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LTRsubNW -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:20:34 PM)
Just another excellent reason for all women to be Cuckoldresses, having multiple men sexually available to them at all times. One to love and be in love with....all the rest to simply fuck for fucks sake :)

zumala -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:23:01 PM)
Don't feel bad, Bearlee. I'm on the other end of the booby spectrum, and I have to deal with 'boobs' telling me why they don't like women with A-sized breasts. I agree with you on the oral sex thing. Whee... one of the best things I've discovered since getting married to pup. [;)] zuma

agirl -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:28:34 PM)
Hello peaceNservice, Size doesn't matter until it matters.....lol I haven't read the entire thread, so excuse me if I echo anything already mentioned. Without going into details...I have had relations with two guys that I considered small.......I considered them small because I was familiar with rather larger specimens and hadn't known any different until then. There was a distinct difference between the two guys....... The first one was completely NOT bothered by it, in fact he REALLY didn't give a single damn. He was very successful with women, good-looking, slightly dangerous to know and VERY masculine. He was hugely confident and open, loved life and lived it full-on. Size did not matter in the least with him. The second guy was rather more likely to have created the scenario you described and I was left feeling as uncomfortable as you seem to be. This was when size DID matter to me ......it was the first time I'd ever had to think about it. It took a little while, but eventually I realised that it wasn't the size, it was the way HE was....as a person. The first chap was bigger than his penis size, bigger in the WAY he was, the way he handled himself and life in general. The second chap was not. What I'm trying to say (probably rather badly)......is that with the first chap, it was obvious that his ego wasn't attached to his penis. With the second chap .....I wasn't sure whether it was or not, I certainly wasn't confident that it wasn't. Neither of the relations as they were, ended because of anything at all to do with willies......but I rather think that the way I percieved they'd handle it, was quite a factor.......it certainly was indicative of the way they handled life situations and related, overall. Regards, agirl

Bearlee -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:34:44 PM)
^5 Zumala! smiles, bearlee

Bearlee -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:38:54 PM)
Actually, you said it quite well, agirl. And I would agree; to a certain degree 'size' is in the eye of the holder AND the beholder! The sad thing is...MOST women (I read somewhere) are not vaginally orgasmic; so what the heck; for most of us size shouldn't be THAT big of a deal! Of course, prissy men that are afraid of juicy women have GOT to learn to get over it; oral sex (both getting and giving) ROCKS! smiles sweetly, bearlee

MCandNuri -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:40:37 PM)
I've done the wrong name a couple of times. It's horrificly embarassing to me, really, it doesn't matter how much I say, "No no! I was thinking of you!" They never buy it, either they think I am flat out lying or assume it was a Fruedian slip I was unawares of. Apart from that, with M. ...unfortunately, it hasn't been what I have 'said', it's been what I have done. Guinness and Brautwurst do not a SEXY rear end make.

MCandNuri -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:42:04 PM)
Nuri, the AMAZING Squirt Gun Coyote stands and applauds you, Lady. Amen to that. Nobody's ever complained of my 'juiciness' before, though I did nearly drown a poor girl who was unaware that would happen.

