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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/17/2008 3:56:42 PM

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Rimming is something I can take or leave.

No blow jobs, no rimming? wtf?

What? Having a woman lap at your balls and arse is the height of court intrigue?

It seems we're made of contrasting stock, Marie.

Do you even take your clothes off when you fuck?

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/18/2008 2:49:00 AM

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Rimming is something I can take or leave.

No blow jobs, no rimming? wtf?

What? Having a woman lap at your balls and arse is the height of court intrigue?

It seems we're made of contrasting stock, Marie.

Do you even take your clothes off when you fuck?

It is true that diplomacy often falls on deaf ears; I'll spell it out for you.

While your youth comprised of running 'round in iron knickers at catholic school, with the key safely tucked in your top pocket, and it was a time when the nuns had you scrubbing the floors and they generally made your life a misery; my youth was not restricted by catholic sobriety, and I made it my business to get my cock sucked on a regular basis.

You may feel liberated now that you've risen to the bare essentials of human contact, and you may have aspirations of being the cock-sucking queen of the century; on my side of the coin, this conquest and these aspirations are swimming 'round in the bottom of the barrel.

As for your question: when considering 'fuck' in the broadest possible sense, you're not so wide of the mark.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/18/2008 3:34:11 AM

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Did something just get shoved up my ass?

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/18/2008 5:44:31 AM

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Did something just get shoved up my ass?

Does it feel good?

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/18/2008 5:57:13 AM

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Did something just get shoved up my ass?

Does it feel good?

Not exactly...I don't think he's in far enough..

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/19/2008 8:04:17 PM

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Not exactly...I don't think he's in far enough..

mmmmmm maybe end needs an extention attached.. after all.. he is across the pond and it is a rather long reach.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/21/2008 1:30:10 PM

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Did something just get shoved up my ass?

I dunno.....a sniff of attention, and it's open season.

Next time you're in England, do pop 'round for a cup of tea and a chat about catholic school, Marie.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/21/2008 1:42:50 PM

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you guys are making me laugh :)
points for all of you :)

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/21/2008 3:17:26 PM

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For my 2 cents, i am a slave. It is my job to give Him pleasure at his direction. That pleasure can be found by taking a paddling for Him, sucking Him, getting Him coffee, or whatever.. it isn't what i am doing, it is the fact that i am doing it for Him and at His command. If He were to enjoy being paddled and told me to do it, i would (though i would hate every second) and He would still be in command, still Mastering me. Perhaps Mastering me more because i would not like that activity.

It isn't the activity that is Dominant or submissive, but the mindsets of the people involved.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 11/21/2008 3:32:41 PM

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see that's the way i think about it
if he wants something and i do it, it's still his will so i wouldn't see anything like that as him losing his dominance
even if he wanted me to cover him in sequins or something
it would be hard not to laugh, but it would still be what HE wanted

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/2/2008 2:21:42 PM

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I recommend offering the back door to all ladies. Even if she declines, it's OK.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/26/2008 10:47:13 AM

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i normally don't receive but i would with the right lady...i usually prefer fucking women in the ass

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/26/2008 12:20:37 PM

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And what about rimming? Is a strap on or dildo the next logical step?
Thanks in advance

No.. strap on and/or dildo is not the next logical step. I very much enjoy the sensation of rimming but... beyond that.. No! no desire or want for it and I never will. I played with a girl once who loved to stick her finger and whole hand into the ass as she gave a blow job. It was few wacks to the her head before she realize that her hand or fingers don't go there if she wanted to enjoy my cock again. Frankly, I am glad she changed her behavior because she gave an incredible blowjob... one few that got me off with a blowjob that I wasn't intimate with.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/26/2008 3:21:57 PM

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It isn't what you desire that would make you undomly, it is being unable to demand it for fear of appearing undomly that would make one so

Well said.

I agree! My husband has actually requested anal stimulation with my fingers, and I was glad to help. He enjoyed it and thus the act of being able to GIVE him that enjoyment was a great satisfaction for my submission. If he had never asked, I would never have been able to *give* that to him.

Isn't that what submission is about? Giving?

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/26/2008 5:56:13 PM

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Yep, it's about 'giving' for some people.....but not for all.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/26/2008 7:47:51 PM

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Well, I guess that's true....even I have my selfish nights when I tell my hubby "Look, I want you to beat my ass red and then I want to masturbate and that's it." Those nights aren't so much about giving for me!

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/28/2008 1:29:23 AM

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My daddy's have all been straight but enjoy digital and vibrator stimulation or a little licking on the anus.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/28/2008 12:50:01 PM

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I know you were looking for the hetero perspective here, but I just can't resist chiming in! First, I'd like to give a big bravo to all the straight dominant men who owned up to their enjoyment of anal stimulation. I don't think it means one has latent homosexual or bisexual tendencies; you'd only have that if you started fantasizing about a big strong man attached to the phallus or finger or whatever object you're using for penetration.

To those who don't enjoy it, I think you're missing out, either because of context or a few bad experiences. The right lube and the right object go a long way. My partner, for instance, can't stand fingers, and I can't stand his if he hasn't cut his fingernails recently. Petroleum jelly ruins it for me. My enjoyment also depends a great deal on mood and the state of my GI tract. I also find I can't bottom if I'm receiving genital stimulation at the same time, because it encourages my sphincter to contract. A complicated business, to be sure.

Second, a longing for anal stimulation has nothing to do with the authenticity of a Dominant man's power. Now, if he wanted to be called a sissy faggot bitch while his sub was fucking him, yeah, I'd think twice about his authenticity, even if he had instructed it. To me, the former is about pure physical pleasure, while the latter connotes a subordinated role through language, an entirely mental activity.

Finally, I'll share one of my favorite sessions I ever had with my partner. I had put him into chastity and restrained him on a flat surface. Then, I attached a head harness/gag with an o-ring through which I was able to attach a dong. Finally, I rode that dong while teasing his nipples until I shot everywhere. I'm sure there are still stains on the ceiling from that one. The idea of his caged cock while forced to watch a close-up of me being penetrated...Christ, it's turning me on again.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/28/2008 1:28:53 PM

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I fail to see how giving anal pleasure to Dom at their request being undomly? After all.....that is what they want and if we happen to enjoy it too then both win and the roles are remains the same. I still submit to his desire to be anally pleasured.

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RE: Dominants who desire Anal - 12/28/2008 3:12:58 PM

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I don't like my ass touched...it doesn't do anything to me....but I never killed any sub who touched it in the heat of the moment.

I heard from some friends, subs, they had Masters that liked anal sex a lott. So much that they liked to be fucked by them with strap-ons.
Personally I think they have some bisexual interest...but I think they should do what they enjoy.

Oh man , Just Darkness,
There is a HUGE difference, between loving anal play,
because the Men's G spot is in there, and bisexuality !!!
Cm on now man!

Bisexuality means that you're attracted to men,
and want to touch their body, and kiss them,
and all da rest
while anal play is just anal play...

That I've to explane this difference
to You even, suprices Me!

But I just did.

I wish You enough.

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