strange reason, both DS and that sheet-of-cookies-with-brown-nipples profile visited the page at one point or another).

    For that female, there was a mail roughly every other minute for an hour. Sometimes multiple mails from the same person. All this happened in just one hour, but the astounding part was that the mails flowed in literally from the very second that the profile was created.

    So, I assumed there were automated programs, bots if you will, who had javascript extensions or some other automatic email activity.
    For example, nobody has said that new users get announced to folks email (and since I almost always use a faked email, I wouldn't know if they were).

    But, the answer seemed more mundane than at first wondered.
    The pouncers just sit there. They lie in wait. They hit a dozen buttons at a time, and they (for the most part, must) paste a form letter response.
    Some, of course, photoshopped my picture within the hour, so, they didn't do the form response (although their text that came with the photo was probably formed prior).

    That they offered to "have sex" with me in submissive poses in those photoshopped pictures was revealing (if men will have sex with a Walmart pony and someone's high heels, it's not that much of a stretch to be added as a sexual partner to photos, I guess).

    What I learned was a lot, and not just about how the pouncers pounce.
    For example, I learned more about those faked banner ads than I had known.
    And, I learned about predilections of men, that never occurred to me (it took two or three tries until someone got the jizzing-of-the-shoes into my feeble brain, for example).
    I learned a new trick that makes use of the 99999 zip code.
    And, I learned there are two types of people:
    a) Those who ask questions, and,
    b) Those who think they know all the answers already.

    < Message edited by crumpets -- 10/30/2015 12:36:15 PM >

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