DOM33416 -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:42:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Emperor1956 Anyway...It seems a slender thread on which to hang this poor fellow. Anyone got any favorite utterances "in the heat of battle" that they want to share? E. Oh absolutely. I've had many times in the bedroom where it was all I could do to keep from laughing out loud at someone who was just convinced they were the next Don Juan. I've learned many ways of extricating myself out of that and letting things finish normally. And, if it's a serious relationship, we TALK about it afterwards. It's pretty much the corrollary to the faking orgasm issue- once you let that ball start rolling, it snowballs into something completely ridiculous. Faking sexual pleasure really is never the way to go. On a surprise first time encounter, I can understand defraying- but anything AFTER that is just asking for trouble. she is a super sub , I did not want to bring up the laughing part but how do you not. I just read the post and I was rolling on the floor. Cute as a button indeed.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 1:54:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: Not trying to sound harsh, I just don't see it as a problem. The issue is him asking her, in supposed passionate heat of the moment sex "Can you feel it?" Maybe it's never been an issue? Maybe he thought she could? As KoM pointed out, a finger can typically be felt. I don't know how so many here have come to a conclusion that he was deliberately setting her up. The question now is what did she answer? If she panicked and said yes, then a conversation later would be appropriate. As agirl pointed out in a later post, the level of discomfort - the entire situation - depends on the dynamic of the Master as a person, and not his body part. I have been with various men over the years. I recall one or two who were very small. I recall one who was so large sex always hurt. They were good men. Dear, strong, kind, men. There are many ways to gain sexual gratification other than inserting a penis in a hole.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 2:16:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Maybe it's never been an issue? Maybe he thought she could? That's perfectly possible and I brought that possibility up in a prior response. quote: As KoM pointed out, a finger can typically be felt. Well fingers tend to also bend and flex and pinpoints areas that penises can't either. quote: I don't know how so many here have come to a conclusion that he was deliberately setting her up. I can't say that I would come to the conclusion, I don't think there's enough evidence to say that was what whe was doing or his intentions...but there is enough that I can understand where the idea would come from. quote: There are many ways to gain sexual gratification other than inserting a penis in a hole. Agreed, and I've adressed this in my prior responses as well. However, there tends to be a psychological element of fulfillment when it comes to penis penetration for many people that may or may not be an issue ultimately. No matter what happened before or during the act, it's obviously a legitimate issue NOW and needs to be discussed openly and as comfortably as possible.

peaceNservice -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 2:28:28 PM)
Wow THANK YOU for all your help!! Please no arguing ! lol Everyones opinion is gladly appreciated and how each would handle it. I didnt have to tell him anything. When Master called me before bed last night he knew something was wrong and since I didnt tell him he decided to come over early and surprise me. That he did because he who rarely reads the boards read my entry and knew it was me. He isn't angry or anything just a little disappointed I came to a public forum before I went to him but he understand that I didnt want to hurt his feelings. When he came over he said lets read what everyone has to say and we read all the replies that had come in to that point. He and I appreciate everyone, thank you again! What we did do later on was sit and really talk. I told him how horrible I felt about this and he said one thing that made a lot of sense. He agreed since he is sensitive about his size but not to the point he hid it from me, but I never brought up size being an issue and he didn't think I would mind. Before we were playing for a bit with toys and 4 of his fingers, I did get stretched out some, with how wet I was things werent so easy to feel. So today he let me have some fun. When he had me clean him he had already started to soften so no he wasn't as hard. He isnt huge or over endowed at all. We kept everything lighthearted, joking and teasing. After teasing and playing with him for abit he said that is the biggest he will get. We didnt get out a ruler I would have died but he both agree it is about 5 inches completely hard. I have fallen in love with him and have been so emotional about it because everything between us is so intense sometimes I dont know how to deal with the feelings I have. I told him this morning I loved him which was so hard to do but he held me and said if he didn't love me he wouldnt still be there. For him he thinks love is a important part also but didnt want to rush into it or say it before we figured out if our dynamic was just a flash in the pan. He isnt the type to rush anything, takes his time and makes sure what he is doing is what he really wants. Hell it took 2 weeks to figure out which damn cell phone he wanted!! LOL When I said that he said "can you feel your Master" it wasnt his exact words but along those lines. He laughed at me when he read that with me, he said I dont think if you wanted to you could recall what was said, with the state he had me worked up to. I agree but he said he did say "How do you feel nowing having your Master in you" So little slack here, I didnt have my wits about me!!! We did wait so long because he said it is a privilage, that I am HIS fuck toy, I am there for HIS pleasure and needs. I agree I am and that is what it is all about, serving my Master. Many many thanks for all your replies and insight. peaceNservice

MLskajira -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 2:30:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Maybe he wasn't aware that he's small. Or maybe he thought it wouldn't matter. Really, how was he SUPPOSED to tell her that he has a small penis? More like "Before we really get into things seriously, I just want you to know that my penis really isn't that big. I want us to have a very active and fun sex life and I definitely want to have many types of intercourse with you and hope you can take the time to get to know me in everything, but I know this can be a problem for some people and wanted to get it out in the open and know it's something we can talk about so you don't feel weird." again,LuckyAlbatross, you have cut straight to the meat. what a wonderful way to address so delicate a subject. this girl would hope that if she finds herself Masterless and meets someone who has a "shortcumming" they will be kind enough to word it in that very manner. and Lordandmaster,,,, how could he "not" be aware of how small he is? unless he has always squatted to pee, he had to touch it at some time in his life

agirl -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 2:41:00 PM)
Size COULD matter for me and maybe things about my genitals COULD matter to someone else.......but the most damaging part would be being in an environment where I knew or sensed that it MIGHT not be an easy thing to broach. It'd tell me that I wasn't quite where I wished I was, basically. agirl

CreoleCook -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 2:47:14 PM)
does anybody realize the size of this thread is longer than his --beeeeeeep----?

