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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 10:55:16 AM

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I saw one once about 14 years ago and she was OK.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:05:00 AM

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ProDommes are fine, but don't appeal to me because I'm seeking a more committed relationship.

"Like you"....well, you're too young for me and I don't think of myself as a 'loser'.

I think you'd be very exciting for a sub/slave who is just seeking sessions.

Really, anyone that starts off insulting someone they haven't met doesn't have the mentality I'm looking for (personal preference).

If I have established a relationship with someone as people, built on trust, respect, etc., then the insults and the degrading my manhood, whatever, can follow as it may based on whatever agreement we have made.

I don't hold the door open for a women just because she's a woman, or a Domme, I do it because it is a polite thing to do for another person. It's how you treat people without a pre-established relationship that shows your character.

With that said, how much would it cost to get my manhood degraded? LOL

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:07:29 AM

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Caution: it probably is not a woman! probably a man with too much time on his hands.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:10:33 AM

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Caution: it probably is not a woman! probably a man with too much time on his hands.

You know..I thought that after I had posted. EVERYTHING .. every complaint a disgruntled male would say was neatly put into one profile.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:10:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

With that said, how much would it cost to get my manhood degraded? LOL

I assume you'll be bringing the Hubble....

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:12:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Thank you, Pandora! You said it much more gracefully (and diplomatically) than I would have been able to!

This young woman has a lot to learn. I'd suggest that she be active in the lifestyle and interacting with both dominant and submissive lifestyle folks and learning the ropes, before hanging out her shingle. I have nothing in particular against pro Dommes, but those who are Dominant by their lifestyle choice and offering their services; I don't have much use for women who see money to be made in BDSM and so don the latex or leather trappings and go into business. First off, they give us real Dommes (pro or not) a bad name, and second off, they can really HURT somebody! Some of these "toys" are not to be played with lightly!

Gosh, and here I thought I was laying a spike strip across the road and then sneaking into the bushes to watch the car that hit it flip over......hmpf. Diplomatic? I'll have to work on correcting that next time!

I've never met NisPandora, we've never talked, but I've read her posts and respect her opinions and love her delivery - now MisPandora can call me a loser if she wants (my treat ;-), MisPandora is okay in my book.

With the minimal amount of exposure we have with each other, a relationship of sorts was formed as poster and reader; that's enough to change the dynamic between two people. MisPandora has made an impact on me without actually directing anything at me; She didn't need to resort to pre-emptive insults.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:15:32 AM

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With that said, how much would it cost to get my manhood degraded? LOL

i'm sure there are plentyo of Dommes who would do it for the fun of it (thier fun...not yours...LOL)

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:17:07 AM

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How about her introductory post on Introductions?

I'm frankly afraid to go to her website. I don't have blood pressure problems, and don't want to start!

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If you all think it's funny on here you should see her website!

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:19:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

I'm frankly afraid to go to her website. I don't have blood pressure problems, and don't want to start!

*takes a bp tablet and bravely goes to the site*

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:22:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you all think it's funny on here you should see her website!

goodness gracious, nothing says sheer dominance like a doggy style crotch shot

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:24:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you all think it's funny on here you should see her website!

goodness gracious, nothing says sheer dominance like a doggy style crotch shot

ROFLMAO

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:25:13 AM

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OMG go ahead and brave it Morgynn it will give you a giggle....as Ebony says, the very epitomy of dominance, especially the doggy style crotch shot *chuckles*

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:27:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you all think it's funny on here you should see her website!

goodness gracious, nothing says sheer dominance like a doggy style crotch shot

Aaaah!!

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 11:34:29 AM

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oh good lord...after reading this I did go to the profile. Niiiicccccceeeee

what's the web site? Did I miss it? (edited: nevermind, found it)

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goodness gracious, nothing says sheer dominance like a doggy style crotch shot

LMAO

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 12:11:50 PM

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ehewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :(

I'll pass, I'm glad someone else had the guts to go there and report, so I didn't have to get sick at my stomach!!! LOL. oh ye brave souls, you are TRUE Dommes!!!!

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OMG go ahead and brave it Morgynn it will give you a giggle....as Ebony says, the very epitomy of dominance, especially the doggy style crotch shot *chuckles*

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 12:24:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: Princessacandy

Im curious to hear the opnions out there on Pro Domina's... Like Myself...

OK, since you've not been back to answer my question here......I went ahead and looked at your profile to find out what "your kind of pro dom" is.

*cough* 'Scuse me while I clear my throat.

Using the greeting "Hey losers" was quite a turn-off.
So was presuming that the male reader is "a wimp."
You stepped down into the gutter by calling people "dumb ass".
You've not even bothered to show a photo of who you are.
You're 22. You've been on the site two days.

There are other ways of making an honest living as a pro dom by being sensitive to the honest seeker's needs and without being ignorant. I hope you don't disrespect the clients who put food in your mouth like you imply you do.

You have quite a bit to learn before you morph into one of the credible, hardworking professional dominas like many who grace the pages of DDI.

MisPandora's post to the OP addresses, with clarity, my feelings about the difference between an educated, skilled PRO Domme and the typical money whore 'tribute goddess' that is all too common here and elsewhere. The money whore attempts to hide behind a title and legitimize what they do by calling themselves a Pro, which of course is an insult to real professional Dommes. I think where these money whores really become harmful, is in the dilution/minimization of Pro Dommes as a whole and how they (Pro Dommes) are generally viewed. It's the whole 'a few bad apples...' thing. Problem is of course, it's just too easy to call yourself a 'pro' much in the same way that being able to create an unmentionable and call yourself a mother or father doesn't make you a good parent.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 12:36:04 PM

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I find it difficult to imagine that anyone that age could be a pro at much of anything

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 4:28:02 PM

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Hey hey hey! LaTigresse, 99% of the time I find your posts, witty, graceful and intelligent. However I'm younger than... that.... and I call myself a Pro Domme as well. Granted I treat my subs with more respect, and don't sound like a valley girl on coke (just listen to her "proof message

"), and I can offer more forms of domination than just "send me your money losers." But I am still 20. Age has nothing to do with being a crappy Pro, and I believe (slightly biased here) that it has only a passing relevance to how good/dedicated a Pro is.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 4:33:57 PM

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I seek a real D/s relationship, not a fake one for a price. That is basicly how i feel about it, that and there seem to be to many Dominatrix wannabes out there.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 4:39:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you all think it's funny on here you should see her website!

goodness gracious, nothing says sheer dominance like a doggy style crotch shot

That was My immediate impression also. So immediate that, along with a quick glance at her navigation topics, I did not care to go further.
To the OP: Like you? I dislike it intensely, and you are, unfortunately, the typical example I would point to as the online gal looking for an easy way to make a buck. And this profile is the exact reason we have so many WW III's on this message board and others about this subject. You are not a Pro Domina, IMO. The attitude (as well as an extreme lack of vocabulary as evidenced by the 6 posts I was able to read in 60 seconds including click time) is a huge disservice to the Pro Dominas who are Pro Dominas.
And that is as tactful as I can be.

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