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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/14/2016 7:00:03 AM   
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Everything in life is transactional sweetie get over it.

In the end this is true.

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to paraphrase shakespear...a cumdumpster by any other name would smell....

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/14/2016 9:20:26 AM   
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If you have a price, then sex, to you, is transactional.

In terms of non $$ transactional, of course! I want to love and be loved equally in return! And I want sexual compatibility as a priority.

But the price isn't always money, that's my point.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/14/2016 1:18:07 PM   
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In terms of non $$ transactional, of course! I want to love and be loved equally in return! And I want sexual compatibility as a priority.

But the price isn't always money, that's my point.


Nobody suggested it was, I think.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/14/2016 1:22:07 PM   
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Everything in life is transactional sweetie get over it.

In the end this is true.


How sad for those for whom this is true... although there are more and less noble types of transactions, and the crassness associated with them with vary accordingly I suppose.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/14/2016 2:12:51 PM   
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How sad for those for whom this is true...

Not at all. What is sad is that there are those that will willfully deny this basic truth in order to tell themselves they are somehow superior or better than. We all want something in return, be it cash, position, or romance or companionship, we all trade what others want for what we want. that's just the way shit works.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/15/2016 7:45:10 AM   
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First you say most men now you say a lot of men...You can only speak for the ones you have been a cum dumpster for.


In the casual sex world, first of all, I have many men who says it's a deal breaker IF he had to use a condom. So yea, deal breaker for him and me, that's why I said most men HATES using rubber.

But you see that is not most men. That is just some of the men who did not choose to use you as a cumdumpster.




How many married men are willing to continue to use rubber with their wives?

The ones who do not wish to be fathers?




In your mind they are not real women???why is that???



Not real, because they are doing it as a job.


When you go to work do you become not a woman?

They are only fulfilling your desire and not their own.

Now you are saying that they have no desire to make money?

Are you sugesting that I pay them to do something I don't want????
That seems less than productive.


I am suggesting that sex with you for her might be less spectacular if there is no money involved.


If there were no money involved there would be no sex involved....please pay attention....she is a prostitute she does not work pro-bono.


Thinking of the money allows her to go along with whatever you want, which may not be what she wants, but she wants the money, so she will do it. They say the highest compliment a whore can pay you, is when she refuses to accept your money anymore and just want nothing but sex from you.


Then she changes job title from prostitute to girlfriend.



But since you keep going back to the ones that needs to get paid, I guess that hasn't happened for you yet.


Well lets see I am old and I like young women....renting seems to offer the least problems. Imagine having dinner with her parents where I am older than her dad's father.


Some men prefer a woman who fucks back...some men are into faux necrophilia with cum dumpsters...It is all good hon don't be a hater.


Yea, but I love how there is no derogatory word for men who does all the taking without the giving.

They are called "dip sticks"



You're a taker. I'm a taker.

Speak for yourself sweetie....I enjoy being an active participant in interactive sex

We will never get along in bed.


You are a little old for me and my jaw is only stress tested for 132# so that would leave you out also...then there is the fact that you are a cum-dumpster which makes it a trifecta deal breaker


We both need givers.

Not me...just women who like to fuck back....and of course no smokers, no spitters and no married women.



You pay for your givers.

Nope...I pay for young hawt talented women who like to phoque old geezers for money.



I find my givers for free.


Free is usually worth what you pay for it.




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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/15/2016 7:53:42 PM   
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But you see that is not most men. That is just some of the men who did not choose to use you as a cumdumpster.

I would say because they can't dump their actual cum inside me, but have to do it inside a rubber, thus they refuse.
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The ones who do not wish to be fathers?

Usually would choose withdrawal method, ask wife to go on pill, or go on a vasectomy. Most men do anything to avoid using condoms, especially with wives.
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Now you are saying that they have no desire to make money?

Desire to make money is not their sexual desire, that's my point. You did not fulfill their sexual desire.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/15/2016 8:54:50 PM   
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But you see that is not most men. That is just some of the men who did not choose to use you as a cumdumpster.
I would say because they can't dump their actual cum inside me, but have to do it inside a rubber, thus they refuse.


For someone who claims to have attended the best educational system in the world you sure seem to have trouble with english. Lets try it again. The men who refuse to use you as a cum-dumpster represent not all men but that sub set of all men who who wont have sex with a cum-dumpster...not your choice but theirs.

The ones who do not wish to be fathers?
Usually would choose withdrawal method,

What color is the sky in the world where this exist?


ask wife to go on pill,

If wife wants a baby she just forgets to take them.


or go on a vasectomy.

If we are talking surgery most men prefer it to be on their wife...most guys are uncomfortable when sharp objects are close to their plumbing.



Most men do anything to avoid using condoms, especially with wives.

Since you claim to be woman and not man you would necessarily be speaking from a position of ignorance. A man who does not want kids is proactive and will not rely on others to shoulder his responsibilities.



]Now you are saying that they have no desire to make money?
Desire to make money is not their sexual desire, that's my point.


That was not what you posted....It is not my job to read your mind.

You did not fulfill their sexual desire.

Plese try to pay a little closer attention. She is not my girlfriend she is my employee.
Her sexul fullfillment would be the job of her s/o not mine.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/15/2016 9:35:51 PM   
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Plese try to pay a little closer attention. She is not my girlfriend she is my employee.
Her sexul fullfillment would be the job of her s/o not mine.

