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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/24/2016 9:41:07 AM   
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My thoughts entirely Dizzy................so why are there so many people on here using at some kind of insult at the drop of a hat.

Where have you seen that?




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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/24/2016 9:50:25 AM   
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Why would anyone take it as an insult?


Because when the men use the word "prosititute" on me, they meant for it to be insult, duh!


So you are talking about your real life? I thought you had your underware in a bunch because someone on here called you a prostitute.



Just like how so many Americans think calling a Mexican Judge a Mexican is an insult.

There are no amreikans who think calling a mexican judge a mexican is an insult. Why would you think there are?

When there is nothing wrong with being Mexican.

You say that as if you thought someone believed that.


Just like how some black people think being called black is an insult,


Which black people think being called black is an insult?


even though there is nothing wrong with being black.

How do you know that? Have you tried being black?

No you have told us repeatedly that you choose those men who prefer cum-dumpsters for sex partners.

I love how IF you had to even focus on a woman's pleasure rather than your own. She becomes a cum dumpster.

Actually we have already defined "cum dumpster" and that is not part of the definition no matter how much you wish it were so.


You're such an self absorbed lover yourself.

Unless you have become a mindreader you are posting from a position of ignorance.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/24/2016 10:13:43 AM   
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A) so you are saying women are airheads, cuz you say they are so easily influenced by popular culture.. not all women are, I couldnt give a shite about her or what she does.. and I care even less than that about him..
Women are influenced by fucking EVERYTHING. Popular culture, the people around them, the fucking weather, their hormones, the degree of difference between their dress and another woman's dress, the opinions of others, their need to project a self-image which is patently not true - ye gods the list goes on and on.

Oh, and this is the ironic part, each one of these women will insist she's an individual who is "not like other women".

So yes - women live in a perpetually shifting reality - which is why strong men are a beacon of stability.

In contrast men (not the pitiful excuses for manhood who describe themselves as 'male feminists' but actual men) tend to insist on reality being defined in their own terms - to an almost delusional extent. This has its obvious drawbacks - as denying the reality of gravity can easily get you killed - but since most social reality is perceptual, it's astonishingly effective at influencing less powerful minds.

Assholes arent "strong" men, they are just assholes.. and that is certainly what you prove yourself to be day after day..
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B) I never said he was a paedophile, and no, my opinion of him has nothing to do with his marriage to her.. it has to do with the fact that he was married when he met her and dumped his wife & kids to be with her.. dumping the wife for a younger model is the popular culture than old/older male farts have a sense of entitlement to do, yeah, its men that are saying its a contract job.. at least Amber heard isnt so stupid to spend years (& several kids) with that so called "heartthrob"..
Y'know, I'm so tired of bothering with fucking airheads. You are a fucking airhead.

A) Johnny Depp and Vanessa Paradis never married.
B) There's no credible source which indicates he cheated on Vanessa Paradis
C) When an older woman dumps a husband for a younger man, it's apparently because he deserved it and she has every right to dump him and find her own happiness. When an older man dumps a partner for a younger woman, it's because he's a scumbag who has a sense of entitlement. You airheads are astonishingly inconsistent.
D) Amber Heard's accusations have been attacked by Vanessa Paradis who wrote a letter labeling them outrageous and said that "this looks nothing like the man I lived with for 14 wonderful years". She clearly doesn't have a chip on her shoulder about the experience, so why the fuck should you?

Christ some women are so fucking stupid it's a wonder they can breathe and walk at the same time.

Married vs living together for over a decade & children together is the same thing.. he was in a fucking relationship with kids.. No sane intelligent woman wants any part of that, its a total lose/lose situation for her.. she is either the bit on the side or if he leaves his wife she is a homewrecker & gold digger..
I never said he cheated on her, by various previous accounts they had an open relationship.. whether he cheated or not isnt the point, the point is he dumped his wife/partner and kids for a younger model.. to me he is a scumbag and whether his ex has a chip on her shoulder or not doesnt matter one iota to me, she is french & they have a different culture/standard so I am not going to lower my standard just cuz she has, what she thinks is irrelevant to me (it is relevant to you cuz you want to justify his scumbag behavior).. An older woman that dumps her hubby/partner for a younger one will soon be alone, that "trading in for a younger model" doesnt work for women the way it works for men simply cuz younger men will eventually want younger women (as Demi found out)..

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/24/2016 10:57:04 AM   
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Assholes aren't "strong" men, they are just assholes.. and that is certainly what you prove yourself to be day after day.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/24/2016 4:30:28 PM   
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I mean, I *would* have been very appreciative, that one time, many years ago, when I visited a prostitute, in Amsterdam. She looked at me like I was a disturbed lunatic of some sort, when I asked, 'Could I ....?' But then I took one glance at her face and quickly said, 'No, it's OK, forget it'.

Between you and me, you dodged a bullet. Around base, stories circulate like wildfire when one of the soldiers is foolish enough to catch clap of the mouth from eating hooker pussy.

