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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/17/2017 7:49:51 AM   
Matt1104


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Status: offline 		Agree 100% pantyhosedomina. I think part of the problem is that it's easier for the idiots to act like that online. There seems to be a flood of idiots. But we are not all like that. It's easy to say but blocking is effective. Good luck

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/17/2017 4:40:02 PM   
Forurpleasureonl


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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/17/2017 8:11:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

I'm quitting Collarspace because you all are just a bunch of horny guys jerking your dicks off at me, calling me "Mistress" when you don't even know me, and expecting me to be some kind of fetish delivery system. You claim to be submissive to dominant women but yet you have no respect for us and show no interest in us as human beings. You sit there and send copy pasta, or approach us as though we are free hookers or free pro dommes. We are people and we are women. We have personalities and interests outside of kink. We like to have normal conversations and go out on dates and all those things you do when you're getting to know someone. You men who claim to be "submissive" don't even have the slightest bit of respect for women, much less would you know how to be the submissive in a female led relationship. I even have my NAME in my username, but nobody uses it. You guys have no personalities, you're boring, and you're all the same.



Haven't You figutrd it out yet. Almost everyone on here is a fake. Most people on here (not pointing fingers stef and Lady Pact)'wouldn't know a real submissive if one bit them in the ass.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/18/2017 6:03:24 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

I'm quitting Collarspace because you all are just a bunch of horny guys jerking your dicks off at me, calling me "Mistress" when you don't even know me, and expecting me to be some kind of fetish delivery system. You claim to be submissive to dominant women but yet you have no respect for us and show no interest in us as human beings. You sit there and send copy pasta, or approach us as though we are free hookers or free pro dommes. We are people and we are women. We have personalities and interests outside of kink. We like to have normal conversations and go out on dates and all those things you do when you're getting to know someone. You men who claim to be "submissive" don't even have the slightest bit of respect for women, much less would you know how to be the submissive in a female led relationship. I even have my NAME in my username, but nobody uses it. You guys have no personalities, you're boring, and you're all the same.


(She had me until she said "We have personalities and interests outside of kink").

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/18/2017 6:06:19 PM   
longwayhome


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Status: offline 		I can't agree with you about all the men here being the same.

There are people worth talking to, it's just pretty unreliable and there are loads of knobs.

Looking past the "interference" both women and men, D and s, get in entirely different ways isn't easy so I get how you feel. Most of the unsolicited responses I get are looking for money (as in over 90%) but I do my best to look past that.

Not sure you can avoid self-entitled men who don't see you as a human being anywhere you go, but I wish you the best of luck in finding something better.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/18/2017 6:44:56 PM   
MsLadySue


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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/18/2017 6:46:09 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Trust me sweet cheeks, we know a twue submissive or slave when we find one. They are just few and far between.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/19/2017 3:56:04 AM   
server88


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Status: offline 		I am happy to have a good dominant to serve as needed . As a slave I provide great service .

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/19/2017 1:39:47 PM   
LTE


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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

Well, that sucks if this is nothing but chicks trolling for money and dudes trolling for pootang. Really. I thought this was going to be all romantic, like meeting Wesley from The Princess Bride. Except more casual at first. Instead my inbox is blown up by horny dudes from all over the world, and my local area, who seem to think that I'm some kind of interactive porn. If this is femdom then this is crap.


Actually. Some of us are trolling for chicks to bind and beat. We also like to take them to dinner and the theater if we click. We can't help it they show up in their favorite "fuck me" slut uniform and don't deserve to be told no, and I can't help it if they do it every time. Bad girls are good.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/19/2017 1:42:05 PM   
LTE


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Status: offline 		...all you bad girl submissives cruising this thread can raise your hands and cmail me.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/19/2017 3:57:41 PM   
AtUrCervix


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Status: offline 		FR...

Here we motherfucking....go..

It is what it is...is there more?

YEAAAHH!!

(Fuck yeah).

Yeah.

Yeah.

DOHHH!!!

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/19/2017 9:13:32 PM   
AtUrCervix


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Status: offline 		Twue...da fuck is Twue?

All this booooooshit...."we'll just talk about my latest acronym...that I know and...you'll just have to come up to......"

(Stooooopit shit..."important...you know stuff"....shit

You're cool.

I know that...because you know the latest acronyms...

Stooooooopit fucking shit.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/20/2017 1:13:29 PM   
longwayhome


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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Twue...da fuck is Twue?

All this booooooshit...."we'll just talk about my latest acronym...that I know and...you'll just have to come up to......"

(Stooooopit shit..."important...you know stuff"....shit

You're cool.

I know that...because you know the latest acronyms...

Stooooooopit fucking shit.


I hate to say this but the word "twue" has been used for years to describe people who claim that there is "one true way" to be dominant or submissive.

It is usually used to criticise or make fun of people who are very stuffy or up-tight about playing by the rules - rules that they are the only people who truely understand.

There is nothing new about "twue", if anything it is quite an old-fashioned term. Not sure if it has been used more in the UK and Canada than the States, but it has been a standard term on BDSM sites for at least ten years. I'm sure that those with longer memories might confirm that the term is much older than that.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/22/2017 10:27:36 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LTE
Actually. Some of us are trolling for chicks to bind and beat.


