when she wakes up one day and reaiizes she lost her Dom, doesnt have a pot to piss in nor window to throw it out of, she will have an aha moment, so she can do it all over again! (and not listen to the next group of people trying to help her out) LOL
Maso is as maso does.
I dunno about all this hooplah. I think, like everything else in fucking life, this depends on the relationship.
If I told mouse I wanted POA, she would sign it over. Fuck, at some point here, she stated that if I wanted to cut off her arms, she would let me, because she knows me and knows I wouldn't do it w/o a terrific reason-that's why she submitted to me in the first place.
So for peeps in solid LTR, this may work out fine. I mean fuck, she fell for him for a variety of reasons, one would hope that among those would be such chracter traits as responsible and trust worthy.
Is it smart? Of course not.
But then, seeing the damage it can do to ones finances, neither is getting married.
When I did finance we used to tell clients the single worst financial decision they make in their lives is tying the knot. Number two is getting divorced.
So this is all relative.
Thank you, your message is valid. and I ofcourse did fall for a man I viewed as trustworthy, intelligent, good credit score, and no criminal convictions. All these questions were asked. However, here I am in a boat that feels...unsafe.