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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 7:44:04 AM   
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Maybe the reason why my generation isn't as "active" as you seem to believe, is because we're too busy stressing over university debt and trying to find a decent paying job to barely start a life, of which there are considerably less than in the past.

Can't find a decent paying job? Start a business and pay yourself what you consider "decent" for what you do. Businesses aren't started to "create jobs." No one owes anyone else a job.
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And let's not forget Occupy wall street, which while it was a completely failed effort, it was huge at the time. How was that not raising hell? It might have failed, but it showed a massive discontent among millennia's toward the corruption and continued fraud of the banks.

Don't forget all those clowns that joined OWS to protest because there wasn't a job waiting for them after graduation. They blamed Wall Street and the banks for there not being jobs for them. Unless Wall Street and/or a bank promised a job to a student, there is nothing requiring them to offer employment to anyone.
I maintain that OWS's target was the wrong target. You're not going to stop Wall Street from buying the government it wants by appealing to Wall Street, or protesting Wall Street. The only way you're going to end the Wall Street - Government link is to prevent Government from being buyable.
You want to make a"decent wage?" You have two real choices. You can start your own business and decide what the wages are. Or, you can go to work for someone else and provide enough productivity that your employer would consider worth your "decent" wage.
If someone offered you your dream job and offered to pay you double what you would happily work for, would you decline the extra money?

You do realize you need money to make money right? No one is going to give a fresh out of university kid with 30-100k in debt a loan to start a business. Plus post secondary these days more or less gives us the foundation we need to start off in the industry, which means that we gain a lot of our knowledge about the industry by working in it. While I have no problem starting a business further down the road, that's not in the cards for 99% of students, especially in my field. Get your head out of your ass, this isn't the 1950s, the same standards back then simply do not apply to today. Like I said to Fido, spend a day as a millennial and you'll be singing a different tune, because you have no idea what it is like for us trying to navigate a proverbial minefield the previous generations left behind for us.


Riiiight. I have no idea what a millennial is going through. I didn't go back to college at the tender age of 40 because I couldn't find a job after being laid off in 2010. I didn't go to school to better myself and make myself a more enticing candidate. I didn't find any issues in getting hired as a 40-something who has been unemployed for 3 years. And, to top it off, before my first year was over, I went through a divorce.

Yeah. No idea how tough it can be. Spare me. Get off your pedestal. There aren't "participation trophies" in the real world.

You make excuses for why you can't start your own business, and whine about not being able to find a job for a decent wage.

Thank God we have had people who have found a way to make things work without the good graces of wealth. You're in environmental studies, right? How much capital do you need to start doing research? Have you tried a GoFundMe, or other crowd-sourcing? Do you have an idea for a product that someone might be willing to pay money for?




Technically you don't know, because you at least had a background, some experience. And if you wanted to start a business, chances are you would have gotten a loan for it. A student with nearly 0 experience in the workforce wouldn't be given the benefit of the doubt. And it's not about finding a job with a decent wage, it's about finding a job period. Like I said before it's not just me, EVERY other major and program is facing the same kind of dificulty. There isn't the kind of abundance of employment there was decades ago.

As for your question about research, you need a lot more funding than you think in order to buy land, materials, etc. Not to mention a PhD or a Master's would be more suitable to conducting research than my current bachelors so I'm already being out competed by researchers from universities and larger private companies. Not to mention Resource management is pretty hard to do when you can't find new resources, my program focuses on balancing the need of human society with the needs of the natural environment, so it's a little dificult to make a company based around that. Personally I intend to complete a master's in business so that I can work in management within the environmental sector, which should open up numerous more doorways for me than is currently available, but to do so I need 2 years of work experience before hand, and therein lies the problem. Simply finding a job for the majority of my peers is dificult, and many of us likely have tried starting their own businesses, only to be outcompeted by larger companies that are generally more capable than a few green, fresh out of university kids. That or they were refused loans because they don't have a good enough credit rating yet and they're tens of thousands of dollars in debt.

