deadlylover
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Joined: 9/7/2006 Status: offline
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A Dom will of course have a say, but he should be able to respect my own decisions. A woman will know if she is ready for a child or not, or if she will be able to cope with an abortion or adoption and so her own say should hold more than his. Yes, he helped in creating it, but he isn't going through the physical and emotional changes of carrying the child for nine months, although he will suffer the consequences of them. In the end, as drawntothedark said, it is my choice because it is my body and my mind and not his own. If a Dom told me to have an abortion or to put the child up for adoption, it would depend on the situation I was in. In your own, AquaticSub, I would consider since I am in college as well and I wish to finish before children. Still, he would not tell me I will or will not do this just because he is the dominant. Even if he does not agree with a decision I make, he should at least respect it. If not it shows he has no real respect for you anyway because of a decision you have made which will affect you for years to come. Just my own opinion on it, of course. And I do think breeder slaves would be the exception to this since they are probably meant only for breeding purposes.
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