emdoub
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Joined: 10/22/2006 From: Minnenipples, Minnesnowta Status: offline
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I don't mean to pick on any one person here, 'cause lots are doing it - it's just that this was the best example of what I'm being unhappy with. quote:
ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave Exactly.. I have seen many posts like this and have seen many people say... You want to embaress your sub as punishment so you are usieng us to punish her without our consent... leave us out of your personal life and your punishments!!! You consented when you read the thread, and consented even further when you posted to it. If someone posts something that you don't think they should have posted, then go on to another topic - if it's truly off-topic, the mods will take care of it pretty effectively. Peer moderation is mostly catty, futile, and decidedly not something I'm ever going to respect. =-=-=- In reply to the OP - personally, a lie to me from my sub would result in a safeword - mine. That is behavior that I simply will not accept - a second offense is the most that anyone will have a chance for. That said, if public humiliation is what he's going for, a publicly-posted apology, confessing to the crime, would probably be more effective and less likely to be hijacked with cries of "oh, he shouldn't have had you post that". If he wants to give another chance to someone who has proven that they cannot be trusted, then the punishment should fit the crime - in other words, it'd be easier for me to offer suggestions if I knew what it was you'd lied about. Midnight Writer
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