Nothing and no one guarantees us a job, I get that, and I'm not saying that I'm entitled to a job. College and university open doors and possibilities, that all. But is it unfair to complain about not being able to find a job? Hell no, everyone has a right to complain about it, no matter how old you are. Is it fair for older folks like you to blame millennials for not trying hard enough? Hell no, we're doing the god damn best we can with what we have available. What you think are easy solutions like starting a company, aren't often that simple and straight forward. Like I said, this isn't the 60-70s anymore, kids don't have lots of opportunities once done university, especially if it's just a bachelors. Today a Master's is the new Bachelors, which is why I and several of the people I know are going that route. Is it right for millennials to dislike older generations for broad stroking their generation? Yes, it pisses us off that you place 1970-80 standards on us when those standards no longer apply. Is it right for millennials to blame previous generations for the lack of current employment? Well, yeah, since it was thanks to actions and policies introduced by previous generations that made things so easy for the baby boomers as they aged, but not so much for the younger generations entering the workforce.

I look forward to the day the baby boomers either all retire or die out, because I read an article a while back saying it will create massive vacancies in industries all over the spectrum. Wouldn't that be an interesting day if it came to pass.

It's funny, some of the things that experience can teach you. I can walk through a room of people working and just know who is producing and who isn't. I can also sit on a hiring panel for an entry level job and know which of the applicants will be producers and which wouldn't. Generally, when a kid graduates from college with a resume showing six or eight years of work experience at any place, even McDonalds, compared to a kid with no experience but who really wants to let me know how they're going to run things to their view of correctness the decision isn't hard. But, there are even more subtle things I'd have scoffed at in my youth. Those things I now understand just from having been around a while. Who know my parents knew anything?

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 8:06:28 AM   
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It's funny, some of the things that experience can teach you. I can walk through a room of people working and just know who is producing and who isn't. I can also sit on a hiring panel for an entry level job and know which of the applicants will be producers and which wouldn't. Generally, when a kid graduates from college with a resume showing six or eight years of work experience at any place, even McDonalds, compared to a kid with no experience but who really wants to let me know how they're going to run things to their view of correctness the decision isn't hard. But, there are even more subtle things I'd have scoffed at in my youth. Those things I now understand just from having been around a while. Who know my parents knew anything?


Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 8:44:05 AM   
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Maybe the reason why my generation isn't as "active" as you seem to believe, is because we're too busy stressing over university debt and trying to find a decent paying job to barely start a life, of which there are considerably less than in the past.

Can't find a decent paying job? Start a business and pay yourself what you consider "decent" for what you do. Businesses aren't started to "create jobs." No one owes anyone else a job.
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And let's not forget Occupy wall street, which while it was a completely failed effort, it was huge at the time. How was that not raising hell? It might have failed, but it showed a massive discontent among millennia's toward the corruption and continued fraud of the banks.

Don't forget all those clowns that joined OWS to protest because there wasn't a job waiting for them after graduation. They blamed Wall Street and the banks for there not being jobs for them. Unless Wall Street and/or a bank promised a job to a student, there is nothing requiring them to offer employment to anyone.
I maintain that OWS's target was the wrong target. You're not going to stop Wall Street from buying the government it wants by appealing to Wall Street, or protesting Wall Street. The only way you're going to end the Wall Street - Government link is to prevent Government from being buyable.
You want to make a"decent wage?" You have two real choices. You can start your own business and decide what the wages are. Or, you can go to work for someone else and provide enough productivity that your employer would consider worth your "decent" wage.
If someone offered you your dream job and offered to pay you double what you would happily work for, would you decline the extra money?

You do realize you need money to make money right? No one is going to give a fresh out of university kid with 30-100k in debt a loan to start a business. Plus post secondary these days more or less gives us the foundation we need to start off in the industry, which means that we gain a lot of our knowledge about the industry by working in it. While I have no problem starting a business further down the road, that's not in the cards for 99% of students, especially in my field. Get your head out of your ass, this isn't the 1950s, the same standards back then simply do not apply to today. Like I said to Fido, spend a day as a millennial and you'll be singing a different tune, because you have no idea what it is like for us trying to navigate a proverbial minefield the previous generations left behind for us.

Riiiight. I have no idea what a millennial is going through. I didn't go back to college at the tender age of 40 because I couldn't find a job after being laid off in 2010. I didn't go to school to better myself and make myself a more enticing candidate. I didn't find any issues in getting hired as a 40-something who has been unemployed for 3 years. And, to top it off, before my first year was over, I went through a divorce.
Yeah. No idea how tough it can be. Spare me. Get off your pedestal. There aren't "participation trophies" in the real world.
You make excuses for why you can't start your own business, and whine about not being able to find a job for a decent wage.
Thank God we have had people who have found a way to make things work without the good graces of wealth. You're in environmental studies, right? How much capital do you need to start doing research? Have you tried a GoFundMe, or other crowd-sourcing? Do you have an idea for a product that someone might be willing to pay money for?

