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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 6:58:45 PM

Jasmyn

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So what you're saying (lmao, have always wanted to use that crap line) is you don't believe that dominance in women exists?

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:00:20 PM

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If you ignore it, it will go away.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:03:24 PM

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Jayslave77…….I know where you are at.

The answer to your question is really very simple - dominant women, as you want them to be, simply do not exist. This is the true source of your frustration.

Yeah, this is likely just an alias from one of the frightened little men who claim female dominance doesn't exist--because the thought terrifies them to such a degree that they absolutely can't cope with it.

I've run into this type in real life before. Generally speaking they are the sons of insanely abusive, monstrous fathers...and mothers who were silently enduring, submissive doormats. These guys will kill a dominant woman sooner than admit she can exist--because if they acknowledge that even ONE WOMAN in the entire universe has any strength of will and character, then they'll also be forced to admit that Mommy had no excuses for letting her boy be treated that way by his Big Bad Daddy. They'll have to face the fact that she could have and should have done something to save or protect her child. And they will be forced to admit that what they went through as children was not the "natural order"--because all men are strong and all women are weak--it was just abuse, which happened because Daddy was a psychotic animal and Mommy was a pathetic weakling.

Such men defend the notion that dominant women don't exist because it's the last pillar that supports their view of the universe. If it goes? Then the whole worldview comes crashing down.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:05:42 PM

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Yes - you are in Category #1.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:06:56 PM

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Category #1

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:08:29 PM

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lol so my assumption is correct ...

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:10:34 PM

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Huh?

I think you are a Category #2 - the thought pattern alone is enough to scare the guys away...........

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:11:46 PM

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True - your entire motive is financial gain.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:12:46 PM

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Don't feed it , don't feed it, don't feed it........

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:15:17 PM

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I know - my orginal post hits too close to home and is uncomfortable for you.

But it is only one man's opinion - why does that scare you into silence?

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:15:41 PM

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lol Kc how is your day?

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:19:31 PM

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I think you are a Category #2 - the thought pattern is enough to scare the guys away...........

Lol...I have been an actively sexual being since I was an 18 years old, and in that time I have rarely ever lacked for male (or female) companionship. I've been on this site for less than 2 weeks, I believe--and I have several pages' worth of messages, not including the ones I've deleted. I'll probably be off the market soon, regardless of how I dawdle. It's just a question of which man I decide to choose, and putting in the time to get to know him.

Do I frighten men like you? I'm sure I do. Just as I am sure that you are an alias for one of the few mouthy little boy-doms around here who like to espouse this same worthless, misogynistic "argument".

Regardless, the best solution to someone like you is simply shunning. You obviously can't get women to pay attention to you by any other means than being a troll. There are several men of your ilk on this site--the sooner you learn better social skills, the better off you and everyone will be.

In the meantime, if dominant women don't exist? Clearly I don't exist. And if I don't exist, I clearly can't hear you. Welcome to the Block function. Enjoy your stay.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:25:34 PM

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It is so easy to attack when hiding behind a mask..........what a moron. 99? 250? right.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:32:54 PM

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It looks as though it is left to me to render the fairest judgment on your post.

I'll start with the negative - it is true that you don't have much of a profile and that truly does have to be factored in accordingly.

Also not sure if it is fair to label anyone here individually (calling them out, so to speak) - or, at the least, it is bad form.

But, you are also getting the typical knee-jerk negative reaction I knew was coming from your post after I read it.

My feelings on your post itself is that it is more on point than not.

That said, I do believe there is that third category that submissive men like myself are seeking. They just are nearly impossible to find. Even sheer logic points to this, if we say there are 20 submissive men for every 1 dominant woman to begin with. That being the case, how many of these "category 3" women are actually online and available, when they are that much in demand to begin with?

I believe I have come across some of these mysterious category 3 creatures but I sometimes wonder as more than one time I have found myself exchanging e-mails with someone I seem to be pretty compatible with and then all of a sudden I just never hear from them again.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:36:24 PM

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My question - how would changing my profile information to reflect my true age and weight have any influence on my advice to the orginal poster on this thread?

What is your point?

Repeating:
I have found that when one does not have a vaild arguement to make against a postion, or the brains to compose an argument in the first place, the typical tactic is to attack the messenger and ignore the postion to be argued against.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:39:01 PM

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as more than one time I have found myself exchanging e-mails with someone I seem to be pretty compatible with and then all of a sudden I just never hear from them again.

It happens on both sides...which is why so many of us say to get out in the real world and go to munches and meet people. I have met a few really great people on here. But until I actually meet them in person, I am always a little leery. So while online is a good tool to meet compatible people, when all you are wanting is cyber, you are probably going to have to pay. If all you want is your own fantasies fulfilled, you're probably going to have to pay. So, to bring it back around to the OP, if you don't fit into the cyber only or fantasy fulfillment arena...get out to your local community, learn and live. Enjoy yourself.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:45:18 PM

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I respect your comments - all of them.

In my view you have a better chance of winning the Power Ball Lottery than you do in finding a Category #3 Domme…….but I do wish you success in your search.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:53:54 PM

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I have found that when one does not have a vaild arguement to make against a postion, or the brains to compose an argument in the first place, the typical tactic is to attack the messenger and ignore the postion to be argued against.

When someone shows up with a wet behind the ears account and their first post is nothing more that a wholesale insult directed at all dominant women, do you really expect to receive a different response? Perhaps if you weren't so insulting from the start, the replies you've gotten would have been a touch more cordial.

Just a thought.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 7:58:59 PM

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get out to your local community, learn and live. Enjoy yourself.

That sounds good but I never found getting out to the local community to be of any great benefit (and this is coming from someone who lived in NYC for 17 years, where you would think things would be better than at most places). We are talking both S&M clubs and BDSM groups like TES here. Again, most of the women there are either professionals, already attached or someone you wouldn't be interested in regardless - with the remaining few (or maybe none at all) being chased by any guys there. Now, I'm in Tucson and not convinced anyone here has even heard of BDSM or female domination!

Presuming the original poster is sincere, I get where he is coming from - and I do just don't think women (dominant or submissive) can appreciate the frustration that a submissive man constantly goes through given that the odds are so much against him. I don't mean to imply that things are "easy" on your side and that you don't have your own things to deal with (going through endless junk e-mail, for instance) but I don't think it compares.

I think my own personal problem right now is that most dominant women don't want to put in any effort towards someone if they don't live next door to them - regardless of compatibility - as deep down they know there is always someone else right around the corner.

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RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult - 10/22/2006 8:13:17 PM

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It's wonderful, thank you, Jasmyn....I'm trying out my new years resolution early. I have chanted it alot today. It's don't respond to or feed trolls, how am I doin so far? LOL I didn't do well with another one the other day, so I'm trying hard with this one...

**shields eyes with troll proof glasses as she walks away***

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