"Hello (name/title), how are you doing? What are your limits? Preferred kinks? How is your gag reflex? Do you have any objections to Relyfe Programming? Do not consent unless you know what it is."
This is a horrible introduction and nobody will reply you.
You should start with reading her profile, and think of a compliment. Like if you think she looks nice in the picture, whether nice hair, like her hair style, she got beautiful eyes, or you love the outfit she is wearing. Or even say that you like her writings and the way she articulates herself. Say something nice and genuine that is HER specific.
And then, a short introduction about yourself, like, what kind of person you are. "Hi, I'm basically a gentle and easy going guy, who is on here looking for a long term relationship with someone who shares my interests. I was looking at your profile, and I notice that we might enjoy some things in common, and I would like to get to know you better to see if we fit. By the way, you have beautiful eyes! How is your day going so far today?"
And i think your first few lines should be getting to know her as a vanilla person first. After breaking the ice, and then maybe ask some of the kink questions you have.
Also think about this. The way you ask your questions is very arrogant, AS IF she has already agreed to play with you. Both of you are just strangers! Most women would read that and feel offended and find you arrogant and since you don't own her, she doesn't even have to bother with you. That's gonna be like the first response it triggers. As you are the one approaching her, and not her approaching you.
Well. Remember this is not "plenty of fish". So be bad, tell her who you are and what you like and complement her in the way it is done here, most of them are showing you a lot of themselves and looking for notice so notice what they show and why you like it and tell them about yourself cause they are very much wanting to know about you.
Don't be too nice, you will lose her. Once you hear back and learn a little about what she is interested in with you then tailor your messages to her unique interests. I once started a porn short novel starring her and me using cmail and she would play her part and write back her part of the plot. Then it was a phone call and dinner and then it was rope and candle and red and blue/green stripes time and then it was collar time in kinda that order over several weeks.
Several weeks is not my norm. On the first and sometimes second face to face most of the girls have decided and are working very hard to interest and please you. Clean up your picture and use one that is accurate. work out if it is not to your liking, she will not notice as much as you think.
< Message edited by LTE -- 10/17/2017 9:55:55 AM >