Technically you don't know, because you at least had a background, some experience. And if you wanted to start a business, chances are you would have gotten a loan for it. A student with nearly 0 experience in the workforce wouldn't be given the benefit of the doubt. And it's not about finding a job with a decent wage, it's about finding a job period. Like I said before it's not just me, EVERY other major and program is facing the same kind of dificulty. There isn't the kind of abundance of employment there was decades ago.


Technically, you have no idea what I know and what I don't know. Yes, I have work experience. But, my latest degree was in an area unrelated to both my work experience and my graduate degree and post-grad studies.

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"And it's not about finding a job with a decent wage, it's about finding a job I'm willing to work period."


You left out a little part, but I fixed it for you.

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As for your question about research, you need a lot more funding than you think in order to buy land, materials, etc. Not to mention a PhD or a Master's would be more suitable to conducting research than my current bachelors so I'm already being out competed by researchers from universities and larger private companies. Not to mention Resource management is pretty hard to do when you can't find new resources, my program focuses on balancing the need of human society with the needs of the natural environment, so it's a little dificult to make a company based around that. Personally I intend to complete a master's in business so that I can work in management within the environmental sector, which should open up numerous more doorways for me than is currently available, but to do so I need 2 years of work experience before hand, and therein lies the problem. Simply finding a job for the majority of my peers is dificult, and many of us likely have tried starting their own businesses, only to be outcompeted by larger companies that are generally more capable than a few green, fresh out of university kids. That or they were refused loans because they don't have a good enough credit rating yet and they're tens of thousands of dollars in debt.


Don't you see what you're doing? You're already putting up roadblocks to your progress. Did Gates or Jobs give up on their dreams about computers because they couldn't get enough money to buy land, build a facility, etc.? Fuck no, they didn't. How much does a computer cost? Internet access? Office Suite (or comparable) and access to online information repositories (especially the ones with current, peer-reviewed research)? Write some articles. Find a way to get them published to get your name out. Just quite whining about it.

If you can't provide a service that is different enough from what's on the market now, at a price people are going to pay for the value, why shouldn't you be outcompeted?

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Nothing and no one guarantees us a job, I get that, and I'm not saying that I'm entitled to a job. College and university open doors and possibilities, that all. But is it unfair to complain about not being able to find a job? Hell no, everyone has a right to complain about it, no matter how old you are. Is it fair for older folks like you to blame millennials for not trying hard enough? Hell no, we're doing the god damn best we can with what we have available. What you think are easy solutions like starting a company, aren't often that simple and straight forward. Like I said, this isn't the 60-70s anymore, kids don't have lots of opportunities once done university, especially if it's just a bachelors. Today a Master's is the new Bachelors, which is why I and several of the people I know are going that route. Is it right for millennials to dislike older generations for broad stroking their generation? Yes, it pisses us off that you place 1970-80 standards on us when those standards no longer apply. Is it right for millennials to blame previous generations for the lack of current employment? Well, yeah, since it was thanks to actions and policies introduced by previous generations that made things so easy for the baby boomers as they aged, but not so much for the younger generations entering the workforce.


Bitch bitch bitch, whine whine whine. Shift all your problems onto others. Go ahead. Does complaining about the lack of jobs increase the rate of job creation? Does it make it more likely you'll get hired?

"It's the older generations' fault there aren't jobs to find. Even though I'm not entitled to a job simply because I am alive, of age, and have a degree, it's their fault I can't get hired!"

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I look forward to the day the baby boomers either all retire or die out, because I read an article a while back saying it will create massive vacancies in industries all over the spectrum. Wouldn't that be an interesting day if it came to pass.


LMAO!! You won't bet getting their jobs when they leave. You'll be getting the jobs of the people getting the retirees' jobs. I bet you'll be bitching about that, too. I don't know how it is in Canada, but it has to be at least similar; the more people retire, the more government will be spending on people no longer paying taxes like they were. A guy retiring with 30 years experience is probably paying more taxes than the guy with 20 years experience that is replacing him. And, so it goes, down the line.

