UllrsIshtar
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ORIGINAL: tamaka I guess the only way a Master could enforce something along those lines is to say... If you disobey me and I find out, then you will be released. Then it is up to the slave whether doing such a thing is worth the gamble. Wow, you lack imagination. Lol. Yes... i have like no domme in me at all...lol I kind of meant like, if he's working and she's at home on the computer. My ex Master would have punished me by beating the shit out of me or some other terrible punishment, but i am not into the punishment dynamic anymore so i don't think like that much anymore Kaliko gave some good example on how to enforce it without punishment. You can also set childlocks, etc, on most electronics that will disallow use at certain times when he's not home. There's punishment for disobedience, with various methods of checking up, etc, etc. There's also talking to her and reinforcing the expectation by explaining he's displeased with her, and reexplaining what he wants. Maybe she misunderstood, didn't realize it was important, etc, etc. Saying that the only method he's got of enforcement is to kick her out if she goes online, is like saying that the only method a plantation owner had to enforce obedience was to kill slaves who disobeyed... on their first time. While of course it was true that that was the ultimate power they had, it was hardly the first method they turned to to extract obedience. Likewise, with a disobedient slave, the ultimate trump card is "no in a relationship with her anymore", because that's the ultimate consequence in any relationship, it's the same trump card she's got on him; if you're not happy with your partner's behavior, eventually you'll leave them. However, there's a lot of territory between "not meeting your partner's expectation" (which is what a slave disobeying an order is) and "breaking up with your partner". In my experience relationships where "breaking up" is constantly held over each other's, or one partner's head, the relationship doesn't tend to last long. Usually it makes a lot more sense to try to work on the issue first. Especially seeing that it might be as simple as her wanting more overt displays of his authority.
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