Slavetrainer2007
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At this point i realized how misused Master, Sir, Lord and every other title was just to pick up "willing girls".
This seems a very odd statement coming from someone who claims to have trained 134 girls. It's just not computing in my mind.
As I recall, you said 100 or so online, 30 r/t and 4 that you have personally collared. (Just out of curiosity, any of those still collared by you?) Would you consider using the word 'trainer' to pick up girls similar to using Master, Sir, Lord etc.? If not, what's the difference?
Also out of curiosity, any of those 134 willing to give you a reference?
Celeste
edited to add:: Opps.. maybe I shouldn't have asked that reference question.. didn't know you were sensitive on the issue as your post came through after I had written this one.
1 is still collared , though not with me at the moment( she is away visiting family for the holidays:) )
I was making a guess on the online considering i didnt have my resume prepared, but their is only so much you can teach/learn online without taking it to r/l and online its easy to have /deal with multiple girls at once. ( not technically at once but you catch my drift) R/L takes a lil longer typically a few months to a year depending on schedules( i work construction so i have alot more free time in winter than summer for example) the girl, what she wants or desires.
Online - anyone who lasted more than the first 1/3 of training. probably 1/2 of that figure made it to completion, at least from my point of view.
R/L- anyone who lasted 3 months or better. maybe a dozen or so made it to completion.
The 3 previous subs ive "collared" before now lasted from a little over 1 year to 2 1/2 . two subs served at times that overlapped each other for a time.( i wont get into that ). my current has been with me almost 4 years.
I dont get references as it makes this feel like a job and if it is someone owes me alot of backpay. But i do have previous subs( real life only) that will vouche for me and that i am sincere, provided i feel the need to give such validation which i typically reserve for only sincerely interested subs( can you imagine me using you as reference and constantly being bombarded from every Tom Dick and Mary asking you to validate me all the time). This is why i reserve my "references" to people who actually warrant needing them.
You asking the question didnt bother me really. Though i still am still not getting the need people feel to validate everyone, including people they have no relationship with in past,present, or future. To me this is sticking your nose where it dont belong.
No offense towards you as this isnt directed at you, celeste. But people should stop looking to validate everyone else on these boards. People come here for support and conversation with like minded people. We( those that are new) arent applying for a job, we arent trying to get your approval nor do we care about your approval . I'm here to please Me not you or you or you or you. I don't feel a need to validate myself to you, because you put your pants on the same way i do, one leg at a time. Someone mentioned in this thread i believe about future generations. the general rudeness and bitterness and just plain stick your nose in everyone elses business that has progressed in BDSM both online and in real life in the last 9 years is going to scare the hell out of newcomers. You guys/girls should help the new people, you should welcome and be grateful they came to you with questions and advice. It seems to me alot of people need to learn people skills as they forgot such when they learned BDSM .Like it was said , if the new generations of doms/subs have to teach each other it going to be bloody scary. You should be concentating on helping people instead of validating everybody and everything. What has BDSM came too? I havent really visited recent BDSM sites in the last couple of years or boards for that matter. But when did it become so bitter and disrespectful? when did people start requesting resumes from people they will never have a relationship with? When did people get so wrapped up in trying to get "dirt" on everyone else. When did Doms starting insulting a community and certain areas and/or interest in that community they are a part of and it became funny and humorous? thats just plain disrespect for your community and everyone in it. This( BDSM) use to be a respectful community that respected and tolerated everyone, their ways, their beliefs, as long as the showed the same respect. So why are people who ask noobish questions flamed? why are people with less than 100 post count flamed. Why are people telling other people whats right and whats wrong? This was a community in which their was no right or wrong.. it was His way her way your way their way. now if its not your way its wrong. Why do people get so wrapped up in the name instead of the person behind the name? has this community became that shallow?
Rover asked me about real life groups i was associated with. TBH i feel kind of embarrassed to be assoicated with BDSM at all and what it has become. I backed out of the active "lifestyler" groups a couple years ago because i could not tolerate the disrespect and nosiness of those people in that group. I didnt want to particapate anymore, i was only learning distrust and how to be bitter, deceiving and other things i didnt want to subject me or mine too.
What happened to the trust and support and friendships and everything else that made BDSM and exciting lifestyle. Im sorry im a bit old school. All the resumes and guilty till proven innocent and you have to be a member and particpate at this this and that in order to be a valid Dom is just a bunch of BS. If i attend a few meetings at the VFW hall does and show you a picture of me at those meetings with time and date does that make me a vet?Its pathic and im ashamed of what this community as become with their judgements and qualifications and demos to learn how to be a proper dom. or how to do something that interest you. i didnt realize that We( doms) had to go to school to learn how to live. Im sorry but im not going to learn how to be dom how to paddle flog, use candle wax or anything else by watching another dom. If you cant "play" and use enough common sense, to properly paddle someones arse without killing them or breaking a bone or causing severe head trauma then you really need supervision in every aspect of your adult life. Thats what i dont get about it Training in something that only requires some caution and and common sense. Did you know the tip of a bull whip when it "snaps" is moving at the speed of sound or faster for a brief moment and thats what causes the "snap". that may not be common sense but heres a clue ITS A BULL WHIP meaning its actually used on bulls/large animals. using it on a human who has alot less thick hide like its used on a bull will remove human flesh is large filets. How about a cattle prod, heres a clue.... its used on cattle an animal that outweighs most humans by 1/2 ton. while im on electrical play. defibulators( the paddles) use electric and apply current to the heart to "jump start" it. applying electricity in any amount( the higher the amount the more the risk) that will at any point pass through a functioning heart could cause the opposite of "jump start" .electricity applied to the brain ( which completly functions , as everything else in your body, on electrical current) could cause brain damage and/or damage to other organs.
My god, this is common sense. this is high school level common sense. you cant teach common sense. if a dom aint smart enough to know you cant snap a bull whip( ive wittled a wood post with the tip of a bullwhip, try it on a side of beef you can make your own hamburger in about 15 min) at a sub and not seriously injure her then he needs to feel the whip a few times himself for lacking common sense. IF a girl is naive enough to let said dom try it on her, she is just as dumb as he is and IMO thats a match made in heaven.
anyway this got way offtopic and im done ranting. as i stated the last part of this posted wasnt directed at you celeste. It was directed at the general community i for some reason i now feel ashamed to be a part of.
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