If you're not willing to do the work it takes to create your own job and/or jobs for others, you will forever be at the mercy of others for jobs.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 8:56:27 AM   
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Ah the simple mindedness of being a conservative. Things are always so black and white for you morons. How I wish the world was truly so simple as you view it. I'm not wasting my time going through your bullshit response, but I will say this; my generation is and continues to work their assess off to get places in life, and simply pointing out that you old farts are applying ancient standards on a generation where they don't apply is in itself passing blame onto others. You don't want to take responsibility for the fact that your generation and earlier have had a negative affect on later generations. You think that if you can do it, so can anyone else at any other time period, not taking into consideration the fact that money isn't worth as much as it was in the past and prices have risen disproportionately for pretty much everything. Maybe back in the 60s or 70s when it was possible to do so, sure. But that's not the way things are anymore. That's the problem with the older generation, they're stuck in the past and they think if they shit out a turd it has to be golden and the younger generation should be content with it. I take responsibility for my own life, and I'm doing my absolute best to enter the industry that I've been working towards. But it's not bitching and whining to look at cause and effect relationships, and how past generations simply haven't made it easy for us millennials as a whole. I'm taking responsibility for my life and I'm ready to take responsibility for the effect my generation has on the next, are you lot ready to take responsibility for what you've done to inhibit my generation or is just gonna be more denial talking down to people who aren't doing the same things you people did in your youth?

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 9:06:48 AM   
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Like I said, this isn't the 60-70s anymore, kids don't have lots of opportunities once done university, especially if it's just a bachelors. Today a Master's is the new Bachelors, which is why I and several of the people I know are going that route. Is it right for millennials to dislike older generations for broad stroking their generation? Yes, it pisses us off that you place 1970-80 standards on us when those standards no longer apply. Is it right for millennials to blame previous generations for the lack of current employment? Well, yeah, since it was thanks to actions and policies introduced by previous generations that made things so easy for the baby boomers as they aged, but not so much for the younger generations entering the workforce.


I can understand what you're saying and I can sympathize. We all have had our own row to hoe. But I don't think it's correct to say that the older generations "don't know what it's like." Many of us do know what it's like, as we've been here all along, and we've seen all of what's going on with our own eyes.

My view of the Baby Boomers is somewhat different, since I was born at the tail end of the Baby Boom generation. I probably more identify with Generation X, the sort of "forgotten generation" that didn't get the same level of limelight cast upon the post-war Boomers, nor did they get the same level of attention as the Millennials are getting today. I graduated high school in 1982, when society had changed quite a bit from what it had been 10-20 years earlier. Back then, keep in mind that the Depression era and WW2 generation were still around, many of whom were still in the workforce or about to retire. So, we had to contend with them as well, which your generation really hasn't.


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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 9:10:11 AM   
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Zonie it seems to me that we, meaning the US, beat ourselves up over the condition of the world today. I believe this dead wrong. The direct result of the industrial and military might of the US is a massive increase in the well being of every human on this earth.


I agree, although that wasn't really what I was getting at. I was also thinking in terms of the condition of the US. In fact, this may even point up part of the problem. Ever since WW2, we've been so overly concerned about "the world" that we forgot to take care of ourselves. I think of people who pat themselves on the back for sending money to starving children in Africa, while shitting all over the poor in our own country. This is what we've become.



You're right. I have been something similar to this for years. 40's through the 60's and even the fist couple years of the 70's, we were a very prosperous country. We could afford to help other countries that were our allies. Manufacturing gone from the US. With that are the prosperous years. Those years and the moneys gone. The easiest way to describe what the American Government is doing today. Is to reference to the movie "The Cinderella Man". How when the boxers wife go's to the managers apartment. He is expected to have all the nice things because he has money. She enters the apartment, and it's empty of furniture. He says, "need to keep up appearances". That's what the US is doing today. The prosperity's and moneys gone. But they don't want the rest of the world to know.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 10:49:03 AM   
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Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.


