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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 9/26/2006 7:53:42 PM

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Like most men who are active (and honest about it), I've tried anal stimulation, but it never did much for me.

For the elephants, however......

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 9/26/2006 8:05:44 PM

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I am a bit shocked and maybe Im missing out, but I am happy to say I have never tried anal and probably never will, the mere thought of it is a huge turn off for me....and I am being honest about it, people. I remember when I was in hospital they (silly nurses) thought I needed to go to the bathroom even though I did not want to...and they wanted to put a supository there and that freaked me out to the point where I was willing to do anything but let that happen, so I drank magnesium milk...was nasty, but the alternative was much worse.

Now I think there is nothing "un-Domly" about those who ask that of their female slaves, but a matter of preference, just not my preference. I am surprised to be in the minority here in this area.

However, nothing wrong with a rim job for humiliation purposes

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 9/27/2006 5:19:15 AM

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The anus is an eroginous zone for both men and women and the manual and oral stimulation and even penatration of it provide equal pleasure to both sexes. I think most men if not all that have provided anal sex love it for it's tightness and nasty forbiddeness. Personally, I have found that all women that were able to get by their first anal penatration and were able and willing to give it a second try can not live with out it for the rest of their lives. They end up needing it up their ass and it provides emence pleasure for both parties.
As a man I find it a very dominating act to tell and have a woman rim, lap and suck my asshole. I do this because it feels so good. A woman that loves anal and is submissive well gladly return the pleasure as she knows how good it feels. Yes it does feel good and can lead a straight man to wanting a cock in his own ass for the shear pleasure. I guess he/I becomes open to penatration and there is nothing sexier than been fucked/penatrated by a woman. .

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 9:22:23 AM

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Well, I expect to make it to the next NYC munch and want to meet you all!

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 9:40:08 AM

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I don't like my ass touched...it doesn't do anything to me....but I never killed any sub who touched it in the heat of the moment.

I heard from some friends, subs, they had Masters that liked anal sex a lott. So much that they liked to be fucked by them with strap-ons.
Personally I think they have some bisexual interest...but I think they should do what they enjoy.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 10:08:00 AM

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Holy Ressurected Thread Bat Man!!

All things considered I like when a girl knows what she is doing and stimulates my prostate while blowing me however I have drawn the line at Strap On Intercourse. Of all the reasons given and all the points allready made over two years ago all I can say is that I find the act of being penatrated anally an act of power and the person giving has it and the person recieving has given it. It is an Opinion I admit but it is how I see that act.

I happen to be a huge fan of giving anal penatration and at one time I even wondered about my own sexual preference because of my desire to take women anally however after an awkward situation involving a lot of drinking and a Kiss I have decided that 1) I am a Hetrosexual Male and 2) I could never be the bottom in an Anal Play Scene.

All that being said who knows what my Subconcious Thinks.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 11:27:37 AM

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 11:38:22 AM

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In the freakin' Bronx, too. You've got it all covered (I am a NY expat, used to live about 20 miles above you).

I am grateful for you explaining that - I had no idea. I know I played with this, with my then girlfriend, way back, in Amsterdam, and I remember getting a massive hard-on, but never met a girl into this particular play since. This is rarely mentioned, by anyone - a taboo? Like how many men think you don't come or ejaculate any more when you have a vasectomy?

Somehow life was easier, in Amsterdam and London, you didn't have to go through all the crap Americans are so fond of. You met somebody, and had sex first, because if that didn't work the rest wouldn't, either. Our "loose" reputation is very undeserved... (NOT)

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 1:18:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: thebigswitch

The anus is an eroginous zone for both men and women and the manual and oral stimulation and even penatration of it provide equal pleasure to both sexes. I think most men if not all that have provided anal sex love it for it's tightness and nasty forbiddeness. Personally, I have found that all women that were able to get by their first anal penatration and were able and willing to give it a second try can not live with out it for the rest of their lives. They end up needing it up their ass and it provides emence pleasure for both parties.

Not true for me. I'm a switch, and when I'm subbing, there is sometimes anal sex involved. But I don't enjoy it physically whatsoever. It is painful and uncomfortable. There is nothing sensually pleasurable about it at all for me. (And yes, it is done with preparation, plenty of lube, etc etc).

