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Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 11/25/2006 11:41:45 PM

Bangee

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Hello, I am new to the lifestyle. The doms that I have been with wanted me to shave my pubic hairs and do an enemas. I told them that I didn't know how to do this and I needed some help. Could a dom please inform me how this would happen? I know this sounds crazy but I need understanding.

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 11/25/2006 11:46:03 PM

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**started to type, then realize she had no words.*

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 11/26/2006 1:56:30 AM

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Shaving:
Soon to be Shaved

This Week's Pubic Hair Thread

Brazillian Wax Jobs and Pain Management

Ingrown Hairs

Speaking of Razor Burn

Shaved hot or not?

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Trimmed or shaved? and razor burn

Shaving questions??????

Another shaving solution

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One More Shaving Question

Not Razor Burn...razor bumps!

Permanent Hair Removal

Enemas:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_42459/mpage_1/key_enema/tm.htm#42459
enema

http://www.collarchat.com/m_240438/mpage_1/key_enema/tm.htm#240438
Tap Water Enemas- unsafe?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_274016/mpage_1/key_enema/tm.htm#274016
Enemas- is there anyway they can be harmful?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_341877/mpage_1/key_enema/tm.htm#341877
Slightly different questions on enemas

http://www.collarchat.com/m_479868/mpage_1/key_enema/tm.htm#479868
a question about cleaning

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 11/26/2006 2:54:33 AM

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Hi and welcome to the Forums....

Apologies in advance that I've developed a habit of not actually answering what's asked....

Now, these "doms", they'd be people you've met r/l, even had a relationship with? Cause I'm seriously hoping this isn't some web-cam thing you've been dragged into by a bunch of dom voyeurs/wankers!

See, even though enemas are not something I've ever had interest in personally, I would imagine with those who do, the dom/me does it to the sub.... And you seem to be asking how to do it to yourself, yes? And the help you need, you couldn't get it from them?

I'll leave the shaving advice to the ladies but there are Doms (such as yours truly) who don't all like their girl bald down there. I'd recommend you let your r/l Master decide what's best down there, then seek help achieving that if needed.

And a repeat encore: Please tell me that this isn't some web-cam thing you've been dragged into....

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 11/26/2006 3:19:01 AM

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A lot of people equate shaving and enemas with being clean especially when engaging in mouth-to-anus or other anal play. Enemas aren't necessary really. One can purchase an anal syringe to "douche" the anus without going for an entire bowel cleansing. You may want to ask the Dom to clarify.... is He into enemas or is He just looking for anal hygiene?

Shaved? There's a few reasons for that... He saw it in a porn movie and thinks it looks hot, He is looking for cleanliness and clean-shaven reduces odor. Personally, i keep a tuft of hair above the clitoris because i like hair-pulling but also want to keep clean so everything else is shaved. i use a razor and tea-tree oil instead of shaving cream. Tea tree oil provides a close shave, non-irritating, keeps the skin so soft and reduces the incident of razor bumps and has a mild and pleasant smell. You will find tea tree oil in the African-American hair care section of the drug store. Few of us have the money to maintain brazillian waxes or undergo laser hair removal.

i hope this helps.

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 3/8/2007 8:00:47 PM

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Magic Shave, its for black men's facial hair, can be found at walmart. Amazing results and unlike some other products it never irritates my skin.

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 3/8/2007 8:12:46 PM

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OK, one of Heloises most helpful hints there profile not found.........

Shaving is done in the front and enemas are done in the rear.

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 3/9/2007 4:52:56 AM

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For my money, if I was your Dom, I would assist your learning by doing them to you myself, at least the first time. It builds additional intimacy and can play on your psyche if done properly.

The only other thing I wanted to say is that you really shouldn't 'do' an enema all that often. Once or twice a month is certainly safe, and somewhat more frequently perhaps, although I've not risked it. You don't wish to mess too much with your inside lining.

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RE: Sub seeking advice on shaving and enemas - 3/9/2007 9:58:32 AM

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quote:

Hello, I am new to the lifestyle. The doms that I have been with wanted me to shave my pubic hairs and do an enemas. I told them that I didn't know how to do this and I needed some help. Could a dom please inform me how this would happen? I know this sounds crazy but I need understanding.

ORIGINAL: Bangee

I wonder if California has a bunch of lazy doms?

Shaving is best done (in my evil opinion) by the dominant (and as properly comment on earlier some prefer well carpeted mons) preferably with the submissive spread and bound.

Enema's don't usually do much for anal rectal cleansing. The rectum generally has no fecal material of size in it. However billions of E. coli bacteria would fit on a pin head so I would imagine that a dozen sequential enemas will still test positive for E. coli. The small fleet enemas at the drugstores have directions. Larger enema bags need to be dealt with cautiously. If the dom wants the enema for hygiene he's sort of silly. If he likes the control aspect (which is common) then it's not so silly. However in my opinion she should be stripped, bound and spread, and have the enema administered with whispered words of encouragement and forced to hold it for an appropriate period of time while a spanking is administered. (Though the dom might end up saying "oh shit..." in that case

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