The husband of a relative was a Vietnam vet who told me about an Army buddy's buddy who had to get treated in the infirmary for that with a German hooker. Still a laughing stock more than 40 years later.

It is usually some green 18-year-old recruit who does not know any better, could be stateside, overseas, anywhere. There is protection nowadays for eating strange pussy, but I do not see the point of just smelling pussy and licking over a latex barrier, but not being able to taste the real thing, much less any bloke paying for the privilege.

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Oh god, clap of the mouth ... I know a man who had that. Genital herpes in the gob, to be precise. I heard that he was literally crying with the pain of it. *Shudder*.

At the time I saw this prostitute, I was a mere callow youth - I think just two years older than your greenhorn recruit. Every bloke who visited Amsterdam from England kind of *had* to visit a prostitute, just to say he'd done it.

But, gawd, was it a let-down. Actually, I don't think I was unusual in the way I felt afterwards: I saw lots of British-looking men coming out of the prostitute-booths (whatever the hell they call those weird shop windows that resemble bedrooms) looking baffled, disappointed and somewhat embarrassed ... as though they were all thinking, just like me, 'Eh? Was that all it was about?'

But as to health and hygiene, regarding my classically-beautiful professional lady: I had no doubt that she held to the highest standards. At the time, I was still smoking. I went in with a cig in my mouth. She said, in a crisp and business-like tone and with a *very* assertive Dutch accent, 'Please put out your cigarette. I do not smoke'. When I opted for the BJ rather than the bonk, I was dumbfounded to see her produce a condom and put it on me. A condom, for a BJ? I'd never had *that* before. But of course it made hygienic sense. AIDS was newly discovered; people were terrified. I couldn't argue with that. But, hell, it threw me.

I ramble. In short: visiting that prostitute actually felt quite like seeing a doctor. It was clinical - almost intimidatingly so.

Jesus on a giraffe ... I could *never* do that again. I thought, afterwards, for the price that I paid, I could have bought fifty porny mags. The ladies in said porny mags would never express any qualms about my smoking habits - or indeed any of my hygiene related habits. Most of all, they would never, ever, require me to put on a condom.

And I could always lick them out, for as long as I wanted, and they would always love it. And demand it ... with a shout, a quiet command, or just by opening their legs and taking it for granted. Or, with a smile, as though they were rewarding me. Yup, porno mags and my febrile imagination were my way forward thereafter.

Well, OK, occasionally, real-life women, and partnerships. Yes, there were those intervals, too. They were OK. Certainly worth a mention.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/26/2016 12:13:04 AM   
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How do you know that? Have you tried being black?

If I walked around in black paint trying to be black for a day, I would be accuse of black face racism as well. And be pissing off black people. Americans are crazy when it comes to these stuffs!

Just like when Katy Perry dressed up as a Japanese, she got so much outrage for racism against yellow people from her own people, in the US, while Asia loved it and thought she looks great and beautiful and it was a great set.

It's so crazy!


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/26/2016 5:36:55 AM   
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How do you know that? Have you tried being black?


If I walked around in black paint trying to be black for a day,


How is wearing black paint the same as trying to be black?



I would be accuse of black face racism as well.


Most probabley you would be thougt of as foolish but not racist. Why on earth would you think that?


And be pissing off black people.

Why would you think you acting foolish would piss off anyone except perhaps your mom?



Americans are crazy when it comes to these stuffs!


How would you be in a position to know?

Just like when Katy Perry dressed up as a Japanese, she got so much outrage for racism against yellow people from her own people,

Really???just who? What percetage of the 300+ million people who live in amerik did that?


in the US, while Asia loved it and thought she looks great and beautiful and it was a great set.


How is it that you are aware of the shenanigans of some 1billion+ people when you have no clue about the paltry 5 million who live in the third world shithole called singapore?

It's so crazy!

Mostly just your posts

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 7/11/2016 11:20:58 PM   
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I don't know the legality of this arrangement as you put it. It would of course be up to her. She's old enough to make her own decisions in life. If she feels like she needs the money more than she needs her pride - that is her decision and she is free to make it. It may work out well for both of you - in theory. She gets through a rough patch and so do you.

All because I don't like the idea of selling sex for money doesn't mean it is wrong for her, in her particular case. I cannot judge the situation until I know more - and even then, I am not in her shoes. Would I ever offer this arrangement to someone though?

Hell no. I would offer them to live with me as long as they could keep up after themselves and I could afford it (say I didn't need a roommate myself). So, basically: You are a jerk to have sex as a requirement, and she can choose what is best for her without our judgement.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 7/18/2016 2:50:58 AM   
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What two people consent and agree to is all good long as both parties get what they want or need out of it.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 7/18/2016 5:09:11 AM   
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Last night while surfing the internet I ran across an interesting ad. There is now a web site for those who wish to make an "arrangement" with another. The site didn't specifically say anything about any particular arrangement. It did say that any arrangement was between a man and a woman. The name of the site is arrangementfinders.net if anyone would like to check it out.