You have certain advantages that I didnt have at your age.. you can live at home while you go to school and work, for I am assuming as long as you want... I didnt have that as i grew up on a farm so when i left home at 17 i had to support myself right from the start (while still finishing grade 12).. But the biggest advantage you have is that you have figured out what you want to do, the industry/job you want.. I didnt have a clue at your age and for some time after.. I think most young people know its gonna be hard for them so they look hard at the options and decide whats right for them & develop a plan, I dont think most of your generation do much "keeping up with the Joneses" and all that crap, your generation (on the whole) is more focused, aware and realistic than any other generation, imo..


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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 11:46:15 AM   
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Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.


You have certain advantages that I didnt have at your age.. you can live at home while you go to school and work, for I am assuming as long as you want... I didnt have that as i grew up on a farm so when i left home at 17 i had to support myself right from the start (while still finishing grade 12).. But the biggest advantage you have is that you have figured out what you want to do, the industry/job you want.. I didnt have a clue at your age and for some time after.. I think most young people know its gonna be hard for them so they look hard at the options and decide whats right for them & develop a plan, I dont think most of your generation do much "keeping up with the Joneses" and all that crap, your generation (on the whole) is more focused, aware and realistic than any other generation, imo..



While I have that option if I want it, I'm doing my best not to rely on it since it's not how I want to start my life. Not to mention I go to school quite a distance away from my folks do living at home is pretty out of the question. Although there are many people, such as my roommate, that are in the same boat you were in. He literally cant live at home, for reasons that are personal and I'm not fully aware of. But yeah, my dad was the same as you in the sense that he didn't know what he wanted to do, but the reason why I did is because there was such tremendous pressure from those older than us to figure out what we want to do with our lives. I'm lucky that I found what I want to do and I'm enjoying learning about it. My brother wasn't so lucky as he dropped out of university 3 times before he started doing what he really enjoyed, largely thanks to pressure from my parents and those older than us. But don't get me wrong, there are boat loads of idiots in my generation, morons who don't put in the effort or really care about succeeding, or setting the bar extremely low. But after conversing with some of the morons on here, I'm well aware that there are those kinds of people in every generation, ours being no more or less different.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 12:37:04 PM   
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I'm doing my absolute best to enter the industry that I've been working towards.


Your best isn't very good, is it.

You think the older generation owe you anything. Bullshit.
As for- "its now how things are now" - there is not a person in this world that will take the opinion of an unemployed college student about "how this world is now."

Stop thinking you're an interesting, precious snowflake.

Stop thinking your generation has challenges other generations didn't have.

And for crying out loud -stop whining about it. You're like the poster beta male that wants to sit down in bunny slippers, drink hot cocoa, and talk about obamacare. Only in your case - your whining about you can't find a job.

At my university, people would get flush letters when they got rejected for a position. The entire hall way would be lined in with flush letters - people got 70, 80 , 150 flush letters. But every single person had a job lined up before they graduated. How many places have you applied -5? 12? 20?

You keep whining - the older generation doesnt understand. We keep replying to you - no, you just have no concept of what a ridiculous sense of entitlement you have.

You whine that Canada isn't making green jobs fast enough for you to have a job.. whine
You won't look for jobs in areas that are actually hiring - like Koch Environmental. whine.
If you can't get a job in your chosen delusion - perhaps you should change your major and graduate with a degree you are likely to be gainfully employed.



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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 12:46:49 PM   
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Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.


You have certain advantages that I didnt have at your age.. you can live at home while you go to school and work, for I am assuming as long as you want... I didnt have that as i grew up on a farm so when i left home at 17 i had to support myself right from the start (while still finishing grade 12).. But the biggest advantage you have is that you have figured out what you want to do, the industry/job you want.. I didnt have a clue at your age and for some time after.. I think most young people know its gonna be hard for them so they look hard at the options and decide whats right for them & develop a plan, I dont think most of your generation do much "keeping up with the Joneses" and all that crap, your generation (on the whole) is more focused, aware and realistic than any other generation, imo..



Two weeks after I turned 18 I had to either start paying rent or move out of the parents home. I worked two jobs at a time to put myself through university and survive on my own. I just thought that's how it was done. Now you tell me I could have stayed at my parents until I was thirty, lived off them and whined? Hum? Who'd have thunk it?

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 12:47:27 PM   
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Did Gates or Jobs give up on their dreams about computers because they couldn't get enough money to buy land, build a facility, etc.? Fuck no, they didn't.


