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One of my process improvements I've taken away from this experience is to make an actual checklist for evaluating the condition of my captive. When I went in to check on Ishtar, I usually checked her hands and feet for circulation, manhandled the parts of her that were causing pain (shoulders mostly) to see if her reactions to it were getting worse, etc... But I didn't check everything every time. It's not a great strategy, relying on memory to check on her, and which things to check, especially when I'm sometimes very tired but going in to pay her a 'visit' at 4am to keep her time sense confused.
For my next captive I'll have a checklist, and I'll work my way down the list when I check on her. One of the items I've already decided on is a pupil dilation test (when the doctor shines a bright light in your eye), which will detect most kinds of strokes. I wasn't worried about stroke, I was doing this in response to Ishtar's vision issue, it's just a coincidence that I already planned this and you asked about a stroke.
Personally, I think a checklist is an excellent idea. It wouldn't have to be terribly extensive but it would be a reminder of basics.
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This checklist, and this test on the checklist, will address some issues. But it doesn't (I think) address the real meat of your question, which I'll rephrase as, "what if she suffers some catastrophic but hard-to-detect injury?"
If I am certain she is injured, then I will call an ambulance. If I'm not certain she's injured, but she is acting strangely enough that I'm worried, then I will call her husband, discuss with him, and then probably call an ambulance. One of the things that makes Ishtar a great captive is the fact that her husband is available. If I had another captive without a safety contact like this, then it would come down to purely my judgement as to whether/when I would call the ambulance, whether I would give her a day to see if she recovers on her own, etc.
In my limited experience in this matter, the above is my preference. When a person has a significant other, they are an excellent resource for planning, negotiation, and feedback. Much better than if you are trying to interact only with the subject, themselves.
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I *really* don't want to injure my captives. I want them to return for future sentences (I'm hoping there's an absolutely terrible recidivism rate for inmates in my prison). I want to use them as references for other candidates.
I do have some curiosity questions for you at the end of this *if* you feel it wouldn't impact a future encounter with Ishtar of the same sort. As I've told Ishtar prior, I don't want to be responsible for anything on the thread that would give anything away. (With Ishtar especially, you really don't want her having too much information that she could use to her advantage.)
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But, I'm not running a health spa. I'm running a kinky torture prison. There is a risk of injury, including death. To pretend otherwise is foolish.
This sentence was why I wanted to bounce off of your comments. I'm not going to say anything derogatory. Just going to make a point.
The term is Risk AWARE Consensual Kink. Not Risk ABSENT Consensual Kink.
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Ishtar knew this coming in, she explicitly stated it in her consent video. She entered my prison cell knowing that she was risking her life. I put her in a discipline hood with a pencil-sized hole to breathe through, and left her bound that way for the night, knowing that I was risking a manslaughter charge or worse. You'll have to take me at my word that the thought of long-term imprisonment invokes dread and horror that is much stronger than it is for most people. It's a core part of what makes me me.
LOL.
I keep telling people that orange really isn't the new black.
Bondage, electricity, fire, sensory dep, mummification, fear play, face slapping, wax, sharps, whips, chocking, sounds, fear, etc, etc, etc...
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She has no wish to die, and I have no wish to go to prison. Yet, we still did this. Why? Because we wanted to, despite the risks. It's as simple as that.
To me, this is about assessing and mitigating risks.
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She risked her health and her life, entering my prison. I risked her health, her life, and my freedom... And we're both looking forward to doing it again.
First, I want to say thank you for participating on this thread.
Since the thread's inception, I've been looking at this from the captor's point of view. Especially about the layout of the house, the risks involved, etc. With this in mind, I looked at it from my perspective.
After this experience, have you considered *not* being the only captor? Since the discussion has been about the influence of time distortion, in the future, would you consider additional people in the scenario? I've been the 'fill in' before while the main captor slept. Have you evaluated the possibility?
Travel. I've only done this (as a minor participant) where the logistics were easier. No airports, etc. How did this impact your plans?
Set up. What did it take you to prepare your house to be ready? In this, I'm asking about costs.
The cold. Was the cold intentional or just something you lucked into by circumstance?
Journal. This, I thought, was excellent! Who's idea was this? Did you keep a log of time intervals or specific notations about entries she wrote post activity?
Your own struggle. How would you define your side of Ish wanting release?
After this experience, how do you feel about the circumstances of Ishtar leaving, getting on the plane, no escort, etc? Will this be something you do differently in the future?
With Ishtar's mention of the experience that she had, what will be your criteria for other captives? Do you have certain hard limits that would exclude potential participants? Are there certain people you would blackball immediately due to age, health status, gender, etc?
Thank you for your time and efforts.
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