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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

This is a general reply, to the comments following My post:

I have read the OP over and over, and just to make sure I read it once more.  WHERE DOES IT SAY THAT HE WAS SETTING HER UP, CONCEALING HIS SIZE, OR ANY OTHER INFERENCE OF DISHONESTY ON THIS MAN'S PART?  I come back to that point again and again.  If you see it, tell Me.  Or if you have the balls (metaphorically), read her post again and tell Me you were wrong.

Here's what I see based on the post, and then I'll note what I see is being inferred by "the crowd" (and I don't mean everyone...you know if you are in the castigating (or is it castrating, here?) group): 

WHAT SHE SAID:  A couple, new to eachother, spends 5 mo. real time dating, touching, teasing.  He seems to be very centered on her, and her pleasure.  At no time in this 5 months does she see him naked.  Nor does she touch his genitalia.  This is unusual, but not unheard of.  Then, on a romantic, big night, he penetrates her, and she learns he is very small (and unfortunately that she can't feel him inside of her.)

Here is what is inferred:  This guy has a small cock and KNOWS he has one, and he's deceptive, lying and concealing it (Frankly, it seems like a lot of effort for him to do all this for five months...but I never saw the supposed dishonesty in the first place).  Then the big night happens, and she doesn't feel it. Now he's deceived her...made her love him with this horrific hidden evil between them.  Indeed, he is EVEN setting up a situation where she'll be whipped if she tells him he's too small (MisPandora, that one was so far out of the ballpark I have to believe you were playing hockey while the rest of us thought it was baseball.  Or maybe men are from Mars, women are from Venus, and you (in this case only so that I've seen) are on some distant moon of some unnamed galaxy far, far away.  In other words, Miss, you called that one way way wrong). 
 
I agree that he probably knows he is small, although in thinking about it, Lord and Master is pretty accurate how men of a certain age would or would not learn about erect cock size in general.  I don't know that I saw another erect man until my late 30s...except my brother, and then genetics would tend to have us both about the same.  But will I condemn him because I THINK he might have known?  No.  And neither should any of you. 

And so what if he DID know he was small?  In my earlier post I made it pretty clear that I thought demanding a "I have a tiny penis" note was unrealistic and hypocritical.  I stand by that.

But here is the "meat" of this post:  I would like one of you who accuses this guy of deception to tell Me WHERE you get that?  Because he took things slow?  Because he was romantic?  Because he didn't fuck this girl on the first date?  There is not one iota of evidence to suggest he was deceptive (and NO -- saying things in the heat of passion like "do you feel your Master" is not evidence.  I am VERY happy that no one here is going to be able to recount some of the things I've said during sex.  And I bet most of you would blush having that tape played back, too.)

So, what I'm left with is two general takes:  first, that the OP got a lot of good advice about communication (and yes, LA, I'm with you there) and some lousy advice about her (once, apparently beloved) Dominant being a sneak, deceptive, abusing her, etc. because he had a small cock. 

Second:  I've learned that a bunch of people who post on here are judgmental and snarky, will misinterpret anything they read to satisfy their own demons (which they rarely have the courage to acknowledge) and that you post online at your peril unless you have a judge, a stationwagon full of nuns and an interpreter to back you up  (but, y'know...I knew that).

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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

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ORIGINAL: Amaros

... grind it! ... Personally, I love to watch a woman try to get herself off without using the usual appendage, cock or tongue: fuck my hand, my chest, my hipbone, my leg, etc., preferably with your hands tied behind your back, and maybe blindfolded heh. It forces you to become less passive, more active, get your whole body and being into the act - and it can really make you glow.

  O M F G !!!

 

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

5' hard is not small at all and is VERY different from the cute as a buttin1'2 inchest you told us yesterday... I dont know I find that a bit odd..
     Maybe its just me but I really dont think these forums was the best place to bring this issue!
Magik's confused slave