Bearlee -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 3:23:46 PM)
Dang, girl! How can you mistake 5-inches for an inch and a half? All kidding aside, like I said before; the first time is often NOT the best. It sounds to me like you have an awesome man on your hands; good luck...who ever you are. And...a note to the Dom; What a blessing you must be; what most wouldn't give to meet half the man you seem to be... bearlee

Aine -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 3:31:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee Dang, girl! How can you mistake 5-inches for an inch and a half? All kidding aside, like I said before; the first time is often NOT the best. It sounds to me like you have an awesome man on your hands; good luck...who ever you are. And...a note to the Dom; What a blessing you must be; what most wouldn't give to meet half the man you seem to be... bearlee Amen to that. The first couple time the boyfriend and I were together he was pretty unsure of himself and even asked straight out if I thought he was small. He's shorter than my last boyfriend, but he was also nervous those first few times so he was not as hard as he can get. Once I started introducing him to his own kink side, he got harder than he did our first couple times, which was your average, nilla sex. (though we did manage to "disturb" his housemates at the time when he tied me up and oral-ed me to heights I'd never been oral-ed before....and I heard about it after that...gawd how embarassed was I at the time) And yes, I will agree with what someone said at some point I think early on in this thread. The female genitalia -does- indeed adjust. I had originally had to adjust to the larger/longer size of my previous boyfriend whom I was with for about 6 years. I didn't date for a while, so I had shrunk until I got some of my drive back and broke one of my vibes (which also stretched me out a bit), and from there, I've shrunk again and now my current boyfriend fills me quite well at his full hardness. The thickness is something I had an interesting time adjusting to this time around.

LotusSong -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 3:37:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peaceNservice What we did do later on was sit and really talk. I told him how horrible I felt about this and he said one thing that made a lot of sense. He agreed since he is sensitive about his size but not to the point he hid it from me, but I never brought up size being an issue and he didn't think I would mind. Before we were playing for a bit with toys and 4 of his fingers, I did get stretched out some, with how wet I was things werent so easy to feel. So today he let me have some fun. When he had me clean him he had already started to soften so no he wasn't as hard. He isnt huge or over endowed at all. We kept everything lighthearted, joking and teasing. After teasing and playing with him for abit he said that is the biggest he will get. We didnt get out a ruler I would have died but he both agree it is about 5 inches completely hard. peaceNservice I was so hoping you would share with us how it went :) 5" is AVERAGE.. not undersized. He's normal :) I am so glad he read the posts with you and you two were able to share it all. I commend you both :) I remember my first time.. when we were done and laying side by side.. and I saw a spent peter for the first time (Catholic Girl you know- at the time). I said huh.. "so That's it" in a kinda quiet, thinking out loud voice. But that guy had my heels behind my head and other pretzel shapes :).

juliaoceania -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 3:39:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peaceNservice We didnt get out a ruler I would have died but he both agree it is about 5 inches completely hard. If he is about 5 inches that is in the realm of average. So average should be just right...lol.

KnightofMists -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 3:42:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee And...a note to the Dom; What a blessing you must be; what most wouldn't give to meet half the man you seem to be... bearlee ditto... the OP is fortunate

amuzingtoyou -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 3:58:58 PM)
one thing i have to say after reading this thread...there has been alot of talk about disclosing someones penis size before getting involved in a relationship. Well i don't really agree with this. There are women out there that have had children and are not as "tight" as we used to be, but yet don't really go around on a first day saying " im sorry but my pussy is kind of stretched out". In the grand scale of things does penis size really matter. I had all sorts of sizes of penis and i do have to say that the most creative and wonderful lovers were usually the ones who lacked a little in the size dept. So i would actually prefer a average 5" penis to 10" one. Im glad that the OP and her dom talked and seems to have gotten things straightened out.

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