I haven't been adding anything to the discussion here. Although I wasn't comfortable with what OP was suggesting I figured he was an adult and didn't need permission to do what he suggested. Then saw this web site last night and was blown away that there were enough people wanting to make an arrangement that there was a web site dedicated to it. Just wow.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 8/28/2016 11:08:19 PM   
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This is so creepy on so many levels.

And I feel bad for her, because she can't slap you across the face if you ask her this, or say, "Do you realize I would rather eat my own vomit than sleep with you?" -- or else she will lose her job and she obviously needs her job.

So it's especially UNFAIR to her that you, a customer, put her in that position, and she will be FORCED to be diplomatic (and I am sure you will assume her soft no is a "maybe" and keep pestering, and soon she'll be agonizing over how to shut you down without angering her bosses for pissing off a customer. Plus what if you retaliate?)

Do not put her in this position by even at hinting at such a thing. If you want that kind of thing, do one of the ads the article talks about and find a lady LOOKING FOR IT.

Oh, and by the way, of those thousands of women signing up for these arrangements, any guesses on how many are FAKE anyway -- either guys looking to get their rocks off by pretending to be a sugar baby negotiating with a dude, etc?

Akasha


On what she sais above I would advise teh first poster to just go to any "sugar daddy" web site.
http://www.miamiherald.com/news/nation-world/national/article80680697.html
http://cbs4indy.com/2016/05/18/hoosier-college-students-turning-to-sugar-daddies-to-pay-for-tuition/
http://www.sugardaddysite.org/

Sugar daddy is what all women do.
Some do it on sugar daddy web site.
Others do it with marriage contract.

No differences.

The first poster is not going to get what he is looking for without the long term contract which has a steap penalty for braking the contract!


Yes, I agree with you. People can go to some age gap bars or sugar daddy bars or they may try some safe online sugar daddy sites:
http://www.freesugardaddysite.net
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/what-it-is-like-to-date-a-sugar-daddy-7404322.html


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 8/29/2016 5:38:05 AM   
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Oh For Fuck's Sake.
Somebody had to dredge this stinking dog-assed thread back up.

This co-ed was never on the market to become some decrepit old geezer's sugarbaby. (Face it, that is what most 20-somethings think of sexually desperate middle-aged/senior citizen aged creeps.)

Do any of you older men even have daughters? Or were some of you just deadbeat dads to them? You must not, or you would not be acting like pervy Peter Pans.

The last thing that any student working her way through college needs is to get hit on and sexually harassed while she's on the job eeking out a living. No, it does NOT go with the territory, to those of you who are morally bankrupt have responded. WTF.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/14/2016 6:25:05 PM   
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I got occasional proposals from clients who wanted to pay to eat me out (which I always turned down, because it's something that I don't enjoy and don't orgasm from, so wasn't the right girl for them).


Drat!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 6:10:08 AM   
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It seems that this thread is destined never to die :/

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 6:35:41 AM   
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It seems that this thread is destined never to die :/

I could make an arrangement to make that happen. I know a guy who knows a guy who might know a guy who knows a mod*

*services not guaranteed. Payments accepted through PayPal, Money gram, Western Union, first born child, plasma donation. No refunds.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 11:19:18 AM   
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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 11:49:15 AM   
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Assholes arent "strong" men, they are just assholes.. and that is certainly what you prove yourself to be day after day..
You say that like you think it's an insult. It's not. It's an implicit acknowledgement by a woman that a man is the conqueror, not the conquered.

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Married vs living together for over a decade & children together is the same thing..
No. Living together is not the same thing as being married. She was not his wife. Just admit that you fucked up.

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he was in a fucking relationship with kids.. No sane intelligent woman wants any part of that, its a total lose/lose situation for her.. she is either the bit on the side or if he leaves his wife she is a homewrecker & gold digger..
So, in your eyes, a relationship isn't worth it if you can't get some of the guy's cash. Glad we understand where you're coming from.


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I never said he cheated on her, by various previous accounts they had an open relationship.. whether he cheated or not isnt the point, the point is he dumped his wife/partner and kids for a younger model..
That is speculation on your part. You have no evidence to support it.

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to me he is a scumbag and whether his ex has a chip on her shoulder or not doesnt matter one iota to me, she is french & they have a different culture/standard so I am not going to lower my standard just cuz she has, what she thinks is irrelevant to me (it is relevant to you cuz you want to justify his scumbag behavior).. An older woman that dumps her hubby/partner for a younger one will soon be alone, that "trading in for a younger model" doesnt work for women the way it works for men simply cuz younger men will eventually want younger women (as Demi found out)..
To me, you're a woman with multiple issues, not least of which is a lack of self-esteem.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 6:03:25 PM   
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I'm in a college town. Not only do the male students protect their female friends from creepy old men by leading with their fists, I've recently learned that the local police approve of that. It saves them arresting drunks for sexual assault and prevents the old guys from being a problem in the future.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 7:06:36 PM   
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It seems that this thread is destined never to die :/

Thanks to Creeper Crumpets.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 11/15/2016 7:38:34 PM   
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