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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 8:33:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: AlexAussieSub

Morrigel, were you really attracted to the athlete guy that you talked about because of his body?

Abso-fucking-lutely. Six and a half feet of exquisite chocolatey goodness, toned and rippling hard. Not to mention the inches he was packing elsewhere; he was gifted beyond the norm in more ways than one, physically.

Former player for the Houston Rockets. Bit of a self-absorbed pathologically lying "playuh" type, but of course I didn't care. All I was doing whenever he was talking was nodding and smiling and waiting for the next appearance of "the Big Monster" anyway.

(Women are such pigs!)

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 9:46:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: Mikal

I second that Lotus... the males I correspond with are people I wouldn't mind meeting in person & having some sort of friendship with (assuming they're not cleverly disguised whack-jobs... lol). Now, if there were only female subs/switches too.... *heaves a big sigh*... but, I'm not looking either, so... meah.

The guys are great. Even the Domly ones like Ron and LaM... luv muffins, the lot of 'em.

*coughs softly and does the behind-the-hand-not-so-covert point to her icon which, of course, links to her profile*

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 10:04:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aine
*coughs softly and does the behind-the-hand-not-so-covert point to her icon which, of course, links to her profile*

*whispers: yes, nice profile and pics, but YOUR NOT LOOKING EITHER!!! So, ppttttttthhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh*

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 10:17:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aine
*coughs softly and does the behind-the-hand-not-so-covert point to her icon which, of course, links to her profile*

*whispers: yes, nice profile and pics, but YOUR NOT LOOKING EITHER!!! So, ppttttttthhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh*

*grins toofily*

teehee

*takes a BIG breath and lets out a lengthy raspberry of her own back, and eventually giggles and ends up in a coughing fit*

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 10:46:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aine
*grins toofily*

teehee

*takes a BIG breath and lets out a lengthy raspberry of her own back, and eventually giggles and ends up in a coughing fit*

Hmph. Serves you right! *sticks out tongue*

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 10:56:02 PM

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Hey! That's -my- line! lol

*crosses her arms and pouts*

How wude!

(I'll be dissapointed if y'all don't get that reference, forgiven if you're not used to American tv)

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 11:05:57 PM

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Hey! That's -my- line! lol

*crosses her arms and pouts*

How wude!

(I'll be dissapointed if y'all don't get that reference, forgiven if you're not used to American tv)

I don't acutally watch tv... not enough time, and I'm not interested in mind-numbing fluff. I'll visit my family if I want that! lol

Pout all you like luv. I have a bulldog who is the Queen of Pout, and it still doesn't get her anywhere.

Oh, and I'm Canadian. Long live the beaver.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 11:11:19 PM

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Oh, don't get me started on mind-numbing fluff.

And my reference was to something from my childhood.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 11:17:34 PM

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My boy is 'little' in the sense of being only 5'6" and 122lbs, but he has great muscles and 8-pack abs. He also has gorgeous hair and a happy surprise in his pants. Not the 'type' I used to look for, but very pretty. Somehow he manages to be cute, masculine, AND intelligent. Did I mention he cooks? Yeah, I'm SO not looking anymore.

My point is that brains and beauty and personality CAN be found all in one male, so don't worry, they are out there.

When it comes to picking sub boys to play with, I don't actually pay much attention to their looks though. It's only the boys I want in my bed I care about physically - what a surprise, eh? lol Most of my subs are a bit overweight, or otherwise not conventionally attractive.

Erm, it just occurred to me how long this thread is... Did I already put my two cents in? If so, blame the late-20s dimentia.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/12/2006 11:43:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aine

Oh, don't get me started on mind-numbing fluff.

And my reference was to something from my childhood.

lol... and the reference would be to what? Come on, I'm not so far north as to not know older tv shows... some igloos have cable!

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 12:47:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: fergus

Just to toss it out there for discussion ... I think attractiveness in men does help their situation (naturally a lot of other factors apply - your milage may vary).

But I think another strong factor in holding the attention of many women is the size of their ....

.... wallet.

Before the angry and/or contrary posts start ... I am not talking about you! I am talking about many other women on the site (pro or not)

fergus

Nah....the whole wallet thing is an urban legend that's been fostered-about by guys with inadequacies in other areas.

I don't know what the ''some'' are doing who makes these claims, but in all my life I've never been approached by a single one of these ''money-girls''.

Haven mixed drinks and been in the alcohol business for ten years, the best techniques I've seen for husltln' women involve what I call '' Clique cultivation''

The social stature is constructed through a ''cheerleading'' process where members of the clique engage in a proverbial ''patting on the back'' to build up each other's stature.

I've seen a lota non-sophisticated, penniless men, pull women this way

- R

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 11:55:05 AM

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I've never seen a question with such an obvious "Yes" answer in my life. It's like asking if Paris Hilton garners more attention than Grandma Moses.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 1:26:33 PM

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Full house.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 2:30:04 PM

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Odd -- the very last femdom event I was at, there were 2 masculine subs on leashes, and NINE sissies or pantyboys attending to dominas. Not sure where you're hanging out, but your statistics are a bit flawed.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 2:42:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: TreSwank

I've never seen a question with such an obvious "Yes" answer in my life. It's like asking if Paris Hilton garners more attention than Grandma Moses.

Yeah, but if Grandma Moses "accidentally" released a sex video, I would totally buy it. Can't say the same for Paris.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 5:51:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Male subs, do you feel that when you have to compete for the attention of femdoms that "more attractive" male subs (who may be players, jerks, have bad personalities or be bad news) get the lion's share of their time? With there being so many more male subs than femdoms, does it make it harder to stand out in a crowd? Have you found that at munches and in bdsm circles that femdoms will compete for the attention of 1 male sub who is new, novel, attractive and leave the other dozens of regulars and proven subs out in the cold?

Akasha

Lemme think now...hold on...it's coming to me...just a sec...I'm feeling this....so you're asking me if a hot guy makes a chic jump...or a hot chic makes a guy squiggle....

Uhhhhmmm.....

I think this is fairly basic.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 8:31:01 PM

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i have been in the lifestyle for 7 years and to be honest i have found the key is training act with respect with manners with knowledge of the lifestyle and who you are and you will not have problems.

if you only concern is your needs then yes you will have a battle a Dominate wants a sub that is into bringing them pleasure and putting them first and trusting in the Dominate that they will look after your needs.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/13/2006 10:50:09 PM

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Why does attractive usually tend to equate with less intelligent, meaner, or more of a player?

Anyway, speaking for myself, I prefer more strong-willed subs, and physical attraction is a bonus. I like taming a man or woman who will give me a bit of a challenge. Essentially, I like someone who I feel is my equal in all ways except them giving themself to me.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/14/2006 12:40:49 AM

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Why does attractive usually tend to equate with less intelligent, meaner, or more of a player?

One of the laws of nature. When people can get away with more? They usually do.

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RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more ac... - 11/14/2006 2:25:04 AM

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At least you have a nice body.

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