quote: So, in your mind relationships never fail? People never make poor choices?
Men far outnumber women on this site and in a lot of the communities. That means that women get to pick and choose.
I read that at times. Actually, it is not true. Otherwise there would be few women on here. They would pick and be gone.
quote: Again, being able to pick and choose doesn't mean that everyone is making good choices. Some people make the same bad decision over and over and blame exterior forces.
But they can't and echo frustration all over the forums, those who "forum".
quote: You're not female and you've never had the experience of looking for a male Dominant. Whatever your experiences are, you are unable to have experience from our view point.
You can guess why that is and by the same reason it is the Doms and Masters who have the pick.
You're right, I have never had the experience of looking for a male Dominant but I have made mistakes being one and learned from the hurt I caused women when I made those mistakes. I've met many submissive women from here and I listen to them and I "listen" to you.