Perhaps you should find out about the economic background of gates and jobs before you spout such nonsense.
One would think that someone who pimps himself as a college grad with post gaduate work would think about researching that about which he claims to be knowledgible.






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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:06:32 PM   
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My mom and her 4 siblings were child labour at a farm since they were 5 yr old. Their parents had an arrangement with the owner of a farm that they will work in their farm for free, the whole family, in return for food and roof. My mom had to stay up all night to work in the farm, and tackle school at the same time, so she flunk school. But she has the gift of the gap and became a very good sales woman, set up her own business, and became very successful. As bad and abusive of a mom she was to me, but as just a capable person, she was amazing, because she brought in dough, significantly more dough than my dad who is a MBA. She has nothing. And she still served her husband hand and foot at home, she is solely responsible for household stuffs and kids. My dad still plays the role of just bringing in dough and coming home, and sit on couch to watch TV while his wife fetch him his water, his food. Despite her earning MORE than him and working as long and hard as him. His just an employee with a company. My mom runs a company. So that was my mom, she's horrible as a mom, since I was her punching bag, but as a capable woman, she's pretty incredible.

My dad had 10 siblings, and his dad died of cancer when he was 13. And his the 3rd eldest, so imagine how small the rest was. His mom was a completely uneducated housewife. She did laundry for the neighbours to raise her kids plus eventually every kid has to somewhat juggle school and jobs throughout to help their mom too. 9 out of 10 kids managed to get themselves to University. Some even overseas ones.

So I will never complain that the older generation made things more difficult for us or whatever. Infact, I don't know how the older generation do it during their time when things were so much harder. And salary was much lower.

My friend who is the same age as me. His dad got paralyzed from stroke and was completely invalid, unable to even eat by himself or use the toilet by himself when he was 10 years old. His mom was an uneducated housewife, who can't even speak English or Mandarin. Infact, my dad's mom is the same. They only speak dialect. No English or Mandarin. So she found herself now being 24/7 nurse maid to her paralyzed husband, and gotta raise 2 young kids.

I think his mom was super woman, what she has to go through and she managed to put her two kids into University.

I personally think any millennials faced with these same situations will literally just die. I will admit I will die too, if faced with the same circumstances.

That's why sometimes I find it hard to feel sympathy for the black community troubles in the US, because, I feel like my family, the older generation have survived tougher conditions and they still found a way to be financially stable despite all their limitations due to coming from poorer background.

We had a story about a 70 yr old lady who made only 600bux a mth. Worked her whole life as a cleaner, and back in the earlier days, her salary must have been worst. But she managed to put her kids through university, and still have 700k worth of cash in her bank of retirement savings. To me, that's the power of old generation. Spend NOTHING on themselves. Slog to death for their love ones to give them a better life. And save as much as possible to always have enough money for rainy days. They were so frugal, indulge in zero luxury. It's so self-less, the way they think and were raised.

I don't know how they do it.

I see millennials as the ME generation. Also, the biggest issue is wanting instant gratification all the time that is very hard to control the urge. I put myself in that category. In some other post, I spoke about the stupidity of me to spend money on a car, but I did, and so did many folks my age did. Money we could have saved for a rainier day. Something absolutely unnecessary. But we wanted the luxury of our own vehicle.

Something the older generation didn't have. I mean, older generation at least in my culture, never feels any need for instant gratification of anything. They just have their priorities right.

My perfect sex son is talking about graduating from culinary school and when his dad told him, that even if he finishes culinary school, he still gotta start from the bottom in the kitchen in real life right? And he says, "No dad, I am gonna borrow money from you to start my own restaurant and run my own restaurant." That's the Millennials.



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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:17:58 PM   
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Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.


You have certain advantages that I didnt have at your age.. you can live at home while you go to school and work, for I am assuming as long as you want... I didnt have that as i grew up on a farm so when i left home at 17 i had to support myself right from the start (while still finishing grade 12).. But the biggest advantage you have is that you have figured out what you want to do, the industry/job you want.. I didnt have a clue at your age and for some time after.. I think most young people know its gonna be hard for them so they look hard at the options and decide whats right for them & develop a plan, I dont think most of your generation do much "keeping up with the Joneses" and all that crap, your generation (on the whole) is more focused, aware and realistic than any other generation, imo..



