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bipolarber -> RE: forced bisexual acts (12/18/2007 7:06:17 PM)
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Okay, we were all saying some interesting things until about page seven, then the signal to noise ratio really started to slip into the realm of BS.
Michael, if you really don't want to be pushed into this area, just tell your Domme (should you ever get offline long enough to try real life) that is is an absolute hard limit. (One of among your hundreds) I'm not too fond of testosterone poisoned types myself, but I certainly don't condemn half of humaninty on the basis of a single flipped chromosone. Try to deal with people as individuals, okay? It's a much more rational way to approach life.
Now then, being a male sub, and having been in this situation a few times, I'd like to make a few observations, please. First, even for bisexuals, just because someone is the same sex, does not mean we're automatically attracted to them. Sometimes, this form of play is more about getting over your reluctance to play with a certain person, rather than just their gender. Secondly, the posters who have stated that we subs who obey this sort of order are indeed correct in saying that we are doing it to please our dominant partner. To please them, AND to prove to ourselves that we are up to the challange. Does sucking a cock, under duress, make someone gay? No. Does it make them bisexual? Not if they don't find themselves enjoying the experience, no.
I DO take exception however to a couple of the posters who have said that they would like a sub to go through this, so that they can then start using the label "cocksucker" as a means of humiliating them. My hope is that they know what they are doing, and can read their subs really well. Because in doing this, you will be possibly inducing a MAJOR identity crisis in someone who hasn't done this before. I just hope they intend to be there with the equivelent aftercare needed, since the effects of their scene will last for a very, very long time after their scene has ended... and perhaps a very, verly long time after you've broken up with that sub, and moved on with your lives.
My first experience with this was with a couple. The wife was someone who absolutely loved watching men have sex. (She had the largest gay video porn collection I'd ever seen...) She also had a "thing" for pushing boundries. I'd been playing with them for several months when she told me at the end of one session that the next week, I'd be putting on a show with her husband for a coffee clatch of other Fem Doms. I would be tied, and her husband would have free reign to use me.
I was absolutely freaked for several days, but I eventually got used to the idea. I made calls to her husband, and we talked about it. He was okay with it, and this was not going to be a first for him. At least as far as playing with another male was concerned. He was having his limit pushed by having to play with me in front of a group of other women. It took me a while to psych myself into it. Sure, I'd fantasized about this kind of thing since I first started masturbating... but aside from spanking a guy at a party, I'd never taken it any farther. I figured, what the hell... here's my chance to try it, with someone I at least knew, and if it didn't work out, I could always tell myself I was bound... so what choice did I have? (Ah! The sub's ally!) In retrospect, letting us know what was coming was both reassuring, and a huge anticipation builder.
That Saturday, I showed up at the appointed time, and I was taken to the basement dungeon, stripped, my hands cuffed behind my back, and blindfolded. Her husband fitted me with an anal plug (to help prepare me) and then left me in the middle of the room to wait. The "crib radio" was on, so if I felt distressed, all I had to do was call out. He went upstairs to act as waiter/servant for the social.
I kept breaking out into a sweat as I listened to the people arriving upstairs, and the muted conversations as they all sat around, having coffee. Finally, a couple of hours later, they came downstairs for the day's "entertainment."
I think the worst moment was when I realized that there were others there than just Dommes. Some of the ladies had brought their submissives, of course. I was going to have to do this in front of other males!
Music started. I can't remember, really. I think this was the first time I'd heard Enigma... Anyway, about the time the dance beat began, I felt her husband's cock feather across my lips. "Suck it." He said. Hesitating, his hand went under my jaw and he pulled me toward him. Her husband was pretty average, frankly, but to me, the first time and blindfolded, he felt huge in my mouth. He sank in slowly, letting me get used to the feeling of him at the back of my throat. (I'd been practicing a few days before, trying to get over my gag reflex.) There was a murmer of appreciation through the audiance, and he began to slowly pump my mouth.
I felt really awkward. I was trying to do several things at once: keep my lips curled over my teeth, try to angle my head so I wouldn't be hitting my gag spot, keep breathing. It took several minutes, but I was able to finally relax into it. The heat of him, the musky scent and the almost silken texture to his cock really took me by surprise! Finally, I was able to start giving something back. A little tounge work, a little swallowing to create a pull on him.
After several minutes, I could feel his tempo increasing. His wife told him, quite firmly, "come in his mouth.... boy, swallow."
It was a rush of fluid, so much, mixed with the runnels of saliva leaking from the corners of my mouth, that I couldn't catch it all.
There was a round of applause, and I was given a short rest. Her husband was able to recover within a half hour, and we finished our "show" with him taking me from behind. (but that's not really on topic...)
If you have the flexability, this sort of scene can be unbelieveably hot, and push your level of submission into another dimention.
To each their own.
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