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michaelGA2 -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 5:50:03 AM)

the search for others



becca333 -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:03:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash

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ORIGINAL: becca333

Most nicks are intriguing.  If a nick was nasty or outright rude, I wouldn't be interested in the person.  But generally I try to respond to all polite contacts.  The message is more important than the nick.
(tounge in cheek response)
So it's safe to assume that "Juan Hung Laou" might not raise an eybrow as long as he didn't mention he drags a ditch where ever he goes...lol? OK...my bad, couldn't resist..I'll have another coffee.


LOL!

Well.... I'd certainly engage in polite conversation with him...

And is that coffee a flat white?  If so, I'll have some too, thanks.



gypsylee -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:06:22 AM)

well personally i don't really care what a person's genitalia looks like... tho i don't like fake boobs.... but i ain't searching so i'm kinda irrelevant :)



shadevarr -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:15:17 AM)

If the nick is descriptive of who they are I count it with the same weight as their whole profile. So something like "hairypussy4u2use" would account for 50% of my opinion of the person while someone with a nick like oh "snowwhiteraven" would get 100% of my opinion from their profile.



sharainks -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:15:41 AM)

I hope CM never allows adult photos.  Those wanting that can always go to alt.  As a female seeking a male those photos are pretty discouraging.  You open a page with 50 results and 49 of them are a penis only photo. 

To me thats not a lot different than meeting someone on the street and having them extend one hand to shake yours and unzipping and yanking their penis out with the other.  I've never responded to one of those profiles and never will. 



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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i have a question about that...if CM ever finally allowed for us "adults" to actually show "adult" pics of ourselves...would that make a difference?



amaidiamond -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:24:24 AM)

I'd agree on the adult photos thing, I don't care what a mans penis looks like it's his mind i'm interested in first and formost, the rest is just packaging, ok I have things I am attracted too or turned off by physically but colour, shape, size of a mans penis makes not one bit of difference!
As for screen name, I would try not to judge on that however as was mentioned I think if someone contacted me with a name that went against my hard limits IE *looking4K9slut2use* or *scatplay4us* then I would find it very hard not to form a pre-concieved oppinion, I'mk not seeking anyway so i don't get PMed much but if I did i'd most likely reply out of politeness provided the email was not rude or abusive.



becca333 -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:24:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sharainks

I hope CM never allows adult photos.  Those wanting that can always go to alt.  As a female seeking a male those photos are pretty discouraging.  You open a page with 50 results and 49 of them are a penis only photo. 

To me thats not a lot different than meeting someone on the street and having them extend one hand to shake yours and unzipping and yanking their penis out with the other.  I've never responded to one of those profiles and never will. 



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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i have a question about that...if CM ever finally allowed for us "adults" to actually show "adult" pics of ourselves...would that make a difference?



Why do men feel the need to send photos of their dangly bits - as if it's impressive?  That 'last chicken in the shop' look (thank you Red Dwarf) doesn't really have women crawling over broken glass to get to them!

Although some of them do provide comic relief.



toy2006 -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:32:07 AM)

I personally find it erotic to look at a man's penis. That is something SO sacred to them; you NEVER get to see penis in the movies or anything, and they never describe them in books. If i like his penis, I'll request a pic of his face, so I can recognize him when i meet him. I have an ad on AFF, and have a million pics of cocks, and I enjoy looking at them....



amaidiamond -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:32:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: becca333

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ORIGINAL: sharainks

I hope CM never allows adult photos.  Those wanting that can always go to alt.  As a female seeking a male those photos are pretty discouraging.  You open a page with 50 results and 49 of them are a penis only photo. 

To me thats not a lot different than meeting someone on the street and having them extend one hand to shake yours and unzipping and yanking their penis out with the other.  I've never responded to one of those profiles and never will. 



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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i have a question about that...if CM ever finally allowed for us "adults" to actually show "adult" pics of ourselves...would that make a difference?



Why do men feel the need to send photos of their dangly bits - as if it's impressive?  That 'last chicken in the shop' look (thank you Red Dwarf) doesn't really have women crawling over broken glass to get to them!

Although some of them do provide comic relief.


Though it may have woman crawling over broken glass to get away from them.....



twicehappy -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:32:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UnvailedPurpose

My comment about your pretty ass was genuine and predicated upon the picture you posted.


Lmao.......i can verify that she does indeed have a definitely desirable derrière.
 
And as everybody knows the name "ScooterTrash" attracted me immediately.
 
 



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:33:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i have a question about that...if CM ever finally allowed for us "adults" to actually show "adult" pics of ourselves...would that make a difference?


It would make all the difference in the world to me.... I simply refuse to talk to genitalia... I get down right testy when someone feels the need to send me a pic of everything EXCEPT their face.

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I place little value in pictures and/or even casual meets. The tools or toys I seek to work with are of an inovative creative mind, a devil may care attitude and unquenchable thirst to wander down the path challenge and seek out the unknown. The picture means noting neither do features. 


That's more what I am looking for. I do insist on sending a facial pic within the first few emails though, it's nice to see who I am conversing with.
 
Jewel



SirLordTrainer -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:36:44 AM)

Generally I'll avoid such IDs like SAM_girl, cant_tame_me, brats_r_us, and the like.. To Me its like a big red flag slapped across their forehead. chuckles



TNstepsout -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 6:56:00 AM)

Nics with of a kink related nature such as "luvurfeet" or "abusemeplease" just don't get far with me. I have a hard time taking these people seriously. Probably because most of them disappear pretty quickly. I might answer an email but I don't spend a lot of time. If a nic of that type is coupled by a badly written, or hardly written email, and a three line profile, forget it. It guess it's kind of like a point system.

Now a kink related nic with some humor to it such as, "MasterBlaster: or "TwueSub" would earn a few bonus points.



Daddysredhead -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:03:13 AM)

"What's in a name?" 
A person's nic definitely gets my attention.  I think it gives a little insight into the person and whether or not they gave much time in creating it.  If it is crass or refers to body fluids or something, I most probably wouldn't pay much attention to that person and wouldn't contact him or her.  That's just me...



mstrjx -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:32:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond

I don't care what a mans penis looks like it's his mind i'm interested in first and formost.



You don't realize it, but you ARE looking at his mind in most of those cases.



Level -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:33:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirLordTrainer

Generally I'll avoid such IDs like SAM_girl, cant_tame_me, brats_r_us, and the like.. To Me its like a big red flag slapped across their forehead. chuckles


Good point.



Kalira -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:34:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

Just out of curiosity... does the nicname a person chooses here have anything to do with whether or not you will contact them? Or if they contact you first, does it have anything to do with whether or not you'll reply?
 
Jewel

No, not for me; I base my decision to respond on what the person actually wrote, not the name it was written from.



SweetSarijane -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:39:05 AM)

It can influence whether or not I respond if it's particularly nasty or vulgar or if the message sent to me and their profile tells me not to bother. Overall it's usually a combination of those things that determines whether or not I choose to respond and how.



CrappyDom -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:43:14 AM)

Based on my experience? 


YES



sapphirepleasure -> RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether or not you respond/contact them? (10/15/2006 7:49:51 AM)

I tend to avoid nicks that have '69' in them!  And once on another site, some guy with a nick that was something like 'lickitandstickit69' got very offended when I didn't answer repeated emails and finally explained why.  He just didn't get it.

Also the really strange ones like PigMaster (whose profile talks about how all slaves are his pigs) or the dude who wants to cut off women's hair as a fetish and indicates so in his nick, profile and email get deleted/blocked, too.



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