Two weeks after I turned 18 I had to either start paying rent or move out of the parents home. I worked two jobs at a time to put myself through university and survive on my own. I just thought that's how it was done. Now you tell me I could have stayed at my parents until I was thirty, lived off them and whined? Hum? Who'd have thunk it?

At 21 I bought a house.. not a condo, not a townhouse, a real single family 3 bedroom house (with a basement which we never used) with my boyfriend (we were both only 21).. In most cities today a 21 year old couple simply cant do that, not even close!!!! yeah, they have reasons to bitch about things today for them.. the smart ones work their asses off but live at home and squirrel away every dollar they can so that some day they can have enough to buy a starter home or maybe only a tiny house... The way things were done in your day aint the way they can do it today (or they would be doing it that way too)... geeze..

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:29:57 PM   
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At 21 I bought a house.. not a condo, not a townhouse, a real single family 3 bedroom house (with a basement which we never used) with my boyfriend (we were both only 21).. In most cities today a 21 year old couple simply cant do that, not even close!!!! y

How much did both of you earn at 21, and how much did the house cost? How did you manage to get enough money by 21 for that house?

I mean, I got my home at 23 with my partner too, but I was working since 16 yr old and have accumulated for my place, and back then, it was only 173k. And we were able to practically just do 1% down payment and loan the rest. So it worked out.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:34:17 PM   
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Lol, I'm in the science field, and compared to many other majors there technically are plenty of jobs. But news flash, every millennial is running into this problem. My ex's brother was an engineer and it took him 2-3 years to find his first engineering gig, and those are jobs that are typically the most abundant. While I agree that some majors have more job opportunities than others, I went into my program expecting there to be more jobs at the end than others, and from what I've heard it's true, there are more jobs in environmental science than other majors. But at the same time, our country hasn't exactly been supporting much in the way of green progress, and as I stated earlier many companies prefer older and more experienced people for the positions. I'll say what I said to the others, spend a day a millennial and you'll be singing a different tune, because you know shit about what we have to go through.



According to your profile you are only 21 so I doubt you have burned years looking for a job at this point. But I suppose since it seems you have already decided you are going to fail, you might as well start looking for an excuse now. I guess I didn't realize how hard things were for young white men in Canada these days. And while it is true that many companies prefer experienced there are just as many that want young blood that they can train themselves and haven't learned any bad habits. They also cost less to start. But go ahead and whinge about how hard it is to be young in todays world. I've heard that really helpful

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:37:30 PM   
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Two weeks after I turned 18 I had to either start paying rent or move out of the parents home.

So your parents were self absorbed assholes like you. You obviously had good teachers.


I worked two jobs at a time to put myself through university and survive on my own.

Of course you did...all the while walking uphill both ways barefoot in the snow.


I just thought that's how it was done.

Assumes facts not in evidence.


Now you tell me I could have stayed at my parents until I was thirty, lived off them and whined?

Nope...remember they were self absorbed assholes like you.
Jesus you are phoquing stupid




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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:45:10 PM   
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While I have that option if I want it, I'm doing my best not to rely on it since it's not how I want to start my life. Not to mention I go to school quite a distance away from my folks do living at home is pretty out of the question. Although there are many people, such as my roommate, that are in the same boat you were in. He literally cant live at home, for reasons that are personal and I'm not fully aware of. But yeah, my dad was the same as you in the sense that he didn't know what he wanted to do, but the reason why I did is because there was such tremendous pressure from those older than us to figure out what we want to do with our lives. I'm lucky that I found what I want to do and I'm enjoying learning about it. My brother wasn't so lucky as he dropped out of university 3 times before he started doing what he really enjoyed, largely thanks to pressure from my parents and those older than us. But don't get me wrong, there are boat loads of idiots in my generation, morons who don't put in the effort or really care about succeeding, or setting the bar extremely low. But after conversing with some of the morons on here, I'm well aware that there are those kinds of people in every generation, ours being no more or less different.


sure, each generation has its bunch of morons but there are some young people today that are amazing and years ahead, that really have their shit together.. I cant think of anyone in my generation who at that young age I would have considered in the same league..


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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:49:44 PM   
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Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.


