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submit2one -> RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- (9/24/2006 6:22:47 PM)
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peaceNservice,
There's a condition called juvenile genitalia, where the genitals simply never grow beyond a given stage in childhood.
I dated a football linebacker in college who was a great bear of a man. He'd been laughed at and ridiculed by so many young women that he was very difficult to get to know. When I finally got close enough to find out why he was such a private person, his penis was no larger than the first segment of my thumb, literally. He had balls and a scrotum that were fairly small, too, but the size of his penis just threw me into a fit of giggles. Alas I was no different than all those ladies who had emasculated him before me.
Many years later, I ran into a wonderful man, with heart, soul, gentility, honor, so many amazing qualities that once we got to the point of intimacy I never cared that his cock was the size of my little finger. I had finally matured to the point where I learned that manhood has nothing whatsoever to do with his genitals. Of course, he was very sensitive and self conscious about his size. After two decades of marriage, one night he just blurted out in the middle of intercourse that for once he'd like to strap on one of 'those cock extenders' and really put it to me.
I was absolutely stunned, but curious enough to find out if he was sincere.
He was.
We purchased.
It was FANTASTIC! He was given the joy of making me so sore I couldn't be touched for days, and careful selection of the penile extender gave us a toy that felt so real I nearly fainted underneath him.
We don't use it often, just when he's in the mood. He often asks me if I want to use it, and I very often decline, sincerely, because once I learned to sensitize myself to 'really feel him' that's what I wanted to feel to be satisfied.
Sometimes I am delighted when he asks to use it on me. I never ask him to strap it on for me because I don't want to emasculate him in any way. His happiness and security are far more important to me than my own.
So focus on both: focus on 'finding what he feels like inside you'. BenWa balls can be a great help, and so can very small 'pocket dildo's' that are approximately the same size of his cock. Buy a few even smaller than his cock and practice with them, play with them on your own. You'll be amazed at how sensitive you can develop your vaginal sensory perception on your own.
Then, when you have gotten to know him better and things are secure between you, explore the world of penile extensions and find one that suits you both.
Best of luck to you,
submit2one
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