You need a website to accomplish this?



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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/23/2017 1:27:30 PM   
LTE


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTE
Actually. Some of us are trolling for chicks to bind and beat.


You need a website to accomplish this?




Oh, trying to make this about me again. But back to your question. Of course I need this website. I need it because some of the best submissive women are here and this has been one of the best venues for reaching out to them and they to me. It would be foolish to avoid them. You can find more here of high quality than in munches and the club.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/28/2017 11:27:27 PM   
FriendlyMuppet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

I'm quitting Collarspace because you all are just a bunch of horny guys jerking your dicks off at me, calling me "Mistress" when you don't even know me, and expecting me to be some kind of fetish delivery system. You claim to be submissive to dominant women but yet you have no respect for us and show no interest in us as human beings. You sit there and send copy pasta, or approach us as though we are free hookers or free pro dommes. We are people and we are women. We have personalities and interests outside of kink. We like to have normal conversations and go out on dates and all those things you do when you're getting to know someone. You men who claim to be "submissive" don't even have the slightest bit of respect for women, much less would you know how to be the submissive in a female led relationship. I even have my NAME in my username, but nobody uses it. You guys have no personalities, you're boring, and you're all the same.


One thing I learned a long time ago (on this site specifically) is that a lot of women here are more successful if they pursue a submissive they have interacted with rather than put out the shingle and see what shows up at their door. There are way too many guys on these sorts of sites who are basically trying to shortcut their way to a cheap orgasm and really have zero desire to actually involve themselves in a sincere relationship. Therefore, you have to go through a lot of work and weeds getting through that demographic. That's the problem sincere women have here; that problem is quite present pretty much anywhere there's a "dating" element involved and the process allows any amount of anonymity. Sincere men have a similar problem as well, in that we not only have to traverse beyond the fake dominants and financial dominants (who may actually be other guys trying to make a quick buck, or actual women trying to make a quick buck without any actual relationship involvement), but we also have to convince any sincere woman on the site that we're actually sincere, a worthy supplicant and worth her time and energy before being cast aside as the multitude of noise that buzzes around any woman who appears on the site. I'm shocked and amazed that ANY two people on this site ever connect. But I have in the past, so it can happen.

I'm one of those who used to actively search for a woman who might intrigue me rather than just an android woman with a whip attachment (which seems to be the approach way too many submissive types take), but due to where I live (Southern Texas), I've joined the ranks of sincere submissives who don't really look for anyone any more because real life, odds of finding the right person and just the way the world works has made it easier to just stop looking and fondly remember a time when things were a lot more transparent for those searching for each other.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/29/2017 6:33:11 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LTE
Oh, trying to make this about me again. But back to your question. Of course I need this website. I need it because some of the best submissive women are here and this has been one of the best venues for reaching out to them and they to me. It would be foolish to avoid them. You can find more here of high quality than in munches and the club.

Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't hear your post when it was originally done because I was busy engaging in kink.

I couldn't imagine *needing* CM to find people when there's a club in my own backyard.


ETA - When I'm 70, I might understand your position better.



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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/29/2017 11:05:15 AM   
peppermint


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ORIGINAL: LTE

You can find more here of high quality than in munches and the club.


The problem with your statement is that the high quality submissives around here are the very same high quality submissives going to munches and clubs. It's not that if these submissives go to munches and clubs they don't join sites like Collarspace. It's not like submissives who join online web sites don't go to munches and clubs. They can do both.

Tell you something. Gary and I had profiles here but we never met here. He lived too far away and was way too old. However, we met at a lovely event. We became friends. We kept in touch. Six months later I quit my job and moved where he lived. If we had relied on this web site we would never have met. Also, if he had written to me on here I would have said "Thanks, but no thanks" as I would have considered him too old. Meeting face to face in person can be much better than meeting online.

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Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/29/2017 11:10:32 AM   
peppermint


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact



ETA - When I'm 70, I might understand your position better.



Can you raise that up a few years, please? I'm getting awfully darn close to that number.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Dear Male "Subs" - 4/29/2017 5:42:15 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: peppermint
Tell you something. Gary and I had profiles here but we never met here. He lived too far away and was way too old. However, we met at a lovely event. We became friends. We kept in touch. Six months later I quit my job and moved where he lived. If we had relied on this web site we would never have met. Also, if he had written to me on here I would have said "Thanks, but no thanks" as I would have considered him too old. Meeting face to face in person can be much better than meeting online.

This part is off topic but I'm wondering if you (or anyone) could remind me of the name of the phenomenon related to this regarding dating and/or kink sites. It's something about being bombarded by data that people are more likely to discount people based on stats like age, etc, because the numbers work against them.

(Personally, I've always thought the 'how you met' story for G and yourself was very cute.)
quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint
Can you raise that up a few years, please? I'm getting awfully darn close to that number.

Shoot! I might have to lower it. I really don't foresee me keeping up the pace that I do a decade or two from now. Even in my late forties, that burn the candle at both ends thing gets tiring.



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