You have certain advantages that I didnt have at your age.. you can live at home while you go to school and work, for I am assuming as long as you want... I didnt have that as i grew up on a farm so when i left home at 17 i had to support myself right from the start (while still finishing grade 12).. But the biggest advantage you have is that you have figured out what you want to do, the industry/job you want.. I didnt have a clue at your age and for some time after.. I think most young people know its gonna be hard for them so they look hard at the options and decide whats right for them & develop a plan, I dont think most of your generation do much "keeping up with the Joneses" and all that crap, your generation (on the whole) is more focused, aware and realistic than any other generation, imo..



Two weeks after I turned 18 I had to either start paying rent or move out of the parents home. I worked two jobs at a time to put myself through university and survive on my own. I just thought that's how it was done. Now you tell me I could have stayed at my parents until I was thirty, lived off them and whined? Hum? Who'd have thunk it?

At 21 I bought a house.. not a condo, not a townhouse, a real single family 3 bedroom house (with a basement which we never used) with my boyfriend (we were both only 21).. In most cities today a 21 year old couple simply cant do that, not even close!!!! yeah, they have reasons to bitch about things today for them.. the smart ones work their asses off but live at home and squirrel away every dollar they can so that some day they can have enough to buy a starter home or maybe only a tiny house... The way things were done in your day aint the way they can do it today (or they would be doing it that way too)... geeze..


Geeze? I've seen more who wanted to stay at home because they wanted jobs that filfilled them, or wanted an employer who found them to be the perfect creatures their parents told the they were and gave them part of the company, or work than had nap rooms and flex time. I've also seen a small sample of them that were raised the way I was who are kicking ass against the compition. They all want to be little Bernie socialists. I say fine. I'm retiring and completely plan on being a burden on them. They can pay for me and I'll laugh. They can have what they want as long as mine comes off the top first.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:50:45 PM   
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Hey I can totally agree, which is why I started working in high school at McDonnell's, then as a lifeguard/life saving instructor for about 3 years. But moving onto higher level summer positions in my industry? Not so easy. You need experience to get experience, and with regards to the industry I wish to work in, it took a while to actually slip into the industry. Last year I was only able to work part time in the agroforestry department at my university while being able to do an independent research project with the prof I was working under. Thanks to that minimal work experience (plus the project experience) I was able to get a full time summer position as a research assistant this summer working on Integrated Pest Management (IPM). It was damn hard even getting that part time position because even profs at the university prefer 3rd-4th year students, so I had to go through 2 summers where half the time I wasn't even employed. Blew chunks, and any amount of experience simply working any job really didn't seem to do a whole lot in the eyes of those who are actually in the industry.


You have certain advantages that I didnt have at your age.. you can live at home while you go to school and work, for I am assuming as long as you want... I didnt have that as i grew up on a farm so when i left home at 17 i had to support myself right from the start (while still finishing grade 12).. But the biggest advantage you have is that you have figured out what you want to do, the industry/job you want.. I didnt have a clue at your age and for some time after.. I think most young people know its gonna be hard for them so they look hard at the options and decide whats right for them & develop a plan, I dont think most of your generation do much "keeping up with the Joneses" and all that crap, your generation (on the whole) is more focused, aware and realistic than any other generation, imo..




Don't forget the internet which has totally changed job hunting. When I was 21 we had the local papers and signs out in front of the companies. And we had to walk 2 miles uphill in the snow to get to the interviews.

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RE: Generation Gap - 4/18/2016 1:56:45 PM   
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At 21 I bought a house.. not a condo, not a townhouse, a real single family 3 bedroom house (with a basement which we never used) with my boyfriend (we were both only 21).. In most cities today a 21 year old couple simply cant do that, not even close!!!! y

How much did both of you earn at 21, and how much did the house cost? How did you manage to get enough money by 21 for that house?

I mean, I got my home at 23 with my partner too, but I was working since 16 yr old and have accumulated for my place, and back then, it was only 173k. And we were able to practically just do 1% down payment and loan the rest. So it worked out.

I cant remember how much i/we made but the wages were pretty good, taxes were lower then too.. i do know that it wasnt hard to do, it was pretty easy to get a mortgage (not like now).. at that time it wasnt hard to save money either, there was plenty left in the bank after rent, food, etc & we werent all that frugal... but it was like no one I knew that was my age to 10, 15, even 20 years older bothered to own a house.. i guess it just wasnt something they thought about doing..

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