Which is exactly why I say you are a taker like me. It's not easy to find women for free to do exactly what you want, so you prefer to pay them to do it as a job scope, because you woudn't be interested in their pleasure, their pleasure wouldn't satisfy you.
There are men who will pay for sex, but still care about her sexual pleasure because his a natural giver. And there are men who will even pay for sex, on top of only taking care of her sexual pleasure and not his own.

If I paid for sex, I would be just like you, I wouldn't care about his pleasure. Only mine. But in a world where I don't have to pay for sex, I simply look for men who are natural givers. Who gets pleasure from giving pleasure. That way, win-win for both of us.

Not all men needs to be fucked back at all to feel like he has a great time.





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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/15/2016 10:28:34 PM   
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Plese try to pay a little closer attention. She is not my girlfriend she is my employee.
Her sexul fullfillment would be the job of her s/o not mine.



Which is exactly why I say you are a taker like me.

You could say you are the queen of england and it would be equally untrue.





It's not easy to find women for free to do exactly what you want,

Yes it is



so you prefer to pay them to do it as a job scope,


Wrong again little girl. I am old and I prefer the company of younger women so renting is much simpler than having dinner with the girls family and being older than her dad's father.


because you woudn't be interested in their pleasure, their pleasure wouldn't satisfy you.

Have you ever thought of taking your mind reading act on the road?


There are men who will pay for sex, but still care about her sexual pleasure because his a natural giver.
And there are men who will even pay for sex, on top of only taking care of her sexual pleasure and not his own.

Are you trying to tell me you used to be a prostitute? How else would you know these things?


But in a world where I don't have to pay for sex,

Sweetie everyone pays for sex.
The only currency that has any value in this life is the amount of time one has between the moment you are issued your asshole and the moment it is recalled. You can get more money,marbles and chalk but you cannot get any more time. The time you spend with anyone is what it cost in absolute terms....Yes sweetie you most assuredly do pay for sex, just like everyone else.


I simply look for men who are natural givers. Who gets pleasure from giving pleasure. That way, win-win for both of us.

Actually you seek out those who want a cum-dumpster...it really is that simple.

Not all men needs to be fucked back at all to feel like he has a great time.

Those would then be the ones you should persue.






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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 8:50:21 AM   
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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 9:00:39 AM   
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Are you trying to tell me you used to be a prostitute? How else would you know these things?

Because I know alot of men who visit prostitutes or have paid for sex. Infact, over here, plenty of teenage boys pop their cherry with a prostitute first. Quite a popular birthday gift from fellow male buddies. Prostitution is obviously legal here. And many women free lance as well. Like prostitutes here offer this thingy called the Girlfriend Experience which are popular among local men. And seriously..., Girlfriend Experience is not a fucking a prostitute Experience.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 9:05:22 AM   
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Actually you seek out those who want a cum-dumpster...it really is that simple.

But men I am with do not care whether they cum at all or not.
They care more about my pleasure than their own. Cumming is like their last priority and not a necessity. As I said, majority of the guys I sleep with, penetrates me for my pleasure, but actually finish by wanking themselves off, and cumming on themselves.
So don't assume that all men needs to cum at all or cum inside a woman to feel content. Especially a pleasure taker like myself, I specifically find natural pleasure givers, they really don't care about their own finishings. My best sex tells me, cumming is just such a blah sensation for him. He infact enjoys the denial. Watching me in full pleasure and completely denying himself from cumming at all feels more erotic to him. It all works out. His happy, I'm happy.

Sometimes the craziest part is, you're in a kink site and you only think there is only one way of having sex, IF the man has to give pleasure.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 9:48:38 AM   
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There are men who will pay for sex, but still care about her sexual pleasure because his a natural giver.
And there are men who will even pay for sex, on top of only taking care of her sexual pleasure and not his own.

Are you trying to tell me you used to be a prostitute? How else would you know these things?

Some of us actually talk to hookers when they are not working, you know.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 7:32:01 PM   
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Have you thought about therapy to deal with your misogyny?

Perhaps you could explane what misogyny you are talking about.



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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 7:37:17 PM   
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Actually you seek out those who want a cum-dumpster...it really is that simple.

But men I am with do not care whether they cum at all or not.

What color is the sky where this happens?




Sometimes the craziest part is, you're in a kink site and you only think there is only one way of having sex, IF the man has to give pleasure.


That would seem to be your position . If that werx for you go for it, but please stop trying to convince me that being a cum-dumster is "the" way.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 7:39:23 PM   
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There are men who will pay for sex, but still care about her sexual pleasure because his a natural giver.
And there are men who will even pay for sex, on top of only taking care of her sexual pleasure and not his own.

Are you trying to tell me you used to be a prostitute? How else would you know these things?

Some of us actually talk to hookers when they are not working, you know.


I do not doubt that. The fact is that that conversation is hearsay and not first hand as gretta would like us to believe.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 7:42:13 PM   
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Are you trying to tell me you used to be a prostitute? How else would you know these things?


Because I know alot of men who visit prostitutes or have paid for sex.


Yeah yeah yeah ....answer the question.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 7:48:32 PM   
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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 6/16/2016 8:05:42 PM   
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Learn to quote propoerly


learn to spell propoerly

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