That being said, that doesn't mean I don't ENJOY anal sex while submitting, but it is specifically enjoyed as a submissive act, for me. Therefor, when I dom, I do not engage in anal sex (well, I'm not the receiver. I do enjoy being the giver, though.

). If I did enjoy it, then I'd damn sure make my subs service me anally. And it wouldn't be submissive at all.

I have serviced dominants anally, as well -- male and female -- including penetration/strap on. Didn't make them any more dominant, didn't make me any less submissive.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 2:11:02 PM

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I have come across some disagreement that its not a 'dominant' sensation to receive from ones submissive or slave.

I think it depends on intent. Is the sub/slave attempting to dominate? Or providing pleasure/service? My default in many things is to consider: what is the intent?

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 2:42:36 PM

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Having asserted it on previous threads, I'll do so here as well: I think it's more masculine for a man to be comfortable with receiving pleasure via his entire body and, via theway I phrased that, it should be apparent that I think it's entirely possible to be Dominant and love to be served anally.
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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 5:52:46 PM

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Anal sex can generate a sensation of peacefulness and quiet, a submissive feeling if you will. WHAT? A dom feeling submissive? It's who we are and what we do that characterizes us as dominant and submissive. Can a dominant never feel the need to retreat and refresh or a submissive the desire to become feisty and assert herself? We are far too complex a species to live fully in self made boxes.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/28/2008 9:59:23 PM

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i think that goes in a self esteem issue. are you submissive because you like you hole penetrated? or do you make soeone penetrate your hole. a male dom getting fucked on command is no different than a dommed asking to get fucked on command.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/29/2008 3:03:15 AM

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I am glutton for rimming and prostate massage and love it!
What more honest act of submission that the osculum infanum?
Pucker up!

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/30/2008 11:46:38 AM

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Master never has had me put anything into his ass, but loves it licked clean! nothing wrong with it if it feels good, do it

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/30/2008 3:53:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

I am not sure if there are any dominant males (particularly hetro) who would like to step up to the question of recieving anal.
I have come across some disagreement that its not a 'dominant' sensation to receive from ones submissive or slave. Is it something you would like, but find it difficult to demand?
And what about rimming? Is a strap on or dildo the next logical step?
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ByTheFuckingWay.... What in the world is a umdomley sensation??? Next thing you know the OP will be calling blowjobs undomely cuz someone else said so. Do you see how crazy this sounds?

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/31/2008 6:53:40 PM

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I feel that doms do whatever they like, if they're not hurting any one non consentually.

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I will address this as both an experienced dom AND a physician. As a (totally heterosexual) dom let me simply state that YES, I do sometimes enjoy taking it up the ass. Yes it's true. For some reason this simple fact horrifies some people. DOMS DONT DO THAT!

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 10/31/2008 7:34:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: gypsylee

interesting topic.

i have absolutely no problem with straight men enjoying anal stimulation. i lived with a gay submissive and have been told allllll about it :)

however as a submissive who revels in the traditional masculinity of being Dominated by a man i would feel uncomfortable pleasing Him in this way during a scene. i would feel less submissive. as a sub i am receptive - i take Him into me, i do not put things into Him. this is just me. it does not make Him less Dominant to want it.

hope that makes sense.
gypsy.

i happen to be a sub who is happy doing whatever it is the Dom wants done... whether that be "allowing" Him to do to me or Him ordering me to do to Him - it's all good in the end as long as He's enjoying Himself.
i don't have a problem with providing anal stimulation - with my tongue, fingers or whatever toy He chooses... like i told Him the other day, as long as i get His cum, the trip was worth it :)

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/1/2008 12:24:36 AM

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There is nothing like settling down on a submissive's eager mouth and just relaxing and letting go. OH MY FUCKING GOD That is is so hot but many talk a good game but being not only willing but eager is just a fantasy come true. One day I hope to meet such a woman but we shall see.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/1/2008 9:47:02 AM

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Oh, anything i do between a man's legs is done with eagerness... it does happen to be my favorite place to be.

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