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RE: Improving Reply Rates - 11/11/2017 7:32:45 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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You're right; that is what this thread has been about.

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RE: Improving Reply Rates - 11/15/2017 3:29:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Men far outnumber women on this site and in a lot of the communities. That means that women get to pick and choose.


I read that at times. Actually, it is not true. Otherwise there would be few women on here. They would pick and be gone.
So, in your mind relationships never fail? People never make poor choices?

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But they can't and echo frustration all over the forums, those who "forum".
Again, being able to pick and choose doesn't mean that everyone is making good choices. Some people make the same bad decision over and over and blame exterior forces.

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You can guess why that is and by the same reason it is the Doms and Masters who have the pick.
You're not female and you've never had the experience of looking for a male Dominant. Whatever your experiences are, you are unable to have experience from our view point.


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RE: Improving Reply Rates - 11/15/2017 3:42:53 PM   
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And when the men we have to choose from are undesirable, we aren’t going to settle for the best of a bad lot.

It’s far better to happy alone thanunhappy and lonely with someone else.

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RE: Improving Reply Rates - 11/17/2017 7:22:46 PM   
LTE


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

And when the men we have to choose from are undesirable, we aren’t going to settle for the best of a bad lot.

It’s far better to happy alone thanunhappy and lonely with someone else.


That's what I said. You won't settle for less than what you deserve and since you have little here to get excited about you have little to choose from. It never has been a situation where the women have a great choice, much better than the men. I can find 10 great women on here for every male I think is up to the standard I and a few others represent. I had no trouble finding great women on here. I have one now from here. I had no trouble with reply rates nor getting first meetings and second meetings and long term relationships that are positive and meaningful to both of us. Some very amazing women from here. I am very grateful to know them.
The only way to get a great reply rate is to be great so work on being great and learn from mistakes and admit to yourself you made them and it was you and not the woman who rejects you. It's called mastering yourself. Women can sense it even in a cmail and are attracted to it. They rarely find it here. I know, I've seen cmail to submissives from here, it's pathetic at times.

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RE: Improving Reply Rates - 11/17/2017 7:27:48 PM   
LTE


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: LTE

quote:

Men far outnumber women on this site and in a lot of the communities. That means that women get to pick and choose.


I read that at times. Actually, it is not true. Otherwise there would be few women on here. They would pick and be gone.
So, in your mind relationships never fail? People never make poor choices?

quote:

But they can't and echo frustration all over the forums, those who "forum".
Again, being able to pick and choose doesn't mean that everyone is making good choices. Some people make the same bad decision over and over and blame exterior forces.

quote:

You can guess why that is and by the same reason it is the Doms and Masters who have the pick.
You're not female and you've never had the experience of looking for a male Dominant. Whatever your experiences are, you are unable to have experience from our view point.



You're right, I have never had the experience of looking for a male Dominant but I have made mistakes being one and learned from the hurt I caused women when I made those mistakes. I've met many submissive women from here and I listen to them and I "listen" to you.

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